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 Posted: Sat Jun 09, 2007 7:55 am
GigglyGal IceintheInk GigglyGal I pine for **my** guy.
He doesn't even know I like him.
I won't see him again.
I won't get to tell him I like him.
All because he is french.
heart crying Don't let that stop you. There's always a way. I'm sorry, all the hers and hims and other hims just confused me. Could you re-explain it?
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Posted: Sat Jun 09, 2007 8:01 am
IceintheInk GigglyGal IceintheInk GigglyGal I pine for **my** guy.
He doesn't even know I like him.
I won't see him again.
I won't get to tell him I like him.
All because he is french.
heart crying Don't let that stop you. There's always a way. I'm sorry, all the hers and hims and other hims just confused me. Could you re-explain it?
Went on French Exchange
Developed a huge crush on the best friend of my exchange partner and of her long-term boyfriend.
My crush kept showing off (bike wheelies, etc.) but I don't know whether for me or for her.
He also tried to speak English for me, although he doesn't learn it.
...and claimed he was going to give up smoking after I was talking about how I hate the habit.
I came home
Six months later, I finally built up the courage to ask my exchange partner for my crush's email address
It turns out he dowsn't have email.
I can't tell her I like him because I don't know if he likes her...
Is that more logical?
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Posted: Sat Jun 09, 2007 8:01 am
GigglyGal IceintheInk How come if this is what women want, do they never go with the guys who would give them that? Every girl I've ever been with, I treated her with respect and kindness and did damn near everything up there, and here I am with no one. Meanwhile the sexaholic jerks get more girls than they can handle.
Also, the girls that get branded loners or freaks, just because they never get looked at by the jerks you mention or turn them down if they do.No offence meant, but come on! We're not mind readers! Personally, if a girl doesn't seem like she's interested in me, I will leave her alone. I don't go for all this 'hard-to-get' s**t, cause then you're in dangerous territory, and believing that a woman is just playing hard to get is how people get raped. -.-
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Posted: Sat Jun 09, 2007 8:04 am
GigglyGal IceintheInk GigglyGal IceintheInk GigglyGal I pine for **my** guy.
He doesn't even know I like him.
I won't see him again.
I won't get to tell him I like him.
All because he is french.
heart crying Don't let that stop you. There's always a way. I'm sorry, all the hers and hims and other hims just confused me. Could you re-explain it?
Went on French Exchange
Developed a huge crush on the best friend of my exchange partner and of her long-term boyfriend.
My crush kept showing off (bike wheelies, etc.) but I don't know whether for me or for her.
He also tried to speak English for me, although he doesn't learn it.
...and claimed he was going to give up smoking after I was talking about how I hate the habit.
I came home
Six months later, I finally built up the courage to ask my exchange partner for my crush's email address
It turns out he dowsn't have email.
I can't tell her I like him because I don't know if he likes her...
Is that more logical?It sounds like he totally likes you! I don't see how you could confuse it with him liking your friend... it really does seem from the sound of it that he was doing it all for you. Hey, if he doesn't have email, do you at least have his address? Everything doesn't have to be done by computers just cause we live in a technology age.... write him a letter. Letters are so much more personal than emails anyway. You don't have to proclaim your love for him in the first letter... just... take the chance. You won't lose anything by doing it that you wouldn't lose anyway by doing nothing.
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Posted: Sat Jun 09, 2007 8:06 am
Aw...that was good. I would have cried, were I that type of person.
*sighs*
Naturally, the one I like has no clue I exist and is currently pining for another gal.
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Posted: Sat Jun 09, 2007 8:07 am
IceintheInk GigglyGal IceintheInk GigglyGal IceintheInk GigglyGal I pine for **my** guy.
He doesn't even know I like him.
I won't see him again.
I won't get to tell him I like him.
All because he is french.
heart crying Don't let that stop you. There's always a way. I'm sorry, all the hers and hims and other hims just confused me. Could you re-explain it?
Went on French Exchange
Developed a huge crush on the best friend of my exchange partner and of her long-term boyfriend.
My crush kept showing off (bike wheelies, etc.) but I don't know whether for me or for her.
He also tried to speak English for me, although he doesn't learn it.
...and claimed he was going to give up smoking after I was talking about how I hate the habit.
I came home
Six months later, I finally built up the courage to ask my exchange partner for my crush's email address
It turns out he dowsn't have email.
I can't tell her I like him because I don't know if he likes her...
