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 Posted: Fri Sep 30, 2005 5:16 am
Yes, I need some help. My little sister's turned into the biggest slut around, and she keeps doing hard drugs, screwing our cousin's fiance, and trying to kill herself. We've tried talking to her, grounding her, sending her to counseling, nothing's working. What do you suggest, other then slap her senses back?
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Posted: Fri Sep 30, 2005 8:17 pm
Tough love time. Have you tried to send her away?
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Posted: Sun Oct 02, 2005 2:16 pm
Lady Nienna Tiwele Yes, I need some help. My little sister's turned into the biggest slut around, and she keeps doing hard drugs, screwing our cousin's fiance, and trying to kill herself. We've tried talking to her, grounding her, sending her to counseling, nothing's working. What do you suggest, other then slap her senses back? what azirah said time for tough love -nod nod-
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Posted: Mon Oct 03, 2005 2:39 pm
Azirah Tough love time. Have you tried to send her away?
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Posted: Mon Oct 03, 2005 2:42 pm
kikyo_wolf I, too, have a problem I need help or adivce on.
I met a guy at the beginning of the school year there's was a guy and after a few weeks of chating on paper during math lessons, he asked me out to a movie. I did the first this that came to my mind, pniced in my mind, thinking that he likes me and no one's ever asked me out and we were only in the fifth grade so I didn't know what to do. I kept panicing until he started picking on me all the time. But then my preforming arts teacher signed up the whole fifth grade to learn Ballroom dancing. I thought I would be twiching for weeks but then whenever he would have to dance with me he would be all happy becuase he knew I hated him. I realized my feelings long after. I never had this feeling before and then the end of the school year comes and on the last day he didn't say anything to me. I didn't have enough curage to say it so I thouht it could be his choice. nothing....
I would cry sometimes becuase I thought I'm never gonna see him again becuase next year he's going to a different school.
I keep having this feeling that I'm gonna see him unexspectedly but I realized that I only have that feeling becuase I want to. I never saw him ever snice the last day of school.
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Posted: Sun Oct 30, 2005 5:02 pm
Akurei Kakudo Well i hope its ok for me to post a thread like this. sence we're all like family i thought most of us that are depressed or down or have troubles can ask the family for help. I need help. the one i love is gone i cant find him and i dont know what happend to him. i had to breakup with him for his own good and wellfair. i miss him dearly. and im so depressed. i feel so empty without him. i feel nothing. im not happy even though i act like it. but down deep im so depressed i want to kill myself. i feel horrible for breaking up with him. what should i do? i try to communicate with him but noone in his family is responding. plz help me. i want to try and be happy again. crying well if ur the age it says on ur profile, how do u know its true love exclaim question just forget him. ur to young to date anyway stare
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Posted: Wed Jan 04, 2006 7:16 am
there is no set age for dating
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Posted: Thu Jun 15, 2006 8:01 am
x.x;;
I have too many problems too list here..XD
-leaves-
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Second-In-Command-Of-Hell
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Posted: Thu Jun 15, 2006 9:20 am
You'd think I'd need advice if you knew the problem I had...but, honestly, I'm doing well...
My...well, I don't think it's really a problem...it's more of a...situation...
My mum died back in May...at first I was absolutely distraught...but, after about 3 hours I retreated into myself...
A friend of mine, who was in much the same situation at the same time, asked me how I was coping so well with it...well, I honestly wasn't...
Things started falling apart...it's just me and my dad at home now...and, things were breaking, paperwork needed to get sorted out...sometimes I honestly felt that I just really couldn't handle it...
I rarely thought about it to begin with...but, some things just remind me of it...like, this one song..."Never Went to Church" by the Streets...sets me off every time...because of the subject matter of the song...
Anyway...but, now, I'm dealing with it...I can talk about her as if she's still here, but at the same time knowing that, really, she isn't...
Sometimes I can't take it and just break down...but, that's just natural, I suppose...
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Posted: Thu Jun 15, 2006 9:32 am
aww I'm so sorry to hear that. *hugs* I don't even want to begin to think what it would be like to lose a parent. The best thing I can suggest is to talk to people..don't bottle it inside..talk to your dad even cause he'll be depressed and hurting just like you.
and there's nothing wrong with breaking down and crying...it gets rid of the pain and tension inside..if it helps, cry more often.
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Posted: Thu Jun 15, 2006 9:44 am
If it's for his own good think of how happy it's made him...if he seems empty inside too then tell the people that it's killing him too...If he is happy...and you really care about him...then you should be happy for him. Don't kill yourself over it...PLEASE Don't...
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Posted: Thu Jun 15, 2006 9:48 am
Thanks ^^
I like talking about her...but, every time i bring her up in a conversation with my friends at school, they go all quiet...as if they think they need to be careful around me about it...when, really, I'd much prefer to tlak about her...
I talk to my dad about her 3nodding we make references about her...like, there was this advert on the TV about a CD, and my dad said "That's one your mother would buy."...just stuff like that helps...
And, lol, our Geography homework was to find out from our parents whether we were planned, or if we were an "accident"...I went home and asked my dad and he said "Ummm...ask your mum!" ^^
Crying does help...usually I'm just sitting in my room and it just comes out...and I let it...I feel better after a good ol' cry 3nodding
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Posted: Thu Jun 15, 2006 9:51 am
ninja
That's depressing.
I'd give advice, but people would bitchslap me....hard..
...I hope the situation becomes..easier..and you can move on...Sorry about your mum..
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Posted: Thu Jun 15, 2006 9:52 am
Second-In-Command-Of-Hell ninja
That's depressing.
I'd give advice, but people would bitchslap me....hard..
...I hope the situation becomes..easier..and you can move on...Sorry about your mum.. ^^ thank you
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Posted: Thu Jun 15, 2006 9:54 am
Rebel_sheep Thanks ^^ I like talking about her...but, every time i bring her up in a conversation with my friends at school, they go all quiet...as if they think they need to be careful around me about it...when, really, I'd much prefer to tlak about her... I talk to my dad about her 3nodding we make references about her...like, there was this advert on the TV about a CD, and my dad said "That's one your mother would buy."...just stuff like that helps... And, lol, our Geography homework was to find out from our parents whether we were planned, or if we were an "accident"...I went home and asked my dad and he said "Ummm...ask your mum!" ^^ Crying does help...usually I'm just sitting in my room and it just comes out...and I let it...I feel better after a good ol' cry 3nodding aww well that's all good then. Just keep it up and I hope you feel better, it must be very difficult to live with sweatdrop sad
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