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Posted: Tue Apr 17, 2007 11:32 am
I have the smae problem; ever since my baptism my mother's been going on about how it's my 'old life'. Yet she doesn't seem to recall that my walk with God didn't take off until I became truely comfortable with me. And I wasn't turely comfortable with me until I discovered the gothic community where I used to live & got involved with it.
To top all the critisism and nagging; yesterday my mother accused me of cutting. Which I would never do. I was doing a peice of work for school and I needed to cut something out of a peice of card, the first thing I came across just happened to be a knife.
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Posted: Sat Apr 21, 2007 9:15 pm
Dude...you're parents are insane. Just sit down and talk with them. Let them know that just because you dress a certain way, it doesn't mean you're into certain things or whatever they're thinking. Communication...it helps everything. I'm just glad my mom understands the difference between clothing and lifestyle.
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Posted: Thu Apr 26, 2007 7:06 pm
My parents are trying to stop me asking why I haven't worn any colorful clothes. What's even worse is that my friends call me a poser just because "goth" is usually associated with uber pale skin, mainly because darker people don't usually go "goth".
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Posted: Sun Jan 10, 2010 12:26 am
Celestial_Mana Posted: Thu Apr 26, 2007 7:06 pm My parents are trying to stop me asking why I haven't worn any colorful clothes. What's even worse is that my friends call me a poser just because "goth" is usually associated with uber pale skin, mainly because darker people don't usually go "goth".
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Colourful clothes goes with black, you know.
I have wearing black everyday, just a hint of colour will do you as fine
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Posted: Sun Jan 10, 2010 3:19 am
wraithy93 Celestial_Mana Posted: Thu Apr 26, 2007 7:06 pm My parents are trying to stop me asking why I haven't worn any colorful clothes. What's even worse is that my friends call me a poser just because "goth" is usually associated with uber pale skin, mainly because darker people don't usually go "goth". reply Colourful clothes goes with black, you know. I have wearing black everyday, just a hint of colour will do you as fine The goth style is very diverse now anyways; just like the music isn't now only post punk and goth rock, the fashion also has many different styles besides the classic all black. [but even in the past it wasn't always so... Think of Siouxsie & the Banshees, my most loved goth band, they very often used colourful clothes!] So it's all a matter of personal preference *shrugs* I personally wouldn't be comfortable wearing only black all the time.
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Posted: Sun Jan 10, 2010 6:29 pm
I have the smae problem; ever since my baptism my mother's been going on about how it's my 'old life'. Yet she doesn't seem to recall that my walk with God didn't take off until I became truely comfortable with me. And I wasn't turely comfortable with me until I discovered the gothic community where I used to live & got involved with it.
To top all the critisism and nagging; yesterday my mother accused me of cutting. Which I would never do. I was doing a peice of work for school and I needed to cut something out of a peice of card, the first thing I came across just happened to be a knife.
Reply: Well, This is totally strange, just tell her that you have made something from school without cutting yourself. wahmbulance
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