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 Posted: Wed Jan 24, 2007 1:25 am
Pirran 25 now, and of course. We always feel a lot closer after fighting, but whilst we're arguing, it feels like we're almost torn apart. I dunno... he has real jealousy issues u_u It's the only thing we really fight about. Well that's good. ^^ But if he's having jealously issues, he needs to learn to trust you more. But it's still a little flattering to me that a guy gets jealous because it's like they don't want to lose you. ;D
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Posted: Wed Jan 24, 2007 1:26 am
Alot of guys have jealousy issues. They're very insecure when it comes to that. A few of my guy-friends whom I have no romantic involvement with what-so-ever still get jealous of other guys. xd
Um...sorry, didn't mean to intrude. sweatdrop
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Posted: Wed Jan 24, 2007 1:30 am
I kept trying to explain to him about the trust thing, but he just kept repeating that it wasn't about trust ._. And no problem, Fayt xd
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Posted: Wed Jan 24, 2007 1:32 am
Pirran I kept trying to explain to him about the trust thing, but he just kept repeating that it wasn't about trust ._. And no problem, Fayt xd Have you asked him what it's about then? confused It's fine Fayt! ^^
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Posted: Wed Jan 24, 2007 1:35 am
It was about a picture I drew... I'd given him a link to my profile on Gaia, and he ended up clicking on a Friends link, taking him to iNalids profile. If you have a look, you'll see a bunch of pictures on there. I did them, and Francisco got really shitty cause it had hearts and cute stuff on it -_-"
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Posted: Wed Jan 24, 2007 1:35 am
Pirran I kept trying to explain to him about the trust thing, but he just kept repeating that it wasn't about trust ._. And no problem, Fayt xd Aw, ok. Good. If I may quote something my friend said, he's very honest with me, he says that it's "not a matter of trust; it's not wanting to share you....with anyone." He values you so much, that he feels jealousy just at the thought of sharing you.
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Posted: Wed Jan 24, 2007 1:37 am
Fayt_of_Redemption Pirran I kept trying to explain to him about the trust thing, but he just kept repeating that it wasn't about trust ._. And no problem, Fayt xd Aw, ok. Good. If I may quote something my friend said, he's very honest with me, he says that it's "not a matter of trust; it's not wanting to share you....with anyone." He values you so much, that he feels jealousy just at the thought of sharing you.
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Posted: Wed Jan 24, 2007 1:40 am
Pirran Fayt_of_Redemption Pirran I kept trying to explain to him about the trust thing, but he just kept repeating that it wasn't about trust ._. And no problem, Fayt xd Aw, ok. Good. If I may quote something my friend said, he's very honest with me, he says that it's "not a matter of trust; it's not wanting to share you....with anyone." He values you so much, that he feels jealousy just at the thought of sharing you. Yeah, I can understand that. Some of it might be just not trusting the guys. xp I don't know of any solution to it, it's kinda natural to be jealous of those of the same gender when it comes to someone you love.
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Posted: Wed Jan 24, 2007 1:41 am
I'd kinda have to agree with Fayt. I have to try not to get jealous of my boyfriend being friends with so many girls... It's hard to deal with, cause I want to be the -only- girl he has love for unless they are his sister or whatnot.
I suppose that comes later in life though... the breaking away from opposite sex friendships. Possibly.... but I can kinda understand your boyfriends jealousy, but at the same time, I know your not going to do anything. I'm sure he knows it too, he is just jealous of having another guy know you like he does. Would you want him to be such close friends with a girl? confused
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Posted: Wed Jan 24, 2007 1:47 am
*comes out of lurking* how about a guys perseptive on things?
Well, speaking as a guy, we know how other guys think. I'm sure your bf trusts you, it the other guys that he doesnt trust. Guys think horrible, horrible things, its our nature. And I agree with cheese, do you want him to lose touch with all his female friends?
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Posted: Wed Jan 24, 2007 1:47 am
Yeah, after a while, opposite-sex friendships kinda....get scattered to the wind. Not that they don't exist, but it's not as common as it used to be. I have the perfect icon to describe your boyfriend:  Just...change that to guy.... xd
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Posted: Wed Jan 24, 2007 1:47 am
Fayt_of_Redemption Yeah, I can understand that. Some of it might be just not trusting the guys. xp I don't know of any solution to it, it's kinda natural to be jealous of those of the same gender when it comes to someone you love. Mac.and.Cheese I'd kinda have to agree with Fayt. I have to try not to get jealous of my boyfriend being friends with so many girls... It's hard to deal with, cause I want to be the -only- girl he has love for unless they are his sister or whatnot. I suppose that comes later in life though... the breaking away from opposite sex friendships. Possibly.... but I can kinda understand your boyfriends jealousy, but at the same time, I know your not going to do anything. I'm sure he knows it too, he is just jealous of having another guy know you like he does. Would you want him to be such close friends with a girl? confused
He's asked me that before, and always has the examples ready. I don't think I would, of course, but I don't understand why he goes absolutely psycho, and doesn't let up about it. I feel as if I can't even say hello to a guy anymore.
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Posted: Wed Jan 24, 2007 1:49 am
Fayt_of_Redemption Yeah, after a while, opposite-sex friendships kinda....get scattered to the wind. Not that they don't exist, but it's not as common as it used to be. I have the perfect icon to describe your boyfriend: Just...change that to guy.... xd
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Posted: Wed Jan 24, 2007 1:53 am
Pirran Fayt_of_Redemption Yeah, after a while, opposite-sex friendships kinda....get scattered to the wind. Not that they don't exist, but it's not as common as it used to be. I have the perfect icon to describe your boyfriend: Just...change that to guy.... xd Yep. 3nodding And I'm not ashamed to admit I feel that way about a particular guy, even though we're only friends. xd This one's pretty good as well:
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Posted: Wed Jan 24, 2007 1:54 am
Pirran Fayt_of_Redemption Yeah, I can understand that. Some of it might be just not trusting the guys. xp I don't know of any solution to it, it's kinda natural to be jealous of those of the same gender when it comes to someone you love. Mac.and.Cheese I'd kinda have to agree with Fayt. I have to try not to get jealous of my boyfriend being friends with so many girls... It's hard to deal with, cause I want to be the -only- girl he has love for unless they are his sister or whatnot. I suppose that comes later in life though... the breaking away from opposite sex friendships. Possibly.... but I can kinda understand your boyfriends jealousy, but at the same time, I know your not going to do anything. I'm sure he knows it too, he is just jealous of having another guy know you like he does. Would you want him to be such close friends with a girl? confused
He's asked me that before, and always has the examples ready. I don't think I would, of course, but I don't understand why he goes absolutely psycho, and doesn't let up about it. I feel as if I can't even say hello to a guy anymore.That is a bit over the top. confused He needs to control it more.... @Fayt - That is so cute! I love it! ^^ @Shadow - Nice insight. 3nodding Thanks for the help. I'm glad to know it for myself. xd
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