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 Posted: Wed Jan 24, 2007 2:19 pm
Peles Tears But really just from my experiance some guys feel like their manhood is in jeopardy if a girl asks them out. those guys are very sad people XD. They're not most guys. Plus, would you want to date a guy who was taken aback by being asked out, anyway? If they're insecure about that, makes me think they only want women who can be their b***h, instead of one with a brain and a v****a without a 24/7 "open" flashing light.
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Posted: Wed Jan 24, 2007 2:42 pm
Enter at... ...Your Own Risk
Well I guess my view of guys are skewed since the only guys I've met that have been interested in me have been the kind that hope there is a flashing "open" sign under my skirt. Like this p***k Tony who asked me if he could suck my tits,I kid yoou not. I do know a few polite wonderful guys but none of them are interested in me. So now I think I shall try and go for a girl...but thats after I give another shot at a ceratin guy. and I shall stop babbling XD
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Posted: Wed Jan 24, 2007 3:41 pm
I tried the girl-ask-out-guy thing before. Didn't work too well.
So much easier if there's a party. Just ask if they're going and say you'll see them there. Or invite them if they aren't. Less weird, less awkward, and helluva lot easier.
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Posted: Wed Jan 24, 2007 4:02 pm
Padme Potter of Hobbiton I tried the girl-ask-out-guy thing before. Didn't work too well. What happened?
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Posted: Wed Jan 24, 2007 7:26 pm
[Q] Padme Potter of Hobbiton I tried the girl-ask-out-guy thing before. Didn't work too well. What happened? He said no? Oh, and told all his friends. So the whole school knew. >_> Makes for uncomfortable and unpleasant memories in art class.
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Posted: Wed Jan 24, 2007 7:34 pm
Umm...I don't quite know how to help with this. O.o' Even though the last person I hung out with, was one of my closest guy friends, for four hours....
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Posted: Wed Jan 24, 2007 8:07 pm
Peles Tears Padme Potter of Hobbiton [Q] Padme Potter of Hobbiton And too much is in the hands of the guy. I really, really, really hate that. I went on this faux date with this girl. And she expected for me to pay for ev-er-ry-thing. It's like, wtf. We should split it down the middle. Why should I have to pay for everything? Why should any guy have ot pay for everything? Honestly, to me, if you go on a date with somebody, and they don't even offer to pay for their half, then I'm not going to hang out with them again. Because it's just rude. All these women are all like 'zomg, sexual stigma' and 'zomg, sexism' and 'omg unequal!' Well OF COURSE you're unequal. I mean, if you automatically assume that every guy has to be super nice to you You're MAKING yourselves unequal. If you truly want to be equal, then come down to our level and fsking pay for half of the fsking date. I'd feel TERRIBLE having the guy pay for all of it. It's not fair at all. AND AND AND. I hate that it's not socially okay for the girl to ask the guy out. D: Enter at......Your Own Risk
I know I mean really it is nice for a guy to pay for dinner but that doesn't mean they have to. As for the whole thing that girls shouldn't ask guys out is bull. I mean come on I think with the whole women beign equal thing that it would be ok for a woman to ask out a man. sadly this just doesn't seem to be the norm yet. *sigh*
I think it's whomever asked the other person out should pay... so it's not... "Hey(insert guys name here or whatever), wanna go to the movies on Saturday? BTW it's your treat." Cause that's rude liek WOAH.
