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 Posted: Thu May 17, 2007 11:17 am
i havn't kissed anyone yet aside from on the cheek so i really wonder what it would be like
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Posted: Tue Jun 19, 2007 8:18 pm
I've always thought about both genders since before I understood what being gay, bi, and straight meant. Some people can be born bi due to an extra horomone or something from the other sex.
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Posted: Thu Jul 12, 2007 8:50 am
plainly stated. i've liked girls my whole life. when i was like 5 i used to have my barbies make-out with each other. i came out two years ago. i'm bi, but i tend to lean towards chicks, because i have guy trust issues.
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Posted: Fri Jul 13, 2007 10:58 pm
i simply found out when me and my male friend experimented he seemed to kinda fall out of it but i kept thinking about it once in a while, that was a long time ago, though lately i started to doubt myself thinking i may have just been in a phase and are straight but recently i got to kiss a guy on the lips for a 1st time for truth and dare and that confirmed things for me that i'm bi cause i wanted to do it again redface
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Posted: Tue Jul 17, 2007 3:28 pm
I actually think i new when i was in 3rd grade. All of my friends had a crush on this one boy only i liked on of my friends but couldn't say anything so i pretended to have a crush on a boy, and later i fantacised about both sexes and am in a relatiohship with a male so now i'm bi
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Posted: Tue Jul 17, 2007 10:44 pm
My mother told me it was because of a lack of a good "father figure" in my life. However, I was always approached more by girls in my youth, and because I was a really shy kid I just started hanging out more with girls. So, going into high school I was a bit more effeminate, and was shunned by the male population of my age. Somehow or another, I just started hanging out with the "older kids" who completely supported the "Sexual Revolution", and gradually realized that I was attracted to men. C: SO, to sum it up, I am gay because I hung out with a very accepting crowd in high school, who helped me accept what had been a part of me for a long time.
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Posted: Fri Jul 20, 2007 9:18 am
Goodwitchofthesoutheast I don't really have a reson, I just am. I always culd tell when a girl was pretty, but I was more interested in guys, then on day it hit me "I'm bi!" But is was like learning about something that had always been there, not becomeing something different. ME TOO! *high five*
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Posted: Sat Jul 21, 2007 6:15 pm
Like a lot of people have said, I just always new.
When I was about 12 I knew I was looking at girls and not at guys. So I took it to mean I was probably bi-curious. Then as I got older I realized I wasn't curious, I was actually bisexual.
After that I had my first boyfriend AND my first female experience. That was when I knew I was bisexual but leaned more towards females. Then I had my first girlfriend and the truth came out that I am a lesbian.
Now Im 17 and still trying to deal with being a lesbian. Its something I've wished I could change for many years. Just now am I beginning to come to terms with it and accept it.
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Posted: Sun Jul 22, 2007 8:32 pm
Well **cracks knuckles**
I sometimes say I'm bi, when the truth is far form that. I am gay. all the way. I catch myself looking at girls, but I simply feel it is jus ta natural reflex of my raising. Thus, I find myself looking at every guy I pass. Scanning for anything that could be a clue, something that could make me pull out the courage to talk to him.
I first started noticing guys back when I was about...idk 12 or so? Well, short story made short, the Babysitter wasn't much older than me, maybe 14, 15? And at some point we experimented (iniciated by me of course). I Believe that it was this "experiment" that now has evolved into an almost complete oral fixation.
I put myself into denial for years, all the way through middle school up to about 11th grade. I told myself that it wasn't right to like guys..that it wasn't me. Yet, all my fantasies were of guys, NEVER of girls.
I came to terms with myself after tlaking to some ppl on DeviantArt.com. And that is where I met my best friend Patrick. And a yea rlater, he is my babii ^^
I know I'm gay, I just fool ppl due to my raising, I act str8. yupyup. That's me in an overprossesed paragraph. ^^"
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Posted: Tue Jul 24, 2007 11:28 pm
*claps hands* bravo story
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Posted: Fri Jul 27, 2007 2:52 pm
-deep breath-
a T.a.T.u music video. Thats when I started figuring it out. sweatdrop
I was in sixth grade a very confusing time for me [I just moved to a different state, I was actually making friends and started middle shcool.] and I had this habbit of staying up all night playing Yahoo music videos. So T.a.T.u comes on. I was all 'whats this?' so I decided to watch the video. And if you don't know who T.a.T.u is - their a lesbian singing couple [Very cute girls too], and so in this music video [All The Things She Said] they kiss. So I watched kinda like =O and it stayed in my mind for weeks. And I was confused cause well, I didnt mind.
