Friends were important, and being able to relate ones friends to a lover was important, but there were often other things that pressed in priority for time and attending to. Like each other.
"But now he and I have met, so maybe next time it will not be so strange. Sometime for dinner. Do you think he will mind meeting plain clothes? Or is that too much of work being brought home for him? "
"Would you like to go shopping now? If you're done with quotas. Maybe it is easier to think of cooking with all the food at hand in the grocery."
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