Is that more logical?It sounds like he totally likes you! I don't see how you could confuse it with him liking your friend... it really does seem from the sound of it that he was doing it all for you. Hey, if he doesn't have email, do you at least have his address? Everything doesn't have to be done by computers just cause we live in a technology age.... write him a letter. Letters are so much more personal than emails anyway. You don't have to proclaim your love for him in the first letter... just... take the chance. You won't lose anything by doing it that you wouldn't lose anyway by doing nothing.
I just realised I never added in but I didn't know his name until I asked her xp I kind of went all gawpy when we were being introduced redface
I shall try to find out his address, preferably without her thinking I'm some kind of crazed stalker, but still. Thanks for the positivity!
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Posted: Sat Jun 09, 2007 8:10 am
Maybe you should tell her you like him... she might be more willing to help if she knew she was helping love. =]
And hey maybe she could talk to him (in a subtle way of course) and find out for certain if he does like you.
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Posted: Sat Jun 09, 2007 8:10 am
IceintheInk GigglyGal IceintheInk How come if this is what women want, do they never go with the guys who would give them that? Every girl I've ever been with, I treated her with respect and kindness and did damn near everything up there, and here I am with no one. Meanwhile the sexaholic jerks get more girls than they can handle.
Also, the girls that get branded loners or freaks, just because they never get looked at by the jerks you mention or turn them down if they do.No offence meant, but come on! We're not mind readers! Personally, if a girl doesn't seem like she's interested in me, I will leave her alone. I don't go for all this 'hard-to-get' s**t, cause then you're in dangerous territory, and believing that a woman is just playing hard to get is how people get raped. -.-
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Posted: Sat Jun 09, 2007 8:11 am
IceintheInk Maybe you should tell her you like him... she might be more willing to help if she knew she was helping love. =] And hey maybe she could talk to him (in a subtle way of course) and find out for certain if he does like you.
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Posted: Sat Jun 09, 2007 8:11 am
GigglyGal IceintheInk GigglyGal IceintheInk How come if this is what women want, do they never go with the guys who would give them that? Every girl I've ever been with, I treated her with respect and kindness and did damn near everything up there, and here I am with no one. Meanwhile the sexaholic jerks get more girls than they can handle.
Also, the girls that get branded loners or freaks, just because they never get looked at by the jerks you mention or turn them down if they do.No offence meant, but come on! We're not mind readers! Personally, if a girl doesn't seem like she's interested in me, I will leave her alone. I don't go for all this 'hard-to-get' s**t, cause then you're in dangerous territory, and believing that a woman is just playing hard to get is how people get raped. -.- Lol I tend to be pretty shy when I'm around people I like too. Or, more depressingly, I sometimes put on this completely fake front and become a total pervert around them. It's not good. ._.
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Posted: Sat Jun 09, 2007 8:12 am
GigglyGal IceintheInk Maybe you should tell her you like him... she might be more willing to help if she knew she was helping love. =] And hey maybe she could talk to him (in a subtle way of course) and find out for certain if he does like you. If you can't admit it to her how are you gonna be able to admit it to HIM when it matters?
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Posted: Sat Jun 09, 2007 8:23 am
IceintheInk GigglyGal IceintheInk Maybe you should tell her you like him... she might be more willing to help if she knew she was helping love. =] And hey maybe she could talk to him (in a subtle way of course) and find out for certain if he does like you. If you can't admit it to her how are you gonna be able to admit it to HIM when it matters?
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Posted: Sat Jun 09, 2007 8:25 am
IceintheInk GigglyGal IceintheInk GigglyGal IceintheInk How come if this is what women want, do they never go with the guys who would give them that? Every girl I've ever been with, I treated her with respect and kindness and did damn near everything up there, and here I am with no one. Meanwhile the sexaholic jerks get more girls than they can handle.
Also, the girls that get branded loners or freaks, just because they never get looked at by the jerks you mention or turn them down if they do.No offence meant, but come on! We're not mind readers! Personally, if a girl doesn't seem like she's interested in me, I will leave her alone. I don't go for all this 'hard-to-get' s**t, cause then you're in dangerous territory, and believing that a woman is just playing hard to get is how people get raped. -.- Lol I tend to be pretty shy when I'm around people I like too. Or, more depressingly, I sometimes put on this completely fake front and become a total pervert around them. It's not good. ._.
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Posted: Sat Jun 09, 2007 10:26 am
That was wonderful and touched my heart...because it's true.
We all look for the perfect someone, not just guys.
Let's just keep in mind to be fair and kind in life.
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Posted: Tue Jun 12, 2007 5:35 pm
aw...that really spoke to me....especially about the part where you feel like you won't ever get over anyone. crying
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