So two eyars later in 8th grade - tada! Out of the closet with my friends. They were actually really cool with the fact that I swung both ways. [I thank the msucial RENT completely. My two friends used to be homophobic before I told them but are completely fine with it now.] I ended up coming out becuase of band class, I was dared to kiss this really hot girl while on the back of the band bus and we ended up going out. So thats how I told my friends. Just by simply saying I was asked out in band class and was going to say yes and that her name was Jerrianne.
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Posted: Fri Jul 27, 2007 10:31 pm
i'm bi. i don't know when it happened but i was never very popular with guys and i always saw girls as very pretty and it was a bit more than a jealous kind of feeling haha. i remember in like grade 7 i kissed a girl for a dare and a guy but my memory is bad so i dunno what i felt at the time. i have only ever kissed a guy in a serious kind of way but that would be because i'm shy with guys and i'm not planning on coming out until the end of high school because i can't deal with the judgement since my self esteem is already non-existent. anywho, i like both guys and girls, probably leaning more towards girls but i'm gonna need more experience before i'm comfortable with myself.
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Posted: Sun Aug 05, 2007 3:45 am
Because my brains were born that way. Not much I can do about it.
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Posted: Mon Aug 06, 2007 6:40 pm
Although I think the title is stupid, no offence, I'll post here anyway. o:
To be quite truthful, I have no idea 'why I am' anything. <- Not the start of an emo rant.
I say 'anything' in the terms of I have no what I am.
All I know is I'm possibly gay.
Okay, now the awkward introduction which made no sence is over, I'll explain better.
When I was young, I had a female best friend. Of course, since we were young, we were clueless. We were going to get married and have the reception in macdonalds and that was that! We'd kiss - nothing serious, of course, because when kids are kids they play "house" or "families" and me, being the dad, went to work. So the goodbye kiss and welcome home kiss came 'naturally.'
There was another guy in our group, and we werent as close to him. But, sometimes, me and the female would go down the side of the house and, basically, get naked. One time he came, he had an erection and I'm pretty sure that was the first I'd seen. We laughed at him, cause it was a cool thing to do.
Often, I would think of this, and the next time, when another of our friends came to my house, we played hide and seek - except with clothes. Started being perverted at a young age.
Anyways. Next stage was when I was 12, and my 16 year old friend told me he was bisexual. Not going into detail, but I partially think it was him who 'made me realise' tbh.
Nexttt is when I was 15. Last year I found a boyfriend. We fought alot. We were immature. We broke up. We got back together a few months later, and it was then I had my first kiss. Proper kiss with anyone. In the cinema, har har. cool Then kissing led to one thing and blahblah... O_o Public not so pg13 friendly? But not as high up either. Masterurbation but not. Y'know how it is.
We broke up. No surprise. 8P And I got a GIRLFRIEND. Surprising? I think yes. I had told myself I was gay untill I met her. She was younger than I, shorter, though same sub culture, music genre, fashion, everything. Today we're best friends, and I assume it will continue that way. But with her I had my first kiss with a girl. It was nicer than with a guy, but didnt give me the butterflies and whatnot. Though I assume it was because it wasnt my first overal? Anyway, being around her was awkward and stuff... So, we broke up. I also felt awkward around my ex boyfriend, which brought me the the conclusion I was either asexual or too immature for a relationship.
Now, I'm still confused and perfectally happy with that. When I realise what I am, I will realise, but for now I'm pretty happy. o:
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Posted: Mon Aug 13, 2007 9:00 pm
mhm *thinks* how to sum it all up.....
*deep breath* I started looking at girls yong. I have one memory of just looking at this lady, and thinking "hot". then it faded away, into memory when I went to Jr. High.
My Denial didn't last that long, because after I graduated JR. High I started questioning it, knowing that I wasn't "normal". But as a freshman, I Was still closeted to myself and everyone. (though my friend ashley claims she knew when we were in eight grade.) Then over that summer, before sopmore year I addmitted that I wasn't straight. But it wasnt until senior year that I really came out as being a lesbian. It's who I am....no other way of explaining it.
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