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The White Shadow5567

PostPosted: Mon Dec 10, 2007 4:28 pm


kemicalreaction
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Hard way: SEW THEIR F***ING ASSES OFF!
Easy Way: Let me come over...-cracks knuckles- I may only be 12 but I can still give a hell of an @$$ kicking....

P.S.: Any guy who does something like what they're are doing is because they can't get a girl and/or has a really small d**k.

im w/ ya we can show them wat 12yr old grls can do
ps i almost got susspended in 3rd becas i "punchhed" a kid 4 harassing me he got kicked ou o' school becas it wasnt the 1st x and i got away w/ a warnning! twisted
PostPosted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 1:52 am


Make them think there geting somewere with you and then out of the blue crush there dreams. Well thats only if your not worryed about that fact that it will make them fill stuped and sad and there friends will make fun of them for that... So its mean really.

GunslingerKyo


Sporty Math Nerd

PostPosted: Sun Jan 27, 2008 10:08 am


Yeah, you should report them to a teacher or counciler(however you spell it) You are being harrassed, and if they're stupid enough to actually say that stuff, should you really care if they call you stupid question
PostPosted: Tue Jul 29, 2008 10:29 am


emo_girl_galore
i'm an athletic trainer at my school. so that means that i'm like the docter because i learn all about medicine. Well i'm the athlaetic trainer for the fresman baseball team at my school mansfield summit high (btw i'm a frshman) well the guys are always coming up to me asking me if i want to have sex and give them things to do with sex. if i fight back they tell me i'm ugly or they hate me. What should i do?
This is the typical reaction of these kinds of people when they see a strong individual who intimidates them in some capacity, especially if that person is a woman. In both the suffrage and the women's rights movement, antifeminists used imagery of the ugly feminist to derail and dehumanize the movement and its activists. The point is that while they may hate you, if they proposition you for sex, then clearly, you are not ugly.
Beauty doesn't even really matter. I know it's said a lot, but the need for beauty only comes from a need to feel successful, confident, and happy. None of which have prerequisites that include a completely interpretive concept such as beauty.
What you should do is protect yourself. Record every confrontation on paper, at least. If you can get someone to take pictures of it happening, or even get a voice recording, more power to you. Make sure to write down names, dates, and be very specific. Talk to someone who's really in charge and report the harassment, give them COPIES of your documentation. THEY HAVE TO LISTEN TO YOU AND INVESTIGATE THE REPORT, BY LAW. If they do not, then you just keep your chin up and keep complaining to the next person higher on the chain of command. Record everything, even your reports of the harassment. If this doesn't work, then you should consider taking legal action.

Lila Malvae


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PostPosted: Wed Jul 30, 2008 6:37 pm


Lila Malvae
emo_girl_galore
i'm an athletic trainer at my school. so that means that i'm like the docter because i learn all about medicine. Well i'm the athlaetic trainer for the fresman baseball team at my school mansfield summit high (btw i'm a frshman) well the guys are always coming up to me asking me if i want to have sex and give them things to do with sex. if i fight back they tell me i'm ugly or they hate me. What should i do?
This is the typical reaction of these kinds of people when they see a strong individual who intimidates them in some capacity, especially if that person is a woman. In both the suffrage and the women's rights movement, antifeminists used imagery of the ugly feminist to derail and dehumanize the movement and its activists. The point is that while they may hate you, if they proposition you for sex, then clearly, you are not ugly.
Beauty doesn't even really matter. I know it's said a lot, but the need for beauty only comes from a need to feel successful, confident, and happy. None of which have prerequisites that include a completely interpretive concept such as beauty.
What you should do is protect yourself. Record every confrontation on paper, at least. If you can get someone to take pictures of it happening, or even get a voice recording, more power to you. Make sure to write down names, dates, and be very specific. Talk to someone who's really in charge and report the harassment, give them COPIES of your documentation. THEY HAVE TO LISTEN TO YOU AND INVESTIGATE THE REPORT, BY LAW. If they do not, then you just keep your chin up and keep complaining to the next person higher on the chain of command. Record everything, even your reports of the harassment. If this doesn't work, then you should consider taking legal action.

Wow you know so much, can you like tell me where you learned all this stuff? I'm an activist and a feminist but I just dont' know where to look to learn about the different cases that happen. I mostly just go off my experiences and stuff and what people tell me. And my mommy isn't much help, she believes that women are less than men and are put here to serve them which of course is ridiculous >< But that's the way she was programmed crying
PostPosted: Sat Aug 16, 2008 7:42 am


emo_girl_galore
i'm an athletic trainer at my school. so that means that i'm like the docter because i learn all about medicine. Well i'm the athlaetic trainer for the fresman baseball team at my school mansfield summit high (btw i'm a frshman) well the guys are always coming up to me asking me if i want to have sex and give them things to do with sex. if i fight back they tell me i'm ugly or they hate me. What should i do?

Ugh! That makes me sick! I'm so sorry hon. That's not okay. You should definitely report them. I've dealt with that sort of thing so I know from experience that you should never let it slide. Might I suggest a self-defense class? Not necessarily for fighting back or defending yourself though. It helps a lot with self-confidence and these sorts of situations. The more self-esteem, the more intimated the boy usually gets. Oh, and scream rape... that'd scare 'em shitless.
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Kamakun

PostPosted: Sun Sep 07, 2008 7:19 pm


Back in 8th grad we had an assembly about sexual harrassment. Actually, you can report them to the police and they'll have to explain themselves in court. I'm not sure if that can be done everywhere, though.

Also, try to tell them that women don't like that kind of thing and that they would never be with a girl. I've been told that before. Although I had never done anything to hurt that particular girl in any way, it still hurt.
PostPosted: Sun Mar 15, 2009 4:16 pm


say sex jokes back at them, and just make sure
you somehow let them know they are being sarcastic!
I doo it alll da time!

SupaNeonFreak


Frankly Mr Shankly

PostPosted: Sun Mar 15, 2009 4:22 pm


report them.

its so disrespectful.
PostPosted: Sun Mar 15, 2009 8:28 pm


Aww...poor you. That sounds ackward. Yeah, I think you should report them. But first, tell them to stop. And mean it. Maybe you should print out all of the good posts in this thread and show them to those b...bad people. And if that doesn't work, report them. Simple.

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drugs is ruckus

PostPosted: Mon Mar 16, 2009 12:39 pm


That's sexual harassment in the first degree.

Unfortunately, I couldn't give you any more help than the others have.

I hope your report is heeded. That type of s**t has a way of turning a "take it like a man" corner.
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