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Kenda Water Demon

PostPosted: Wed Oct 18, 2006 10:24 am


I love life! life is the ocean and the warmth of the sun, and chocolate, and while there may be suffering, you must always remember the good things in life!
PostPosted: Fri Oct 20, 2006 3:51 pm


i have problems that go completely unnoticed

my biggest problem is i don't know if i can trust my best friend anymore... because his toy is always right next to him so i never get to talk to him... and it hurts like hell to be kept away from your best friend because the girl they're sleeping with is insecure

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grandkinglink

PostPosted: Thu Nov 16, 2006 7:01 am


anike6
i have problems that go completely unnoticed

my biggest problem is i don't know if i can trust my best friend anymore... because his toy is always right next to him so i never get to talk to him... and it hurts like hell to be kept away from your best friend because the girl they're sleeping with is insecure


wow your friend must mean alot to you. and if they are sleeping with someone is that really your business? i mean it is personal but meh if he told you thats cool but you should let him know how you feel but he may also be the kind of person that doesnt like help from anyone
PostPosted: Thu Nov 16, 2006 3:54 pm


grandkinglink
anike6
i have problems that go completely unnoticed

my biggest problem is i don't know if i can trust my best friend anymore... because his toy is always right next to him so i never get to talk to him... and it hurts like hell to be kept away from your best friend because the girl they're sleeping with is insecure


wow your friend must mean alot to you. and if they are sleeping with someone is that really your business? i mean it is personal but meh if he told you thats cool but you should let him know how you feel but he may also be the kind of person that doesnt like help from anyone


the problem with that is, you are right and he's not the "asking for help" type, but i konw when he needs help. and yeah, sex IS personal, but it's not cool when it screws with a friendship that's ben going on since over a year before the sex-friend was even met... it just bugs me that i feel like my best friend keeps being stolen from me...

especially as he moved recently without really telling me first and it hurts so bad (none of you have any idea how much this guy means to me) and it just ucks because he's like the 8th best friend i've lost because of moving... and i only moved away from 3... so i don't know my life just sucks right now

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grandkinglink

PostPosted: Tue Nov 21, 2006 10:12 am


you know your friend could really care about you but not be able to show it. you just need to know that he knows how you feel sometimes people cant express his feelings right. i mean yea sex is pretty good but still i mean why do you honestly feel like she is stealing him? and maybe this move was something he really needed. i know some people that just need to get away from everything and they moved.
PostPosted: Sun Dec 03, 2006 6:55 am


grandkinglink
you know your friend could really care about you but not be able to show it. you just need to know that he knows how you feel sometimes people cant express his feelings right. i mean yea sex is pretty good but still i mean why do you honestly feel like she is stealing him? and maybe this move was something he really needed. i know some people that just need to get away from everything and they moved.


i get you... but i've NEVER really know how he feels about me, i mean yeah every now and then he says something that implies what he feels, but it's never anything concrete. and yes i feel like she stole him, because i hardly saw him all summer except the times we HAD to see eachother... she was always there when we we at the mall and it just bugged the hell out of me... and yeah i understand that he moved, and I respect that it was his descision, but not only did he not tell me he was leaving, after i forgave him for that, he turned around and stopped talking to me... i's been like two weeks since i talked to him, and i'm sorry, that's too long... i hear from my "sister" more than that and she's also over 1000 miles away... i guess i'm just in a lot of pain right now

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grandkinglink

PostPosted: Sun Dec 03, 2006 9:03 pm


well sometimes you just have to wait things out then as time goes by things will heal give the guy a chance to get settled and he should start talking to you again. and maybe things will workout for your friendship and if your so called "sister" is like a 1000 miles away your friend could feel that way with all of his friends without being that far away just a thought thats all anyways have a good night
PostPosted: Wed Dec 13, 2006 8:27 am


grandkinglink
well sometimes you just have to wait things out then as time goes by things will heal give the guy a chance to get settled and he should start talking to you again. and maybe things will workout for your friendship and if your so called "sister" is like a 1000 miles away your friend could feel that way with all of his friends without being that far away just a thought thats all anyways have a good night


in my experience, time doesn't heal wounds... and i mean at all. every time I lose someone, it takes nearly a year for them to talk to me again... and even then it's rare to speak to them. I don't think i can take mush more of that, it hurts me far too much to live a year without someone, especially someone like this specific friend of mine. and it doesn't help that he doesn't effing know how to work his damned phone. rolleyes i just feel really lost right now.

and what do you mean "without being that far away"? he livs farter than that. (1182-ish)

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grandkinglink

PostPosted: Thu Jan 11, 2007 1:22 pm


anike6
grandkinglink
well sometimes you just have to wait things out then as time goes by things will heal give the guy a chance to get settled and he should start talking to you again. and maybe things will workout for your friendship and if your so called "sister" is like a 1000 miles away your friend could feel that way with all of his friends without being that far away just a thought thats all anyways have a good night


in my experience, time doesn't heal wounds... and i mean at all. every time I lose someone, it takes nearly a year for them to talk to me again... and even then it's rare to speak to them. I don't think i can take mush more of that, it hurts me far too much to live a year without someone, especially someone like this specific friend of mine. and it doesn't help that he doesn't effing know how to work his damned phone. rolleyes i just feel really lost right now.

and what do you mean "without being that far away"? he livs farter than that. (1182-ish)


i was being general about the 1000 miles away but maybe time does heal wounds because even if it is for the year after that year when you talk again its better is it not? i think you need to look at good things instead of bad things it will make lie easier
PostPosted: Fri Jan 12, 2007 9:49 am


I agree with grandkinglink.... just because someone moves doesn't mean that they never want to talk to you anymore. Maybe there were reasons behind why they didn't talk to you or respond to you. you shouldn't jump to conclusions about things like that when you don't have all the facts. and if your friend does have someone around him that he likes why would it matter to you anike6? If you friends happy why does it matter??

