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Giving a bit of a faux-thoughtful look and light head-shrug Wyatt responded to that 'mine' bit;

"It could have been a bit of both~" he replied in a somewhat playful tone.

Cocoa finally cool enough, he took a sip.

"Well, 'boyfriend' sound a bit juvenile, but that just sounds too Animal Planet and I'm not exactly interested in our antics being documented with weird on-screen commentary, so~"

He scooted a bit closer, having given a comfortable but intimate distance before. Now it was practically knoodling.

"I'll take 'lover,' even though that's a whole 'nother level that...I'd like to take time getting to. Not like how getting to this took time, but... There's a lot to discuss there, and plenty of ground to cover in the mean time~"

Lukas could do all the punching he wanted, provided the power levels were in his favor. And provided his ex as still alive. As far as he knew, that possibility was still up in the air, and he would really rather not think on that. Instead, he had the here and now to focus on. Admitting and talking feelings was awkward, and more difficult than it should have been, but for as open as Wyatt was about some things, he was also very closely guarded in others. It was really a toss up in what he was going to word vomit about himself and what he wasn't. Usually, though, it was the things he wasn't confident about or familiar with that he found most difficult. And honestly, being given affection without forcing it, without taking it, was one of those things.

"Whatever you want. So long as we know what we are," He then made a face and responded in a light manner, "I think I'll have to pass on hubby. Had one, didn't stick."

Wyatt then shifted a bit. reaching over Lukas to set his mug down on the nightstand beside him. His now empty hand then played a bit with Lukas' slightly damp hair before resting on his chest as Wyatt playfully said;

"You know, I call you daddy as a joke but I kinda like that too, in a dirty way. It's authoritative, and implies punishment if I'm bad and that's kind of exciting~"

Was he trying to make Lukas blush? Maybe. But it was also the truth. Wyatt hadn't exactly had the opportunity to truly test out any kinks, so any time he stumbled upon something that stirred something in him, it was something he found himself thinking on.

Which came back to things they needed to talk about.

"You are very naked indeed. It's distracting, even if you are covered up. But if you want to have that conversation~ Can we discuss while I'm cooking dinner? Beef soup or beef stew?"

Being distracted by cooking would probably help him talk.

"I'd rather have you in my bed," Wyatt responded to the toga thing, fully intending the double-entendre, and appreciative of Lukas' wondering hand that he was indeed very aware of. "And I'm hungry. I couldn't exactly eat all day. Too much emotional turmoil~" He said with a fake melodrama to make light of his prior statement.

He could have gotten up out of bed without straddling Lukas, but where would the fun have been in that?

"How about we start this discussion with your... experience, preferences, things you're curious about~" He listed off a few topics while he sat there on top of Lukas, before finally finishing his journey and striding towards the kitchen, both still able to see the other as they talked.

"Hmmm. I think I'm just good at acting like I know what I'm doing in certain areas, rather than actually experienced? And confidence will go a long way, really. Cause I can't say I really got the opportunity to play around much. I was always a top, but-" he peeked around the corner as he washed his hands and gave a very look-y look to Lukas, "-I've been very bottom-curious~" he then resumed a more neutral expression as he reached into the fridge for the stew meat that he had been letting un-freeze.

"I am comfortable with the idea of both? y'know... A pancake's not done till it has been flipped on both sides, right?" he smirked.

Then out of nowhere;

"I like my hair being pulled. Not like.....violently yanked but like... get a nice grip near the scalp and just..." puppet him around like that rat in that one Disney movie "pull." He shrugged, now grabbing a bag of mixed veggies out of the freezer, then potatoes out of a drawer, moving about the kitchen with purpose.

"Okay, secret - It's not that hard to rile me up in bed, there is a very repressed satyromaniac in me, and it is loud, so you will have audible affirmation of your acts," Wyatt said with a bit of a laugh.

If Lukas remembered, he had been very umm....touch-responsive and vocal during that leg massage.

Now, for some reassurance;

'Honey," the word slipped out naturally, and honestly, Wyatt didn't realized he had said it, "I'm not expecting a world class performance on the first go. Hell, things will be slow and awkward for a while as we learn one another and what we like and how." He shrugged, now cutting up potatoes. "I am clearly not going to rush you in to anything. That's why I wanted to discuss things before we...do things. I want to be responsible, and good to you."

Wyatt was very concerned with making sure Lukas would enjoy himself, and not worry himself too much with him, so that he could let loose and enjoy things. He was already forming the scenario in his mind~

"Speaking of being responsible - Condoms, yes or no? I'm clean, I'd be willing to stake my life and savings that you're clean, so it's more of a matter of hygienic preference~"

Wyatt laughed, "I thought you were 'ready to hear every single word,' though?" He teased. But he could tell my how short Lukas' replies were getting that he was getting embarrassed.

Silly man, Wyatt fed on that. But he was not without mercy. In to the pot the potatoes went with the seasoned beef cubes that were already in there, and a few other ingredients. The mixed vegetables wouldn't go in until later, or they would be cooked to pieces.

"But I mean it though when I say I want to be good to you," he replied, coming back in to the bedroom area to sit down while things cooked.

He cupped Lukas' cheek and did offer a gentle, albeit amused, smile.

"If you want to talk feelings, fine. I do worry about how my previous injury might effect my...performance," he admitted, something that was kind of a 'deep dark embarrassing' concern he'd had for a while.

"I've been a pretty good boy, all things considered," Wyatt said with a fake pout, scooting to cuddle up beside Lukas, letting his new 'partner' hold him. As he cuddled in, head placed on that comfy spot between chest and shoulder, he looked up at Lukas, meeting his eyes with earnest emotion in his own.

"And I am willing to continue to be good, because no matter how raging my libido is, what matters more is that you are comfortable and want it as much as I do. I don't ever want you to do anything because you think I want you to. And never be afraid to tell me to stop, or no. ...We'll come up with a safe word later," he finished this rather serious admission with some light humor, reaching up to lightly boop his nose.