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 Posted: Thu Aug 04, 2011 10:06 pm
bollier No, I wouldn't change. Originally, I would have said yes, but I have grown since then, and I am finally comfortable with my sexuality. Now, I want to change the world, not myself (that sounds really corny, but it's true sweatdrop ). can i join you in the battle? biggrin
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Posted: Thu Aug 04, 2011 10:18 pm
Hmm when I thought was a monster and went suicidal? Lol yeah probably. But not now. There's nothing to change.
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Posted: Thu Aug 04, 2011 10:19 pm
I've thought about this in many different ways, to be honest.
I can't stand the fact that I only ever seem to be attracted to straight guys, so I thought "you know, what if I was born a girl? Would things be easier?"
My friend did suggest a sex change, but that's not quite what I was aiming for.
To be honest, I'm happy as a gay male, because I feel like if I were born as anything else, there would be more of a chance of me being against the LGBT community. I'm not saying it would be a definite "yes", but being a part of the community makes me feel like I have a place in the world, and have something to fight for.
So no, I wouldn't want to change my orientation.
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Posted: Thu Aug 04, 2011 10:50 pm
I have thought about this quite a few times
and I have concluded that yes I would become a heterosexual if I had the ability, I'd also would changed my gender to that of a female. That way I wouldn't be yelled at every day for looking at another guy and say allowed "he's cute" or have to worry that if I brought my boyfriend home that both my parents would yell at us and kick me and him out.
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Posted: Fri Aug 05, 2011 12:05 am
Yes....would've been my answer a year back, but now. no ******** way, I love being me, and I like being gay, just like my friends enjoy being straight.
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Posted: Fri Aug 05, 2011 1:02 am
Change myself to be labled as normal by society? Like hell! I'd rather be myself and be happy than change myself because of the ignorance of others.
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Posted: Fri Aug 05, 2011 1:28 am
I am straight (Though for some reason, LGBT issues are really big for me, so for the longest time I thought there was something I wasn't admitting to myself) so I can't really answer that.
However, what I do have is a knack for getting myself bullied. I think it's a combination of being way too into books and internet, not knowing any of the fashion/music trends and certainly never following them, and also jusping in and defending anyone else I feel is being bullied, which seems to distract all the a*****e's energies onto me. Oh, also, having skipped noit one but two grades, making me the shrimpy, did not help. And I wouldn't change any of that. It's got disadvantages, like having very few friends, but in the end I wouldn't want to be close to people who only like me because I'm someone different. I have a few really good friends who accept and value me for who I am, and a fantastic family that I love very much, and who I know love me back.
However, I'm very lucky in that my parents are super-supportive of everything I have ever chosen to do, so I'm really not sure how I'd feel about the whole thing if, say, I had my fashionhead, drunk-driver, bigoted aunt as a mother. (I had to spend a weekend with her out of politeness, it was awful... I have a suspicion that after even so much as a month of living with her, I'd be wishing very hard I was more stupid and fashionheaded just so I could actually enjoy her company and avoid her very vocal disapproval.)
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Posted: Fri Aug 05, 2011 6:31 am
Nope I will stay straight.
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Posted: Fri Aug 05, 2011 9:40 am
mehhhh i dunno.. i love who i am and never would want to change it but theres always the curiosity. but if i was given a decision i would have to say no and stay the way i am. i love myself and wouldnt want to change .
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Posted: Sat Aug 06, 2011 1:41 pm
It took me years to figure myself out, and a lot of hardships and life experience came with that. Changing my sexuality would be like erasing the importance of those moments in my life, and I wouldn't trade my memories and feelings for anything in the world. I will never forget what got me to where I am, a proud lesbian.
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Posted: Sat Aug 06, 2011 2:52 pm
Dear friends,
I want to say first, how proud I am that some of you are strong enough to say that you wouldn't change a thing. I admire you and you've got a lot to be proud of! I'm glad you wouldn't change.
For those of you that would change or have thought about changing: I understand. It would make things easier, it seems. I know it's hard and you get put through a lot, but keep strong. Everything works out!
Thanks to all of you for replying! biggrin
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Posted: Fri Aug 12, 2011 12:51 am
Well, no. I believe it's impossible to change things like that. And people who say they have but struggle to be accepted as straight, well, the answer to them is that they aren't.
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Posted: Fri Aug 12, 2011 8:15 pm
Its not that i like or dislike being bi, but it is who i am, and i dont want to change that.
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Posted: Fri Aug 12, 2011 9:05 pm
No I would not change who I am and I never would have. I am who I am and if others can not acccpet that then I dont need them, if someone really cares they wont mind that I am bi-sexual they will just want me to be happy. It would be nice to be able to let my girlfriend meet my parents without them disowning me though.
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Posted: Fri Aug 12, 2011 11:40 pm
Lol you're welcome. Still won't change. x3
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