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green_sparkles44
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PostPosted: Sun Jan 14, 2007 10:12 am


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life
well some times i think that life isn't even worth living.
i mean really what is the point of living if we all know we are going to die?
but other times i think that the only reason i am alive is for the one we really love.
if we wanna die then why don't we.? what stops us? why can't we?
well i really need to know why life is worth living.

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Everyone has their own definition of life. Thats because we all have different experiences that make us all look at life differently. We can not tell you what life is for. We can only tell you what "our" life is for. To know the true meaning of life. Is for you to find out. You will discover this when you have truly lived life the fullest and have experienced enough things to let you either love life or hate it.

We all would die. But that's not the end. There is an after life. Well thats what i believe.

I live for the one i truly love. To please him, be with him, and enjoy life with him. I have searched and never yet have i been able to say that i truly love life because of what he has opened my eyes to.

true true i guess.
but what if the one that u truly loved never loved you?

That would be really sad. Then i suggest you jus move on and try your very best to not have feelings for that person.
PostPosted: Fri Jan 19, 2007 7:02 pm


chippymunk
I agree with grandkinglink.... just because someone moves doesn't mean that they never want to talk to you anymore. Maybe there were reasons behind why they didn't talk to you or respond to you. you shouldn't jump to conclusions about things like that when you don't have all the facts. and if your friend does have someone around him that he likes why would it matter to you anike6? If you friends happy why does it matter??


no offence, and i know this is a guild forum, but YOU specifically "chippymunk",

s t a y
o u t
o f
m y
i s s u e s

because no offence, but i only tolerate you because i don't want to deal with the mess that would come if i were to actually tell you how i feel about you, ok? so just please for your safety and sanity, don't try to "help" me.

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PostPosted: Fri Jan 19, 2007 7:05 pm


grandkinglink
anike6
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well sometimes you just have to wait things out then as time goes by things will heal give the guy a chance to get settled and he should start talking to you again. and maybe things will workout for your friendship and if your so called "sister" is like a 1000 miles away your friend could feel that way with all of his friends without being that far away just a thought thats all anyways have a good night


in my experience, time doesn't heal wounds... and i mean at all. every time I lose someone, it takes nearly a year for them to talk to me again... and even then it's rare to speak to them. I don't think i can take mush more of that, it hurts me far too much to live a year without someone, especially someone like this specific friend of mine. and it doesn't help that he doesn't effing know how to work his damned phone. rolleyes i just feel really lost right now.

and what do you mean "without being that far away"? he livs farter than that. (1182-ish)


i was being general about the 1000 miles away but maybe time does heal wounds because even if it is for the year after that year when you talk again its better is it not? i think you need to look at good things instead of bad things it will make lie easier


i alway try to look at the good, and the only reason i can't stay on the bright bubbly side of life is that even when i try to i remember everything he promised, and all the things we said we'd do together... and it just hurts to know that i won't have that, most of the memories i have of him will end up tainted because of all the s**t i've been through these past few months because of him
PostPosted: Sun Jan 21, 2007 3:14 pm


anike6
grandkinglink
anike6
grandkinglink
well sometimes you just have to wait things out then as time goes by things will heal give the guy a chance to get settled and he should start talking to you again. and maybe things will workout for your friendship and if your so called "sister" is like a 1000 miles away your friend could feel that way with all of his friends without being that far away just a thought thats all anyways have a good night


in my experience, time doesn't heal wounds... and i mean at all. every time I lose someone, it takes nearly a year for them to talk to me again... and even then it's rare to speak to them. I don't think i can take mush more of that, it hurts me far too much to live a year without someone, especially someone like this specific friend of mine. and it doesn't help that he doesn't effing know how to work his damned phone. rolleyes i just feel really lost right now.

and what do you mean "without being that far away"? he livs farter than that. (1182-ish)


i was being general about the 1000 miles away but maybe time does heal wounds because even if it is for the year after that year when you talk again its better is it not? i think you need to look at good things instead of bad things it will make lie easier


i alway try to look at the good, and the only reason i can't stay on the bright bubbly side of life is that even when i try to i remember everything he promised, and all the things we said we'd do together... and it just hurts to know that i won't have that, most of the memories i have of him will end up tainted because of all the s**t i've been through these past few months because of him


now i have a question why did you depend on him so much? i mean if you knew that he dissappears for awhile why did you put so much trust into him?

grandkinglink


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PostPosted: Mon Jan 22, 2007 12:12 pm


because he saved my life... and no matter if he dissappeared, he used to talk to me regardless.

and it's killing me because i don't have anyone... i only have one friend left from before high school for real.... and it kills me every day to know that i've lost the one i loved and held closest to me.

he said he'd always help me if i asked... and this weekend i asked and asked, and got nothing.

idk what i'm doing anymore
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