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PostPosted: Tue Aug 30, 2011 5:09 am


So... after talking with boy1 and boy2 about it, and after talking to my doctor, I'm going lawyer hunting. Not to bite them in strange places, but to hopefully find one that will either take payment or go pro bono (or however that's spelled). It's costing my ex too much to pay for new glasses every 6 months because of the damage and too much in medication. So, the people who attacked me are going to be sued for the resulting medical costs, the future medical costs + damages and whatever else I can hit them with.
PostPosted: Tue Aug 30, 2011 9:48 am


Found one. Even managed to make the phone call. Took so much out of me to do it though that I had to go nap.

Since I have no income and I have medically documented proof that the attack they did on me has damaged my eye sight permanently and worsened my own depression and anxiety to the point of going from just 1 anti-depressant a day to 7 pills a day, 3 different kinds, and if this test run of meds doesn't work, then I go up to anti-psychotics.

It'll be interesting since right from the day after it happened, the line they took is "we didn't do anything" because they were so loaded, they don't remember beating me. >.>

So now I just need to figure out what closure on all this is worth to me.

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PostPosted: Tue Aug 30, 2011 9:57 am


I missed something- which attack? sweatdrop
PostPosted: Tue Aug 30, 2011 10:01 am


Oh no! I hope you're going to be okay and can adapt sad What the heck happened? I hope that justice is served for whatever happened!

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PostPosted: Tue Aug 30, 2011 10:54 am


I don't think I've posted about it in this guild. Last November, me and boy1 went to a (then) friend's pre-wedding party. Her family is a bunch of alcoholic red necks and there was no one there from his family. >.> Because none of them like her family. Her family didn't (maybe still doesn't) want them getting married and her sister picked arguments with everyone from the guests to the bridal party.

At the end of the night, the sister started in on the groom and boy1 and I verbally defended him. The sister, her husband, her cousin and her brother in law all rushed the van we were sitting in. Things escalated, boy1 was being strangled and hit in the head (thankfully, all he is is bone, so the boys hurt themselves more than they hurt him).

I was hit on the right side of my head repeatedly (permanently changing the shape of my right eyeball) and at the back of my head. I was dragged from the van from my hair, hit in the face and knocked down. While I was down, they kicked me all over and when I blacked out from it all, they left me there. I called the cops when I came to and they all took off to hide behind the bride and left us alone.

The cops called that no assults were made so they didn't have to do any paperwork but I've gone through two prescriptions since November for my eyes and I've gone from 1 pill a day to 7 and my anxiety still isn't calming down. So I'm taking them to court for costs plus whatever I feel the damages are worth, which I have no idea about that kind of stuff.

Mostly, I just want to hide in a hole where no one can find me. >.> As long as I have internet and my computer there.
PostPosted: Thu Sep 01, 2011 8:07 am


Well, legal aid is helping me, I go to see them on the 20th. I posted around to see if there's a kind soul out here locally who'll teach me self defense and maybe that'll help my anxiety go down. I don't want to do martial arts, I just want self defense.

Meh. Sometimes, it's just a waste of time anyway.

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PostPosted: Thu Sep 01, 2011 10:46 am


Shayne Indra
Well, legal aid is helping me, I go to see them on the 20th. I posted around to see if there's a kind soul out here locally who'll teach me self defense and maybe that'll help my anxiety go down. I don't want to do martial arts, I just want self defense.

Meh. Sometimes, it's just a waste of time anyway.

Self defense is something I would encourage anyone to learn 3nodding
PostPosted: Thu Sep 01, 2011 10:51 am


Saew
Shayne Indra
Well, legal aid is helping me, I go to see them on the 20th. I posted around to see if there's a kind soul out here locally who'll teach me self defense and maybe that'll help my anxiety go down. I don't want to do martial arts, I just want self defense.

Meh. Sometimes, it's just a waste of time anyway.

Self defense is something I would encourage anyone to learn 3nodding


I've wanted to learn for a while, but I can't go out to the classes, my anxiety wouldn't settle down enough for that, and I can't afford a personal trainer. I doubt anyone's going to answer my ad and right now, meh.

I'd rather just crawl back in bed and pull the covers over my head.

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M00nbat

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PostPosted: Thu Sep 01, 2011 10:52 am


Shayne Indra


I've wanted to learn for a while, but I can't go out to the classes, my anxiety wouldn't settle down enough for that, and I can't afford a personal trainer. I doubt anyone's going to answer my ad and right now, meh.

I'd rather just crawl back in bed and pull the covers over my head.

Pretending to be invisible doesn't really work, Kimmie sad
PostPosted: Thu Sep 01, 2011 10:55 am


Saew
Shayne Indra


I've wanted to learn for a while, but I can't go out to the classes, my anxiety wouldn't settle down enough for that, and I can't afford a personal trainer. I doubt anyone's going to answer my ad and right now, meh.

I'd rather just crawl back in bed and pull the covers over my head.

Pretending to be invisible doesn't really work, Kimmie sad


I know, but I'm miserable today and I'm tired and I'm sad, and all kinds of other things and I'm stuck waiting. For everything that's bothering me or that's a major problem for me, I'm stuck waiting, I can't do anything about them and the one thing I've found that I'm good at that I can do while I wait, I can't do cause I can't afford the tools to do it well. sad So I'd rather just give up and go back to bed.

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