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I wasn't tryign to disparage Zen o.0 Zen is Zen and I've learned to accept that. I'm just saying...thinkign about it...being with 30 diffrent people. For some reason I can't help but cringe, and thats not even because of a personle belife. I'm not gogin to say she's wrong and I'm not expectign any one to live by my beielifes. I apologize if any one thought that was what i was doing

Heh. I must be weird then. I saw that and went, "Wow. That must have taken some effort."

I mean, I've had a lot of (consensual) sex, but most of it has been with my fiance (with the "runner up" being a former...friend). I just tend to stick by one person when they are willing to "dispense" with the nookie. *wink*

Oral can be fun for both people involved ninja *has most likely just violated the ToS.*

xd Well, I was only in college for 3 years as an undergrad, but I spent most of my time around open-minded single guys, most of them at least somewhat attractive.

I just turned 26, btw. Lost my virginity just before my 18th birthday.

Variety is the spice of life, says I. 3nodding

Also, Teger of the Fere, you meght want to get your eye key fexed.

I am for birth control and for premarital sex if that's what a person chooses to do.

My views may change when I have kids and my daughter comes home pregnant one day because the condom broke, but until that happens, my children are learning about sex, protection, the pros and cons of abstinance and sex, etc, etc.

AO education leads to increased oral sex because kids figure, it doesn't count as sex, and they don't realize (because they were never taught) that you can get STDs from oral, and quite possibly you can get pregnant from fingering if you're really, really unlucky and the guy fingering you has sperm all over his hands.

I'd like more knowledge, less STDs, less pregnancy, less abortions, by all means.

I honestly don't care what people do with their sex lives. If they want to have sex before marriage, then by all means, be my guest, wanna wait until marriage, good for you!

I myself have already had sex and I'm not married. I've only done it with one guy and I plan to only do it with one guy which is the man I've been with for over 2 years now. The love of my life. ^__^

I am religious too, but I have yet to read where Jesus said, "Don't have sex until your married." I think that's just some long, long, long tradition that has been going on since only God knows when.

I'm 100% for birth control (yay safe sex) and sex-education with the parent's consent. You see I think that parents do have a say in what their children are learning especially when it comes to their sex-ed, in fact I think that the parents are the ones who should be teaching their kids about it instead of leaving it up to the schools to do it.

When I was in 6th grade we had this sex-ed program where the school was basically going to explain to us what sex was and how our bodies work and telling all the girls soon we'd be having a monthly nuisance xd . They sent out papers to all of the parents with a list of what they would be talking about over the course of a few days. Our parents had to sign these papers after reading them over to allow us to go to the class. I was the only kid out of my whole class who didn't go and the reason being because my mom had already taught me about everything on the paper herself (plus she didn't want me to get weirded out by these strangers teaching me about sex).

I was a bit embarrassed at first being the only kid who didn't go but now I am very happy my mom didn't send me to the class. I respect her a lot for talking to me about it herself and not letting the school do it for her.

So all in all I think it would be great if schools have thorough sex-ed programs that talk about birth control and STDs and pregnancy, etc. But I would prefer that parents start knuckling down and do their job, which is raising their kids.