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 Posted: Mon Apr 25, 2005 8:52 am
I never saw ya pic so I dunno how big ya are wink But that guy is an a** -_-" He isn't exactly Bradd Pitt or as skinny so he has no right to say "You too big for me" stare
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Posted: Mon Apr 25, 2005 9:01 am
i did that once. kinda
met a kid off of here and he was all OMFG SHOW ME YER PICTYAR and i was all K!
and i did, he called me fat'n ugly and -i- blocked -him-
=DD
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Posted: Mon Apr 25, 2005 2:44 pm
that sucks, im sorry that happened to you, thats one of the reasons why I gave up online dating.....cause it never works out for me.....and they always expect some skinny blonde.
I used to lie about my weight so guys would like me, cause when you look at my pics you cant tell that I weigh 240 pounds..... sweatdrop
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Posted: Mon Apr 25, 2005 5:24 pm
Oh my yes... back several years ago, I was bumming around in a Yahoo chat room and met this really great (so I thought) guy from England. We end up talking every day and after about a month of this, we even exchange phone numbers and talk on the phone.... again, almost every day (I worked for MCI at the time, and could call from work on break for free biggrin ). I didn't have any pictures online then, but he sent me his... and he was nice looking, but nothing spectacular... "average". I described myself as accurately as possible, and asked him several time "You are sure it's ok that I'm big?" (I was *very* insecure then) and he always said that it didn't matter, he was interested in ME.
This progressed for three months.... he actually tells me he's fallen in love with me! He's made all these plans to send me a plane ticket to meet him in NY on his next business trip... and wants me to move to London to be with him... all that crap.
Well, I finally get some pics online... and, sure that he really meant what he said and that everything would be fine, I email him the pics. Then, as usual, I call him that night... and he (get this)... Pretends he doesn't know who I am!! I chalk it up to the fact that it was his cell, and it sounded like he ws driving, so he just couldn't hear me. So, I get home and he's online... and when I PM him, he says something to the effect of "You just weren't what I thought you were." I ask what he meant and he said "Sorry, but I don't shag fat bitches." (Exact words... I will never forget them for as long as I live!!)
Then, he blocked me.
So, yeah... I know what you mean and it sucks... but trust me, a guy who'd do that is not worthy of you or your time. And there's FAR better out there!
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Posted: Fri Apr 29, 2005 9:03 pm
Everyone is shallow... it is a disturbing trend... only a few people are really worth knowing. However, I would say this. There are almost no people who will accept someone on personality alone. I mean if its not fat, its something else really... its all about perspective. I don't know how many people would be comfortable dating someone who is Physically handicapped, or someone with Lou gherig's disease to name something. its all about perspective and how that person sees you and how you look and how you look and see others...
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