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Posted: Thu Jun 21, 2012 1:05 pm

Omg Streets I'm exactly the same.
Intercourse for me starts to get painful if it goes on for like over 10 mins. And at that point I need him to pull out, have some more "foreplay" and then continue.

I've considered using lube or something because I've heard that a lot of girls on the pill are just dryer than they should be which is why it gets painful. Although I feel really wet, it apparently isn't always the case that I'm actually very wet. I just wouldn't know where to start with buying lube or using it etc.

Posted: Thu Jun 21, 2012 1:13 pm

I thought I was alone crying

I'm able to get really wet, but as soon as pain kicks in or boredom from not feeling any pleasure ( I have to be touching myself during intercourse or else i don't feel much ) then I'll start drying up and the whole experience will get worse and worse.

Lube sucks. We bought a very highly rated, very expensive lube. It worked for not making me itchy after, but it started being super sticky after about 10 minutes (which seems to always happen!).

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Arianah

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Posted: Thu Jun 21, 2012 1:18 pm

I cannot get it in there without lube AND foreplay. It just won't happen. I will feel like I'm being given a thousand indian burns and have to soak in a tub of water afterward without it.

Posted: Thu Jun 21, 2012 4:07 pm

Streetlight Fights

I thought I was alone crying

I'm able to get really wet, but as soon as pain kicks in or boredom from not feeling any pleasure ( I have to be touching myself during intercourse or else i don't feel much ) then I'll start drying up and the whole experience will get worse and worse.

Lube sucks. We bought a very highly rated, very expensive lube. It worked for not making me itchy after, but it started being super sticky after about 10 minutes (which seems to always happen!).

I know exactly how that feels. I just feel so bad when it happens though. Like I'll be in pain and I'm like "I'll just soldier through this I CAN DO IT" but it just gets worse and worse until I have to just stop. It's not every single time though, but I have no idea why sometimes it just starts hurting really soon, and other times I feel like I could go on for ages.

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Arianah

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Posted: Thu Jun 21, 2012 5:40 pm

Vitamin Crack

I have no idea why sometimes it just starts hurting really soon, and other times I feel like I could go on for ages.

It's probably dependent on where you are in your cycle. We are dryer more some days than others and even when on bcp that cycle tries to continue in spite of not ovulating.

Posted: Sun Jun 24, 2012 12:57 pm

Liquid Silk is the best lube out there.

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Arianah

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Posted: Sun Jun 24, 2012 1:34 pm

That stuff burns. My gyno recommends Slippery Stuff (which also is sold under the name Femmeglide). It's the only thing that doesn't burn me.

Posted: Sun Jul 01, 2012 11:26 am

Eros Bodyglide is the best lube I've ever used. I think it's expensive though...

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