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 Posted: Thu Apr 05, 2007 11:02 am
Kitsune_mingue i'm in a situation something like this myself lol.. but not as serious.. anyways me and KihakuKasai (gaia name) know each other from school.. shes 14(got bumped up a grade) and i'm now 19.. anyways we have a huge thing for each other and we had this notebook going back and forth..( i dont go to school anymore) and at a dance, i kissed her and we talked about it in the book, anyways she left it in her book bag one night and when her mom dumped it, it "opened" onto a page that said fu*king parents in her writing, so her mom read it. well since her parents are homophobic bible pushing psychopaths, her mom called the school. she had all the teachers watching her every move so she didn't talk to me or any of our friends my age( older and still in school) i also got a letter from the school saying if i dont call the school and tell the principal the day before that i will be on school property, why i'm going, what time i will be there and what time i will be leaving, i will get charged w/ trespassing up to $1k. yeah.. me and KihakuKasai still talk on the phone(pay phone from school), e-mail each other( her school account) and i am planing on going to see her in the school play.. and meet her mom so she will have a real reason to hate me.. sorry about the rant, just thought i'd explain my situation somewhat like yours PFF ^_^ that's depressing i hope things get worked out for you too.
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Posted: Thu Apr 05, 2007 11:09 am
Everyone has their problems hun, no worries.
My advice; keep a safe distance from the parents but hold on to the friendship. Take it very slow and I suggest no physical stuff. Focus on the relationship and bond between you two or else you can get in serious trouble. The parents can't stop you from being close friends and connected in a personality way... but you can get in deep s**t for physical stuff.
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Posted: Thu Apr 05, 2007 11:13 am
true i had to break it off with my ex g/f on the account that her mom was accusing me of using witchcraft on her i thought it was messed up
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Posted: Thu Apr 05, 2007 11:33 am
lol yeah its been a while since it all started, and me, KihakuKasai and Lady_C ( a friend that got pulled into it by the mom) think its a good idea that we introduce ourselves and try to handle it like adults.
o we plan on staying friends. and other then holding her,and some kisses, i dont think it will get too physical ( as much as we both might want it)
yeah there was mention of Wicca and paganism's in the note book too, i'm borderline and one of her friends is.
i hate parents that think their children cant think or act on their own and MUST be being influenced by some1 else ( also something her mom accused me of)
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Posted: Thu Apr 05, 2007 11:51 am
true but sometimes you'll start to knowdice even adults act like children themselves... example my grandmother in-law wont talk to me on the account that she decided she does not like me and i tryed to figure what's wrong with me what she does not like and she ended up hanging up on me plus she didn't talk to her grandson(my hubby) for the longest time becasue of me and that hurt.
that's good once both of you are away from your parents then you two can be more open.
i know how you feel i don't like parents what won't let their children grow up and think that they have to keep their children in a bubble to protect them from the wold untill they are 18 and by the time they turn 18 they are helpless on the account that they really don't have any life skills.
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Posted: Thu Apr 05, 2007 1:05 pm
It just goes to show, age means absolutely nothing about a person's mental capabilities.
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Posted: Thu Apr 05, 2007 1:08 pm
i know exactly what you mean paganjuggalette i love ppl that are "different"
HA! her parents are EXACTLY like that.
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Posted: Thu Apr 05, 2007 1:09 pm
PukeFacedFreak It just goes to show, age means absolutely nothing about a person's mental capabilities.[/quote SO true! mer parents act like 10 year olds and she acts like shes 20..
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Posted: Thu Apr 05, 2007 1:51 pm
lol i hang out with her all the time hehe poor kitsune
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Posted: Thu Apr 05, 2007 2:11 pm
Clayton Claymore lol i hang out with her all the time hehe poor kitsune
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Posted: Thu Apr 05, 2007 3:20 pm
more and more parents are becoming that way i had a big laugh when i heared from my brother's friends when they were pickin on my brother my mom jumped into the convosation and told them they better knock it off or my brother can beat them all up....i had a really laugh on the account that all i have to do is poke my brother and he cry's and tells me that it hurts rofl
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Posted: Fri Apr 06, 2007 6:34 am
PukeFacedFreak It just goes to show, age means absolutely nothing about a person's mental capabilities. true but most adults judge people by their age and how they thing they should act and if they act olfer then that they are they just ignotre it and act like they are acting younger then what they are really acting on the account that they are in denile
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Posted: Fri Apr 06, 2007 6:35 am
Kitsune_mingue i know exactly what you mean paganjuggalette i love ppl that are "different" HA! her parents are EXACTLY like that. that is a sad fact that more parents are treating their children that way.
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Posted: Fri Apr 06, 2007 6:37 am
Rakisha_Rainweaver more and more parents are becoming that way i had a big laugh when i heared from my brother's friends when they were pickin on my brother my mom jumped into the convosation and told them they better knock it off or my brother can beat them all up....i had a really laugh on the account that all i have to do is poke my brother and he cry's and tells me that it hurts rofl wow, is she the same way with you?
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Posted: Fri Apr 06, 2007 7:54 am
paganjuggalette PukeFacedFreak It just goes to show, age means absolutely nothing about a person's mental capabilities. true but most adults judge people by their age and how they thing they should act and if they act olfer then that they are they just ignotre it and act like they are acting younger then what they are really acting on the account that they are in denile you just described my mom to a "T" that's creepy but then yet again i always complain to you about my mom in the first place sweatdrop
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