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 Posted: Sun Jun 17, 2007 10:18 am
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Posted: Fri Jul 13, 2007 7:29 am
In my opinion I think that if someone is rude to you or mean to you on purpose then you dont realy need to be around them.I think the worst part of what your "Friend" did is her abandoning you at the sight of her other friends. Most people would say that you should try to work it out, but if someone is causing you emotional pain and they cant even relise that they are hurting you then you need to forget them and move on.
In my school there are only 2 groups that I ever even talk to.
The one is the type of "goth"and "emo" people(they dont know the meaning of depression or hatred they claim to but it is all an act from them)
These are the Materialistic creatures that think that just because you were a type of clothes or because you listen to metal you are goth.
I tell you this so you can understand that I have delt with the same type of people who think that just because you have a skate bourd you are a skater. Those people think of only themselves and they can be vary hurtfull.
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Posted: Mon Nov 19, 2007 11:45 pm
You might be ignoring a very childish issue you friend might have.
You said she got on your case because you enjoyed something?
That sounds like jelliousy. A lot of people get hung up on wanting something they cant have. Some of the most obvious ways to deal with it is to berate that one thing. Now this does not mean that your friend really wanted that whatcha ma jiggy. Some times people really like a certain thing and well to feel the same about something else well that would feel like they are neglecting there true passion. Often there are those that don't have that one special thing they really like and become envious and jellious of those who do.
People all over the world have diffrent ideas an opinions as to what is appropriate for people there age to like. For instance some one who strives to be more adult would be vexed by one who acts like a child. What is good for one person is not good for another fortunately part of growing up is understanding this.
I have had a similar experience with a girl.
I was talking about a place I had visited and she over herd.
I really liked visiting there and but she decided to tell me that I could not possibly like it there because I was "Not a skater". So in her mind there was only one thing good about that town and I liked it for all the wrong reasons. I sat there kind of astonished. To her she was absolutely right but for me it appeared to be quite arrogant. If I lived her life and walked in her shoes I would probably discover that skating is much diffrent to her than it is for me. To over look everything else and put skating on a pedestal is ok. Skating is not my true love or means of expressing myself so we will never see eye to eye. I understand her. Despite differences understanding people or friends makes life a lot easier.
Finally one last thing before I go. I am sure your friend is having a difficult time finding her place to fit in as you are. The problem is to make room for yourself to grow you have to separate yourself from others. At least until you are strong enough to really let others in. Unfortunately it is easier to put down and exclude than it is to accept. Often it takes a accepting and understanding person to help someone to break the habit of excluding and hurting others. Not everyone has these people to fall back on. Parents do not raise there children the same as you where raised. People do grow up and some times you have to guild them.
Even if you friendship doesn't work out keep in mind these things.
It will really be important some day. I am sure it will help with any future friendships.
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Posted: Wed Dec 12, 2007 3:02 am
Your "friend" is an idiot, and not really much of a friend, to be honest.
Friends boost each other up, not tear each other down.
Also, she seems a bit image-obsessed. If all she cares about is what you seem like to others when you're out having fun on your RipStick, she's probably not seeing anything beyond that anyway. If she can't see past what she considers a "wannabe" vibe from you, she's not worth having as a friend.
Next time you're with her, don't wait for her to ditch you for other people. SHE's the one that's not worth YOUR attention. If anyone should be getting ditched, it's her. So yeah, ditch her before she has a chance to ditch you.
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