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 Posted: Mon Sep 18, 2006 2:14 pm
That makes me afraid to go to France, Akimba! xd
To your question, though, Fuzzy... I don't 'flirt' with my girl-friends on purpose, either. My best friend and I are very close, and we pretend to be lesbian lovers all the time too, but we're obviously not. I don't do it to confuse boys, but because it's just fun.
I think it's part of the fact that most women are just naturally closer the their gender. Boys, however, I've noticed usually are afraid to get within a foot of eachother, even if they're close. xD
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Posted: Mon Sep 18, 2006 2:56 pm
Wow, I could never give a random person a kiss. I couldn't give my boyfriend a kiss for the longest time, we'd fooled around but I wouldn't actually kiss him 'cause I was so scared I'd be bad at it sweatdrop Looking back, I was so ridiculous it was funny.
As a senior in highschool I was sitting in Enviromental Science when our teacher began discussing male bathroom etiquette...however you spell that. Guys have all these unwritten rules like not using the urinal next to anybody, not looking over, etc. I think guys are just afraid to appear gay 'cause they'd get the s**t beat out of them.
Then again, I have co-workers that talk about how big they are compaired to so and so that I work with... even if we didn't all attend the same highschool, and I'm like "How the hell do you know that?" and they're like "locker rooms." But my boyfriend claims it's the exact opposite, so I'm always so confused about it sweatdrop
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Posted: Mon Sep 18, 2006 5:48 pm
I've been hit on a few times, but nothing where it was really... a lot. So I'll tell the story about the only guy that has ever asked me on a date.
I got this job through a temp agency, and I had to go stand in a restaurant and ask people to take surveys. The day started out fine, but as time wore on the guy who is supposed to be my supervisor gets more and more flirty. He kept telling me what a nice a** I had, and even at one point spanked me with his clipboard. Hello sexual harassment lawsuit? Nah, I'm not a b***h, it was just a light spank. Anyway, near the end of the day he asked me if I would go on a date with him. He was a little too over the top for me, but I figured that if I was ever going to date ANYONE I better give the first guy that had the balls to ask me out a chance. So we drive off from the restaurant (It was about a 45 minute drive from the agency so we were in the same car) and on the way home he keeps looking at my chest and making that stupid "grabbing" motion. It was more than a little creepy. Then when we got back to the agency, he told EVERYONE that his nickname for me was "porn star" At that point the date was off and I made him drive me back to my car which was across town. It was one of the most awkward days of my life.
Now all I have to do is find someone who isn't as... let's say disgusting, to take me on a date XD
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Posted: Mon Sep 18, 2006 6:14 pm
The genders have built-in restrictions. Guys are more concerned about things that would appear homosexual, because society gives girls more leeway in that direction. If guys pretended to be gay lovers, people would believe them, while girls can hug and kiss and squeeze boobs without people thinking anything of it.
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Posted: Mon Sep 18, 2006 8:30 pm
I got hit on some in high school.... obviously everyone I dated hit on me first... and a lot of my friends (especially the bi girls) would sneak up on me and squees my boobs. I've never been sure if they were flirting or just being weird...
But the most awkward time for me was when I was 16 and I was working drive-thru at like 2am and this drunk came through and asked if I knew where this bar by my job was... and then he started asking me when I got off of work and all that... My boyfriend was working with me, and I wished I couldhave had him say something to the guy 'cause he was freaking me out, but then he would have gotten fired. crying
So I handed him his food and tried to rush him to leave... It scared me... He must have been at least 30 or older... gonk
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Posted: Tue Sep 19, 2006 9:15 am
Everybody gets hit on by thirty year old men but me gonk crying
My friend used to tell me all the time about when she worked as a waitress and got hit on by them. I need to be a waitress or something, I've only been hit on by 20-somethings at the theater I work at.
I feel so left out of the club crying
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Posted: Tue Sep 19, 2006 11:45 am
Meep! I have the perfect story for this!