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Posted: Wed Jan 24, 2007 8:23 pm
Return_of_Watanuki-san Peles Tears Padme Potter of Hobbiton [Q] Padme Potter of Hobbiton And too much is in the hands of the guy. I really, really, really hate that. I went on this faux date with this girl. And she expected for me to pay for ev-er-ry-thing. It's like, wtf. We should split it down the middle. Why should I have to pay for everything? Why should any guy have ot pay for everything? Honestly, to me, if you go on a date with somebody, and they don't even offer to pay for their half, then I'm not going to hang out with them again. Because it's just rude. All these women are all like 'zomg, sexual stigma' and 'zomg, sexism' and 'omg unequal!' Well OF COURSE you're unequal. I mean, if you automatically assume that every guy has to be super nice to you You're MAKING yourselves unequal. If you truly want to be equal, then come down to our level and fsking pay for half of the fsking date. I'd feel TERRIBLE having the guy pay for all of it. It's not fair at all. AND AND AND. I hate that it's not socially okay for the girl to ask the guy out. D: Enter at......Your Own Risk
I know I mean really it is nice for a guy to pay for dinner but that doesn't mean they have to. As for the whole thing that girls shouldn't ask guys out is bull. I mean come on I think with the whole women beign equal thing that it would be ok for a woman to ask out a man. sadly this just doesn't seem to be the norm yet. *sigh*
I think it's whomever asked the other person out should pay... so it's not... "Hey(insert guys name here or whatever), wanna go to the movies on Saturday? BTW it's your treat." Cause that's rude liek WOAH. Tell me about it. it goes the other way as well. I was hanging out with a friend and we were going to the Rocky Horror Picture Show. he picks me up and asked if I would help pay for gas. I said sure but when we got to Rocky he said I had to pay for his ticket as well or I was gonna have to find my own way home at 2 in the morning. needless to say I don't have him drive me anymore.(really sad thing is this is the guy I wanna go on a date with XD)
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Posted: Wed Jan 24, 2007 8:33 pm
punk-rocky Return_of_Watanuki-san Peles Tears Padme Potter of Hobbiton [Q] Padme Potter of Hobbiton And too much is in the hands of the guy. I really, really, really hate that. I went on this faux date with this girl. And she expected for me to pay for ev-er-ry-thing. It's like, wtf. We should split it down the middle. Why should I have to pay for everything? Why should any guy have ot pay for everything? Honestly, to me, if you go on a date with somebody, and they don't even offer to pay for their half, then I'm not going to hang out with them again. Because it's just rude. All these women are all like 'zomg, sexual stigma' and 'zomg, sexism' and 'omg unequal!' Well OF COURSE you're unequal. I mean, if you automatically assume that every guy has to be super nice to you You're MAKING yourselves unequal. If you truly want to be equal, then come down to our level and fsking pay for half of the fsking date. I'd feel TERRIBLE having the guy pay for all of it. It's not fair at all. AND AND AND. I hate that it's not socially okay for the girl to ask the guy out. D: Enter at......Your Own Risk
I know I mean really it is nice for a guy to pay for dinner but that doesn't mean they have to. As for the whole thing that girls shouldn't ask guys out is bull. I mean come on I think with the whole women beign equal thing that it would be ok for a woman to ask out a man. sadly this just doesn't seem to be the norm yet. *sigh*
I think it's whomever asked the other person out should pay... so it's not... "Hey(insert guys name here or whatever), wanna go to the movies on Saturday? BTW it's your treat." Cause that's rude liek WOAH. Tell me about it. it goes the other way as well. I was hanging out with a friend and we were going to the Rocky Horror Picture Show. he picks me up and asked if I would help pay for gas. I said sure but when we got to Rocky he said I had to pay for his ticket as well or I was gonna have to find my own way home at 2 in the morning. needless to say I don't have him drive me anymore.(really sad thing is this is the guy I wanna go on a date with XD)
When I hang out with my guy friends, I pay for myself. Or if for some reason I can't, I pay them back. It's basic manners. But I don't know if it's different on romantic dates.
@[Q]: You're officially the coolest person ever. <3
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Posted: Wed Jan 24, 2007 8:35 pm
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Posted: Wed Jan 24, 2007 8:39 pm
Because you're, like, a real person. Most guys I know just think about sex and video games. And that's it.
Sorry if I freaked you out. sweatdrop
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Posted: Wed Jan 24, 2007 8:40 pm
Rofl. I'd be surprised if someone doesn't send you a PM about me because of that statement. xd
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Posted: Wed Jan 24, 2007 8:42 pm
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Posted: Wed Jan 24, 2007 8:50 pm
Tedie Behr Because you're, like, a real person. Most guys I know just think about sex and video games. And that's it.
Sorry if I freaked you out. sweatdrop what [Q] is a real person? I thought I made [Q] up in my head. damnit I hate it when the lines between reality and imagination blur. and yeah expect an Pm about the statement. it won't be from me though.
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Posted: Wed Jan 24, 2007 8:57 pm
Is it just me, or have there only been like, two or three guys that have posted in here... o_o( ) *includes self in count*
And just to throw my say in things... probably the only way I'll end up on a date, is if the girl asks me out... for most guys though, I dun see it bothering them if they were asked out...
And for paying for the date, If I go, I'll be prepared to pay for it, but if she wants to step in and contribute, I'm not gonna feel threatened by any means... In fact, it'll make me think better of her...
o_o
Then again, Iono... I mean, I'm not exactly one of the normal guys, my ego isn't as big as most... which may be why I don't really feel threatened, there's nothing there to be threatened... o.o
But, like I said before, I have absolutely NO experience in these matters... so most, if not all, of my post here should just be ignored... *ends obligatory note*
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