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PostPosted: Mon Sep 20, 2004 5:24 am


I'm very sorry to hear about your loss, Tenshi. I've been through it countless times... and it never gets any easier.

I think one of the main reasons it's hard, is because subconciously, you beat yourself up for not being able to make it better (that's what I do, anyways...)... and because when an emotional attachment is severed.. yeah, you just don't know what to do.

One of the worst things I've had to suffer through, was a puppy dying in my arms. Mm, like I said. It never gets any easier, but it may help to keep your mind on the thought that... at least the lost one isn't hurting anymore, y'know? Whether reincarnated, in heaven, or just... gone... they're better than they were when they were sick and dying.

stressed sorry if this isn't helping at all.... I know what you're going through, though... and I'm sorry.
PostPosted: Mon Sep 20, 2004 10:05 am


Piankhi-chan
I'm very sorry to hear about your loss, Tenshi. I've been through it countless times... and it never gets any easier.

I think one of the main reasons it's hard, is because subconciously, you beat yourself up for not being able to make it better (that's what I do, anyways...)... and because when an emotional attachment is severed.. yeah, you just don't know what to do.

One of the worst things I've had to suffer through, was a puppy dying in my arms. Mm, like I said. It never gets any easier, but it may help to keep your mind on the thought that... at least the lost one isn't hurting anymore, y'know? Whether reincarnated, in heaven, or just... gone... they're better than they were when they were sick and dying.

stressed sorry if this isn't helping at all.... I know what you're going through, though... and I'm sorry.


Thats true, this is corny, but kitty is in a better place now sweatdrop

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Whip It Out!

PostPosted: Mon Sep 20, 2004 3:18 pm


Thanks everyone again for all the great words. My family decided he must have had Parvo since he was only sick that one day....
PostPosted: Mon Sep 20, 2004 4:25 pm


I know how you feel, hon. I'm so sorry, and I can relate.

I live in an apartment building where all you're allowed to have is Fish.

My sister gave me 2 fish, they died. I CRIED...so my mom and I picked out two new goldfish.

One was a Pearl Goldfish, another was a BLACK Goldfish.

I named the Pearl Goldfish "Pearl" and the Black one "Onyx".

I didn't even have Pearl for a month, and when I found her lifeless in the tank the next morning, I bawled my eyes out to my fiancee.

He told me, "Sweetheart, they're just fish!"

But I bought them with my mom and we bought them so I can be happy and relaxed while looking at my fish. I felt awful because I never knew what happened, and something that I was taking care of died.

But it's usually not your fault or something just happened. s**t happens, and it's okay. I hope time heals your wounds and I'm sure you lovedthat kitten with everything you had. And I'm sure your kitten still appreciates it in a better place.

Take care,

~MM

MissMicki


Shimi-Baka

PostPosted: Fri Oct 22, 2004 4:34 pm


When anything you hold dear dies, it will always hurt but eventually it will fade away a little...I'm sorry for your loss cry I've been in the same situation may times and it doesn't get any easier, I can only say if they were suffering, they are at peace now and thats all that matters surprised )
PostPosted: Tue Oct 26, 2004 7:37 pm


its really hard to loose a living creature (be it human or animal) that you care deeply for. i remember loosing my hampster a looong time ago. i cried for about a day and mabye a bit longer. its a bad thing you know, but be happy for the cat, it is nolonger sick and nor will it ever be again for it is in a much beter place.

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PostPosted: Tue Oct 26, 2004 8:55 pm


yeah, i truly feel for ya, it does suck, losing a pet. I never learn though, and i always get another one. but as long as you always keep them in your heart, and memmories, then it's always well worth it. so don't get too sad ok?
PostPosted: Fri Oct 29, 2004 5:42 pm


life is death, and death is life

i'm sorry for your lost

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Kinsai-chan

PostPosted: Fri Oct 29, 2004 5:56 pm


TenshiDarkAngel
Thanks everyone again for all the great words. My family decided he must have had Parvo since he was only sick that one day....
what is parvo?
PostPosted: Sun Mar 13, 2005 5:53 pm


See? You can get seriously hurt from losing a pet, and people wonder why I get so upset when I see people talking about suicide... they dont seen to notice how it hurts their friends... crying

And I'm sorry for your cat.

And sorry for reviving old threads.

DwarfPriest


Shogun Gari

PostPosted: Sun Mar 13, 2005 6:07 pm


That's so sad. I am so sorry. I know how you feel. My first dog, Tallyhoe!, died when I was very young. The only memory of her I have of her is her dead body lying on the ground, my mom exploding in a shower of wails and tears, and burying her soon after.

My two other dogs, Chester and Sugar, died when their stomachs exploded. Chester's time had come- he was 17- but Sugar was too young. She spent month after month on severe medication, in and out of the vet's overnight stay, and under onstant survailence. She lost half of her weight, became weak and miserable, and nothing we did worked. We had no choice but to end her suffering. What makes me feel so horrible is the fact I took her for granted, I took both of them for granted. Everytime I think about Chester and Sugar, I cry. Right now, I can barely see the screen becuase my eyes are filled with tears. Those two were such wonderful dogs- kind, obedient, quiet, playful. Now, they are only painful memories of my heartless past.

I had other pets perish as well: my 20 fish who slowly, and painfully, died a fungus-filled death (expect one, who was suicidal- he kept jumping out of his tank), one pet hermit crab that cracked his exoskeleton and died slowly. Maggots ate through him in less than an hour, and I will never forget trying to revive him for two hours after that. My two horses, who adored me, had to be sold and killed a month after I mastered riding them.
I'm so sorry about the loss of your kitten. I understand how you feel right now. Remember: they might be gone, but live on in our hearts. Never forget the good times you had with her, even if she lived a short life.
PostPosted: Thu Mar 24, 2005 1:15 pm


sadly a friend of mine died two days ago from dificulties during surgery, she had a type of cancer, and i took it kinda hard, but sometimes you just need to move on when things liek that happen, last year when another friend of mine comitted suicide i wasnt myself for a wekk or two but slow tried to live my life. but it is very hard sad

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kristinarr

PostPosted: Thu Mar 24, 2005 9:48 pm


Aww!!! That's so sad, honey. I'm sorry... *Offers chocolate and hugs.*

I lost my bunny rabbit. To this day, I still believe that it was totally my fault, even though people try to convince me it wasn't.. I miss him like crazy. And I have only myself to blame. It really sucks, and it's hard not to be lonely.

I lost my grandpa almost a year ago, and it's really hard. It's hard to think that he's really gone, and there will be no more annoying polka music coming from his truck...

The song "Tears in Heaven" is what my dad calls my grandpa's song. It really makes me sad, but it's a great mourning song. Eric Clapton wrote it after he lost his son..

I hope you feel better, and everything works out, sweetie.
PostPosted: Thu Mar 24, 2005 9:54 pm


Gah, what am I saying?
I'm crying really hard for you right now. And I didn't even lose anyone. I'm so, so sorry for you, sweetheart. <3

kristinarr


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PostPosted: Thu Mar 24, 2005 10:52 pm


I know this is sad.................but I was sad when my catipillar died crying
His name was Bobby and lived in a glass jar with holes and I gave him lotsa leaves ^^"

My mom drowned him because he looked thirsty sad It was probably an accident but that hurt anyway sweatdrop
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