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Leave it to Une to get things going about guys * Shakes head * I can't believe I'm doing this.. but here it goes.

Seeing as how I grew up as " One of the Chicks' Friends " ... Sitting.. watching.. babbling about how stupid boys were -.-; I can possibly help out a little.. shed some light on the situation. So, here are the top 5 facts of guys.

NOTE : The pertains to 98% of the males which inhabit earth. 1% Being Homosexual, and the other being much like myself.. Not sexualy driven, straight, and ... yeah.. *nods*

1 : Sex is next and second only to food. Guys love it and that's all they look for. Yeah girls.. at first you might THINK that you have a good catch, but in the end you'll find out that all they were after was what was hidden below the belt. This front could last anywhere from a few days to several months. And even after they get what they want.. it might go for about a few weeks after that. Guys are pigs, pigs who enjoy pleasure.

2 : Guys are social animals. They love to be noticed and have attention tossed on them. They'll do nearly anything to get it, even if it means making a complete fool of themselves or blowing off the people 'closest' to them.

3 : Guys CANNOT always be trusted. A guys trust factor is about 2/10. Sometimes you find a loyal one, but hah... have fun trying to find that 20% of them who are faithful/loyal to their commitments. They will always find someone else who interests them and they begin to consider the fact that they would be happier with that person instead of you.

4 : The male race is tricky. Even though Females may be smarter in some instances such as school, politics, and other such book sensual feats, men are sly. They know how and WILL play anyone in ANY manner just in order to get ahead and get what they want. To make you think one thing while hidding the truth.. any guy can do it, it just takes a bit of sense.

5 : Not all guys are the same. This is a very important piece of information. Each guy/male/boy/man has their own personality. Some of us are sly and manipulative why the others are just pranksters who are out for a good time and nothing else. Then there are a select few who really don't have a sexual drive and truely want to simply be there for someone. I can say these things because I am frist; A Guy. Second; Not Sexualy Driven. Third; Engaged. I'm the only male that I know of that does not fit into that 98% of guys. Online, you'll find a few but most of them, as I said, just put on a ploy and will evenually be all " GO CAM! LAWLZ "

So, for the females : Finding the right guy will take time but don't get discouraged. If females would stop falling for the male races' ploys and male the men bend to what they want, then they would be able to weed out who was the right kind of guy and who wasn't. Don't get me wrong, don't attempt to manipulate a guy because they won't put up with it.. unless you have one of those 1r;s. They'll do anything for who they care for, no matter what the cost. Just take your time, find who you're happy with, and make sure that you know them before you rush into something that you might mistake as Love.

For the Guys : ... o.o.. If there are many of you who read this, sorry xD! But you know that I'm right. Guys are Pigs.. through and through.. well.. most of them anyway. For the ones like me, you know what I'm talking about. When you go hang out with your friends all you hear are things like " Yeah! So I totaly hit that! LAWLZ " ...>_>*cough* annoying eh?

When it comes to issues with those little facts that were posted by Une.. you have to look at this : If a guy cares, he won't care about any of that. Size matters MOST of the time.. but not to everyone. I have my own theory on that..It's not the size of the boat, it's the motion in the ocean. BUT! It takes a LONG damned time to cross the ocean to england in a rowboat. xD!

But I agree with what Void said. Who cares about size? If you're going to be with a guy for his 'size'... Ehh.. I don't want to you know you.. plain and simple.. that's pretty selfish.. o.o. Guys have Feelings too T.T

Now, that I've went COMPLETELY off topic with this post.. have fun with my random bits of information that you can use against your guy friends.. xD

Now, I'm confused. @_@ I'm entering college in June! Ateneo de Manila to be precise... It's the hardest college to get into in this country due to the high tuition and entrance exam difficulty but I passed it. It's crawling with guys. Mostly high class and rich... I'm a doctor's daughter so I can hold my own ground but not being around the male species for four years, I wonder how I'll fare... sweatdrop

Btw, I turn 17 on February 3. Help me get my banis! I'm such a kid... wink

Don't worry so much about boys in college. Honestly, I wouldn't go into trying to find a guy to date. I think that if you just focus on making friends first, then eventually you'll meet someone who you are naturally drawn to. I think you'll find that you don't have to really understand how guys work, that will just come with time. Every guy is different. It shouldn't take to awfully long to get comfortable with all the guys around.

what not all guys are like that well im not like that at least 3nodding

Darling first of all. Magazines can be your best and worst friend. I must say however, you might have stumbled across one that is well..good.


Secret 1: You will never be “one of the boys.”

That is most definately the truth. In High School being one of the boys is easy, but in college, face it, you're man is going to be off with his friends. You will probably never be invited to the sports nights or whatever. Best idea...have some 'you' time with your female friends.

Secret 11: He couldn’t stand it if you’re unfaithful.

Ummm...I have no idea on this one, though no one likes unfaithful partners...right?

Secret 12: He’d rather hide his feelings when he’s down.
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A guy is feeling down, whatever you do, do not press for answers. Ask him whats wrong, give him a kiss, tell him you care, and you'll be there, and then back away.

Secret 13: He’d like to know if he “measures up” to the other men in your life.

Guys are insecure. They see you with another guy, even if it's your partner for a school project, this threatens them. Let him know, even at the most random times what makes him so special. Can it get overbearing and annoying? Oh yes....

Secret 15: He doesn’t believe men and women can be “just friends.”

Girls can be friends with guys. You're boyfriend will be a little jealous, but whatever you do, no not let the two hang out to show your boyfriend you're friend isn't a threat, you're Bf will only be threatened. Guy / girl friendships indure a lot of jealousy...but stick it through, they can work.

Secret 16: Even if he says otherwise, sex is ALWAYS on his mind.

NOT TRUE! Sometimes guys just bring it up for giggles, and to watch a girl squirm.

Secret 17: He’s scared of losing you.

You are the most treasured thing your man has. you love him and care for him, and those are feelings directed at him, no one else. Thats why men are so threatened when you're around other guys. They fear this other guy may be more romantic and charming and will steal you away.

Secret 21: He may not admit it, but he thinks you’re smarter than he is.

Ummm...not to sure about this one either....

Secret 22: He likes when you come on to him first.

I do know many guys are threatened when you ask them out, but yeah, get the relationship going and by all means show him you care by coming after him, he will love it.

Secret 23: He’ll always be intimidated by your dad.

That's very true and very basic.

Secret 25: There is always be at least one secret he’ll never tell you.

There are always secrets, that can't be helped. Respect those.

Wish I had tentacles...


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I'll say one thing about this Une, trust your guts and your friends. If they say he's up to no good trust them but check it out before you drop them. You may have a classic case of the " I'm not like that, my friends made me do it." You must becareful on what you say and do. I wish you well and do be safe and smart.