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 Posted: Thu Aug 03, 2006 6:46 pm
S.E.I.F.E.R I deal with all kinds of people from different walks of life. Each person I've tried has been completely different from the last. I do not bother with any one particular because I have been told to branch out to everyone to find my place. I still got nothing. Hmm well i dunno really what to say. I have questions for ya but i don't if oyou wanna answer em. like do you have a rep? What do you look like? (creepy, handsome, scary, a god, what) How do act around them? (quiet, shy, hyper, mean) Are you even a social person? Do you give them certain kinda of looks? hmm...I dunno. I can't think right now. Not enough coffee. stare seriously...i haven't had coffee all day....and i am hyper and i could scare satan himself. mrgreen pm me if ya wanna. blaugh
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Posted: Fri Aug 04, 2006 11:24 am
I would have to be the ugliest person in the world. I don't have any "rep" which is a stupid reason. I act friendly and inviting towards people even though I do not recieve the same response. Am I social? I'm the one whose stuck trying to get a conversation rolling before I realize I should just leave.
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Posted: Fri Aug 04, 2006 12:43 pm
Apparently this is just a pitiful place as any to recieve help.
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Posted: Fri Aug 04, 2006 10:18 pm
S.E.I.F.E.R Apparently this is just a pitiful place as any to recieve help. Well ok then. We are trying to offer you to write to us and help you and you are blowing us off. That shows something there.
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Posted: Fri Aug 04, 2006 10:19 pm
S.E.I.F.E.R I would have to be the ugliest person in the world. I don't have any "rep" which is a stupid reason. I act friendly and inviting towards people even though I do not recieve the same response. Am I social? I'm the one whose stuck trying to get a conversation rolling before I realize I should just leave. Ok...asking about you having a reputation isn't a stupid question. You could be known as a druggy or a stalker or prettymuch anything else bad. So there.
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Posted: Sat Aug 05, 2006 1:51 pm
ShortyTanker S.E.I.F.E.R I would have to be the ugliest person in the world. I don't have any "rep" which is a stupid reason. I act friendly and inviting towards people even though I do not recieve the same response. Am I social? I'm the one whose stuck trying to get a conversation rolling before I realize I should just leave. Ok...asking about you having a reputation isn't a stupid question. You could be known as a druggy or a stalker or prettymuch anything else bad. So there. I never said it was a stupid question.
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Posted: Sun Aug 06, 2006 12:54 am
Perhaps if you had a more positive attitude towards people in general you would make more friends. However I understand if you have been rejected many times you don't really HAVE a positive attitude towards people .. but you just need to try harder. PS. Prozac is horrible ... try a different anti depressant / anti-anxiety type deal. Effexor XR has worked well for me the last couple years.
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Posted: Sun Aug 06, 2006 2:22 pm
grapeseed Perhaps if you had a more positive attitude towards people in general you would make more friends. However I understand if you have been rejected many times you don't really HAVE a positive attitude towards people .. but you just need to try harder. PS. Prozac is horrible ... try a different anti depressant / anti-anxiety type deal. Effexor XR has worked well for me the last couple years. I don't want a crutch. I see taking pills as more of a crutch rather than truly being free of depression. I'm sorry but I don't like pills.
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Posted: Sun Aug 06, 2006 3:19 pm
Do you have money or resources to go someplace fresh and start anew? A change of pace might be good for you. Prolly not, since you're still in school... but for July, I went to a program at a university where no one knew each other, since we came from all over the US and the world.
You bond really fast that first day with, if not your roommates, than your classmates. Everyone sounds dumb by going "Hi, what's your name?" but you get over it and it's nice to have people to eat meals with and travel places (this was NYC) with.
And don't wallow in your own self-pity, as it seems you are doing by saying everyone else has a relationship but you. It just makes you seem less attractive. I'm sorry if that was a bit blunt, but I don't like sugarcoating things.
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Posted: Sun Aug 06, 2006 4:20 pm
Wendy_Chan Do you have money or resources to go someplace fresh and start anew? A change of pace might be good for you. Prolly not, since you're still in school... but for July, I went to a program at a university where no one knew each other, since we came from all over the US and the world. You bond really fast that first day with, if not your roommates, than your classmates. Everyone sounds dumb by going "Hi, what's your name?" but you get over it and it's nice to have people to eat meals with and travel places (this was NYC) with. And don't wallow in your own self-pity, as it seems you are doing by saying everyone else has a relationship but you. It just makes you seem less attractive. I'm sorry if that was a bit blunt, but I don't like sugarcoating things. Thank you for your advice but I am someone with very limited resources and knowledge of such activities. I'm afraid you just described something that's beyond my reach. Its not my negativity saying so, its the actual truth. Also, you have just proven that I am not attractive enough to garner any type of relationship.
