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 Posted: Mon Feb 14, 2005 2:26 pm
If i end up bi i will probably only come out to my cat's ^ ^, b/c my family would be less confused if they thought me as always straight.
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Posted: Mon Feb 14, 2005 2:35 pm
Uther_Litebring If i end up bi i will probably only come out to my cat's ^ ^, b/c my family would be less confused if they thought me as always straight. Lolwow nice prediction
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Posted: Mon Feb 14, 2005 3:04 pm
Well, I think I'm going to give in and just tell if anyone asks. I mean most people out here come out in Freshman year so I guess I'll start a little early. Well, I guess I might deny it until April 13th.
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Posted: Mon Feb 14, 2005 3:09 pm
Thank you you guys for the sympathy i mean yeah it is real bad
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Posted: Mon Feb 14, 2005 3:33 pm
loginbin3000 KiteInuyasha I've only told two of my best friends that I'm Bi. My friend Leah and my friend Jenny. If my parents knew they would hate me even more than they do now....My bros and sisters hate me too...they dont say it but, they do.. crying crying crying *Hugs from behind* Awww Thanks mate *hugs back and sniffles*
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Posted: Mon Feb 14, 2005 3:41 pm
I... well with one friend it was beacuse she told me she was bi... So I told her. With another I dunno... He's a good friend of mine, so when he asked me out, I felt like I need to give him a reason.
Then the last of my close friend was during lunch on Friday. On thursday our school "counsler" had come in and we'd played the "awkward question" game. Were you write a person question and someone else (randomly) draws three of the pieces of paper out, picks one, and gives an answer. One of my questions was "What do you want your life story to be?" And I said some things then "and get married to someone I love, a guy or a girl." And my friend kind of freaked, so on friday I told her I was Pan.
Oh, the first person I told (it was so funny) we were talking on MSN and she said something about how sad she was she didn't have a boyfriend, and I told that the only person who had ever said they liked me was a girl on the web (from another web-site) and we started talking about and I told her I was Pan-ish. I was a little confused then. But now she keeps saying like "So, seen any cute girls?" xd
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Posted: Mon Feb 14, 2005 6:02 pm
I really have no idea who i am. I dont know if any of my friends are. Although, i guess it really dosent matter. Love is love. I love all of my friends, and i have bi and gay friends, i'm sure. I support ya all the way, cause' hell... you only live once. 3nodding
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Posted: Mon Feb 14, 2005 7:35 pm
for me, i don't really know if my bi or not, i mean its kinda weird considering my life, but anyways
i mean if i was i would be really scared to tell some of my friends, although i know they would not reject me or anything, and then for another half of my friends, some of them already are pretty sure they aer, so if i told them, they would just be like 'cool!'
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Posted: Mon Feb 14, 2005 10:49 pm
First off Hi everyone! Brand new to this whole world of Gaia so I hope to get to know some of you all in the future! ^_^ But back to topics, um I think it's wierd I have felt a stronger attraction to guys for several years, probably long long before I knew what it was to be bi or anything of that sort. But only recently have i really started pushing to accept what I am. A few months ago me and a few of my best and closest friends got together for a drink and somehow it slipped out that I was bi to them and from there I denied it profusly to there faces every time I saw them, even though they were all MORE than understanding my best friends fiancee has a thing for gay guys so she was lighting up over it, but the part that really kicked my head off my shoulders was the following time after that, it slipped that I told my best friend that I had the most insane crush on him during the first long while I met him, which I have since been...mostly, sorta, not really over him... sad but he laughed it off and said he had some idea that I did, even though he is straight he still found it flattering and now proceeds to mess with me about it and does things to provoke my "feelings" for him....he's a jerk! wink But I am in the same boat as most, here I am 21 years old and am more terrified of telling anyone else I know, what I am and most of all my parents who will NEVER know...it would kill them, plain and simple...
Sorry so long winded but it's nice to get those thoughts off my chest! ^^
~Snow 3nodding
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Posted: Tue Feb 15, 2005 6:12 am
My mother is a Christian Zealot and my Father is a Minister too...
But my dad is a smart man and has told me that no where in the true Christian teachings does it say homosexuality is bad...so...hes really cool.
When I told my mom, she said "People like you go to hell."
My school...different playground there. I told someone, a rumour was spread, and I took a whomping one day walking home. :\
I lost alot of friends too. But I gained alot of good friends. It all sounds shitty really, but truth be told, Im glad I told. Its a relief really.