Well I went home with a friend from college and we were hanging out at her boyfriend's apartment until morning. Well around midnight this super sexy man beast walks into the apartment. He makes some chips and sits down beside me, we keep looking at each other and turning away and he says something about my cellphone. He leaves to go back to work and I asked my friend if he was single. She said yeah, about 10 minutes after he left he sent a text to my friend telling her that I was hot. Meep, for some reason that was just the most awesome thing that he was shy to tell me to my face and told my friend to see what I would say. We exchanged numbers and he tells me all the time how sexy I am and how good I smell...haha. He's so sexy!
K so there's my story today.
But yeah normally I do get hit on alot. I think it's fun.
O and Fuzzy, I know I don't normally hit on my girlfriends to confuse guys. It's just my friends are hot and I love them, so we cuddle and hold hands and feel boobs. It's all good.
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Posted: Tue Sep 19, 2006 1:20 pm
The Dread Pirate Ghosty Wow, I could never give a random person a kiss. I couldn't give my boyfriend a kiss for the longest time, we'd fooled around but I wouldn't actually kiss him 'cause I was so scared I'd be bad at it sweatdrop Looking back, I was so ridiculous it was funny.
As a senior in highschool I was sitting in Enviromental Science when our teacher began discussing male bathroom etiquette...however you spell that. Guys have all these unwritten rules like not using the urinal next to anybody, not looking over, etc. I think guys are just afraid to appear gay 'cause they'd get the s**t beat out of them.
Then again, I have co-workers that talk about how big they are compaired to so and so that I work with... even if we didn't all attend the same highschool, and I'm like "How the hell do you know that?" and they're like "locker rooms." But my boyfriend claims it's the exact opposite, so I'm always so confused about it sweatdrop
Why would you want to have 30-year-olds flirt with you? It's scary!
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Posted: Tue Sep 19, 2006 2:48 pm
Mint Chocolate I was like that with my first boyfriend, too! Geez, it was months of 'dating' before I kissed him. Believe me, it was ridiculous.
Why would you want to have 30-year-olds flirt with you? It's scary!
But I didn't freak out, and if I remind him he just says "Yeh, I figured I had nothing to lose..."
I want them to hit on me because everybody else does. I feel left out, I'm not even attractive enough for dirty old men to hit on crying
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Posted: Tue Sep 19, 2006 7:10 pm
The Dread Pirate Ghosty Everybody gets hit on by thirty year old men but me gonk crying
My friend used to tell me all the time about when she worked as a waitress and got hit on by them. I need to be a waitress or something, I've only been hit on by 20-somethings at the theater I work at.
I feel so left out of the club crying your not missing out on alot, i mean it's kind of flattering, but then your like ....ew he's 30+ and i'm not even legal...
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Posted: Tue Nov 28, 2006 7:40 am
My oddest one was when I was w/ the girlies at Woody Woodchucks *kinda like chuck e cheese* and this dude came up to me and started hittin' on me. It was so random...I was just like eek sweatdrop
Then there was the guy *who lives in this building sweatdrop * who saw me waiting outside w/ the girls *I was waiting for my ex to come pick them up* and he started chattin' me up...saying that I was pretty, and that he could give me jewelery and anything I wanted...
And then he said "You're not too bad...but if you want to lose weight, I know all the secrets, I can help you out" eek stressed
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Posted: Tue Nov 28, 2006 9:10 am
I get hit on on myspace, and that's about it. Oh, and by extremely creepy people when we go clubbing. That's great for the self esteem.
Haha. I'm eating cereal and reading these topics. I keep almost eating my earrings that are sitting on my desk next to my cereal. blaugh
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Posted: Tue Nov 28, 2006 9:29 pm
I got hit on at McDonald's three days ago, it was embarassing 'cause it was in the drive-through.
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Posted: Wed Nov 29, 2006 1:12 pm
one of my grandma's friends said i was a good looking boy
i beamed with pride xD
butuhm
im ussually the awkward one in those situations redface
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Posted: Wed Nov 29, 2006 7:02 pm
So, about seven years ago I was hit on a couple times. Seven years ago, when I was a size five and fourteen years old.
A friend of mine admires me/has liked me/possibly still does and he once asked me out about a year ago, if that counts, but that's a no, because I don't see him as anything more than a friend.
Other than that, males seem to want to stay away from me when it comes to that area.
On the females groping each other, I come from the realm of no please. I'm not overly touchy with people (minus if I was in a personal relationship with someone), and groping would make me unhappy.
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