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You mean you don't understand why people can't say sorry without argument?

Yeah, I can be that way, also. Where I word things weird or something and I confuse people on accident. God willing, though? The point will get across, even if I have to apologize and retry.

As far as why people can't just say sorry without argument? Yeah, it is too bad. I'd rather just try to bash this pride down, you know? If I'm wrong or if I have hurt someone or offended them, I want to be quick to apologize and try to fix it somehow. If I'm not quick to do it? I hope people will forgive me when I do finally apologize and realize my error. I don't want to hinder Jesus Christ or His Gospel with my foolishness.

Amen. It's a good way to be, I believe. It's good to be humble and try to be submissive and meek. It's better to be cautious not to hurt someone than to just assume you didn't and cause problems somehow, as far as I'm concerned.

Haha. Besides, look at it this way? Who thinks you're a jerk because you apologize too much? They may be annoyed, but I doubt they'd think you're a jerk. Now, if you offend someone and you don't apologize? Even if it was unintentional? They may indeed think you're a jerk. Regardless of whether or not you even did anything intentionally, the thought against you is still there. People can choose to be against Christ more, to try to justify themselves in it, just because they don't like something they think you did to them.

Thank God it isn't our words and our actions that really change men, but instead, it's God. Because we fail sometimes. We really just don't nail it sometimes and we can mess up and stumble on our words and look foolish and just make so many mistakes, yet regardless? God can change a man's heart, even with our shortcomings. God is awesome.