Sure I get flak at school, my stuff gets taken or I get smacked around, and my mom has disowned me...
But I have friends, and my dad, as well as people like me.
That's more than I could've asked for.
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Posted: Tue Feb 15, 2005 1:14 pm
1. Im in college now, but in highschool, my junior year, it did slip out that I was bi. I had created an online personal saying bi/curious and it described me exactly and at my home town there is no one else like me. During a computer science class some kids thought it would be fun to see if there were any gays in town, and they found my profile and I was really scared. I found a print-out of the personal in my locker and I decided I couldn't tell anyone, other then my best friend, who is a lesbian. I denied it and said some jerk made it up and I even went to my cousnler and mentioned a name of a person who was spreading this profile everywhere. Well he got into a lot of trouble and he never forgot that. My name was clean again.
2. Last summer my sister found gay porn on my computer and questioned me. I totally lied to her and said I was looking up lesbian porn and that I recieved a virus from on of them. She beleived me.
3. Ok now the present. On coming out day I decided not to hide myself anymore. I guess the 10% soceity's advertising the day all over the sidewalk with chalk at my college gave me courage. I came out to all of my friends here and to my really good friends in my hometown. Everyone took it well, but one of my friends accidently told that guy that I had turned in my junior year that I am bi, and he told everyone there. Now other sister lives near me and she heard the rumors about me being gay and questioned me. Well I wouldn't lie about it, but I don't want her to know. Luckily they told her that I am gay. So I didn't lie. Also Last week my mom was coming up for a doctor appointment and her specialist is in the same city I live in so she came to visit me. I was going to tell her, but she brought her boyfriend with. So I didn't tell her, but she found out anyways. I let her sit at my computer when she was here, and I had left my xanga (online journal) up on my computer. Well she read it but didn't say anything. I wasn't sure if she saw anything to reveiling, because she only got to see what was on the screen, so I called her the next day. I started to tell her, but she stopped me and said "I know and I will love you no matter what". The funny the was that she got stuck in this city when her car broke down, so I went to visit her at her hotel and we hugged and she told me that she loved me.
I know I am bi, but I think I am gay. I still a virgin crying so I don't know yet.
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Posted: Tue Feb 15, 2005 1:30 pm
HOLY CRAP!!!!!! Your mom told you were going to hell?!!!!!!!!!!!! Thats bull! *hugs bigjr* crying but your lucky to have a cool dad like that even for a minister! Hell at least you said something and got it over with. I'm too fearful, Cuz I get made fun of and people laugh at me a lot. and hey if i not enough of a freak lets add the fact that I bi. Then I'll lose my best friend and all the others. and i only have my friends aaron and angela(both bi) Is it true that people seem to fall in love with their best friends? I wonder, out of those people that have that problem, how many actually dated their friend after coming out to them and how many lost a friend.
My parently situation isnt any better than my friends. My parents always wanted me to be a normal child who was smart, nice, and helpful. well ok, I'm those things but cant we mix it up with some.....other things like bi and gothic. NOPE! unless you want the s**t beat out of you by your dad, mom disowns you, and sis acts like your a house guest that belongs in a funny farm.
But someday, I swear I'll say something. lets just hope it isnt at like before my mothers death or at my sis's wedding. that suck haaa.
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Posted: Tue Feb 15, 2005 3:07 pm
If your losing friends over something like that they never were your friends in the first place.
I lost alot of friends when I came out, and I gained a ton. Its better to say when your independant though...I still live with my mom for another 7 months and eh...bad idea.
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Posted: Tue Feb 15, 2005 3:20 pm
I already came out to my twin she is ok with it, now the next person is at my school he is gay and I love him so much as a brother I know he will exsept me.
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Posted: Tue Feb 15, 2005 3:33 pm
it was easy for me to tell my mom I was bi. This guy had been bugging me and he liked me. My friend ((a girl in her 20's who was engaged to her boyfriend)) and I were at wal mart and the guy was there. He came up to me and asked if could talk to me, I said no, he asked if he could ask me a question, I said no again. my friend then put her arms around me and said "shes my woman she doesnt want you" she and I walked around holding hands. To this day he hasnt bothered me but anyway.
When we got home we told my mom what we did, it was actually a joke, shes quite straight. Well after they left my mom was joking about "my woman" a few days of joking I told her that I was kind of interested in girls and she said it was perfectly fine. That was a relief for me.
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