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Posted: Sun Aug 06, 2006 4:22 pm
S.E.I.F.E.R Wendy_Chan Do you have money or resources to go someplace fresh and start anew? A change of pace might be good for you. Prolly not, since you're still in school... but for July, I went to a program at a university where no one knew each other, since we came from all over the US and the world. You bond really fast that first day with, if not your roommates, than your classmates. Everyone sounds dumb by going "Hi, what's your name?" but you get over it and it's nice to have people to eat meals with and travel places (this was NYC) with. And don't wallow in your own self-pity, as it seems you are doing by saying everyone else has a relationship but you. It just makes you seem less attractive. I'm sorry if that was a bit blunt, but I don't like sugarcoating things. Thank you for your advice but I am someone with very limited resources and knowledge of such activities. I'm afraid you just described something that's beyond my reach. Its not my negativity saying so, its the actual truth. Also, you have just proven that I am not attractive enough to garner any type of relationship. Well, do you want to become more attractive to people? You can change yourself more than you think, you know. "If you don't like something, change it. If you can't, change yourself"-- I forgot who said that.
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Posted: Sun Aug 06, 2006 4:50 pm
Wendy_Chan S.E.I.F.E.R Wendy_Chan Do you have money or resources to go someplace fresh and start anew? A change of pace might be good for you. Prolly not, since you're still in school... but for July, I went to a program at a university where no one knew each other, since we came from all over the US and the world. You bond really fast that first day with, if not your roommates, than your classmates. Everyone sounds dumb by going "Hi, what's your name?" but you get over it and it's nice to have people to eat meals with and travel places (this was NYC) with. And don't wallow in your own self-pity, as it seems you are doing by saying everyone else has a relationship but you. It just makes you seem less attractive. I'm sorry if that was a bit blunt, but I don't like sugarcoating things. Thank you for your advice but I am someone with very limited resources and knowledge of such activities. I'm afraid you just described something that's beyond my reach. Its not my negativity saying so, its the actual truth. Also, you have just proven that I am not attractive enough to garner any type of relationship. Well, do you want to become more attractive to people? You can change yourself more than you think, you know. "If you don't like something, change it. If you can't, change yourself"-- I forgot who said that. And what do you propose can be changed about me? Because what I am looking at, I need to change my own self. That means get rid of me and have some other person in my place.
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Posted: Sun Aug 06, 2006 5:15 pm
Well, for starters, how about getting a shot of self-esteem and picking up that negative attitude towards relationships.
If you don't want to change yourself and wish to remain in your current state forever, fine. I do not see why you asked for help in the first place, if you're just going to make excuses for all the advice given. If you want some friends, yet are not willing to make amends to assimilate yourself socially, then it's kind of a lost cause.
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Posted: Sun Aug 06, 2006 5:20 pm
Wendy_Chan Well, for starters, how about getting a shot of self-esteem and picking up that negative attitude towards relationships. If you don't want to change yourself and wish to remain in your current state forever, fine. I do not see why you asked for help in the first place, if you're just going to make excuses for all the advice given. If you want some friends, yet are not willing to make amends to assimilate yourself socially, then it's kind of a lost cause. Well for starters, I cannot physically bring myself to smile. That's how I was born and cannot help. When I try to smile it only causes me a lot of pain and strain. So I cannot look like overwhelmingly pleasant. That's just how God made me physically.
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Posted: Sun Aug 06, 2006 5:30 pm
S.E.I.F.E.R Wendy_Chan Well, for starters, how about getting a shot of self-esteem and picking up that negative attitude towards relationships. If you don't want to change yourself and wish to remain in your current state forever, fine. I do not see why you asked for help in the first place, if you're just going to make excuses for all the advice given. If you want some friends, yet are not willing to make amends to assimilate yourself socially, then it's kind of a lost cause. Well for starters, I cannot physically bring myself to smile. That's how I was born and cannot help. When I try to smile it only causes me a lot of pain and strain. So I cannot look like overwhelmingly pleasant. That's just how God made me physically. If everyone said "That's just how God made me" or "I can't help if..." we would get nowhere in self-improvement. That said, if you're bent on staying miserable and unpleasant like this, good luck with the rest of your life. I hope you come to realize that you create your own hell and there is no one else to blame. Sure, you can point the finger at parents, at the enviroment you grew up in, but in the end, we are born alone and we die alone and we bear the consequences of our actions.
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