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 Posted: Thu Mar 03, 2011 2:21 pm
iRuben pirulaso iRuben pirulaso iRuben pirulaso Well is it really that bad? You said in one sentence which means one burst of anger.. What was she angry about to begin with? thats the point i dont know why she called me all that she just went up to me and started screaming all that at me And you didnt ask? Like why are you yelling? no i was too afraid to even ask why she yelled at me and she jsut walked away from me Wellp, next time, you gotta ask then. It may lead to more yelling, but at least you'll know why Maybe you left the dog inside and it s**t everywhere.. Who knows. As for feeling better, lets go outside! Punch a tree or angry dwarf. Get your mind off things.. The computer probably wont help with the lazy thing im not even on the computer much tho and i always do every little thing for her Maybe your mom is bipolar or something.. Or you could ask your dad if he's around, maybe he knows what upset her
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Posted: Thu Mar 03, 2011 2:36 pm
I was scared of talking to my mom too when I was still living with her..
We got into a huge fight when I defended my sister from her.. She got really mad at me when I tried to explain to her that there were other ways of talking to her kids besides yelling.. She proved me right when the next day she came into my room with a contract for me to sign & if I didn't I would get kicked out.
I handed it back to her & told her I refuse to sign & that I will be moving out by the end of the year.. & I did.
I'm not sure if I'm in a better or worse situation now considering I get called lazy daily for not doing the littlest of things. Oh and don't even get my started about me "being to lazy to get a job" even though I've tried :/
& you know what makes it all worse? hearing it from someone I love.
So I really do know how you feel.. s**t hurts & you wonder why it would happen to you.. -hugs- I hope you feel better.. Go talk to your mom about it when you feel the time is right.
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Posted: Thu Mar 03, 2011 2:53 pm
Lady Kira X I was scared of talking to my mom too when I was still living with her..
We got into a huge fight when I defended my sister from her.. She got really mad at me when I tried to explain to her that there were other ways of talking to her kids besides yelling.. She proved me right when the next day she came into my room with a contract for me to sign & if I didn't I would get kicked out.
I handed it back to her & told her I refuse to sign & that I will be moving out by the end of the year.. & I did.
I'm not sure if I'm in a better or worse situation now considering I get called lazy daily for not doing the littlest of things. Oh and don't even get my started about me "being to lazy to get a job" even though I've tried :/
& you know what makes it all worse? hearing it from someone I love.
So I really do know how you feel.. s**t hurts & you wonder why it would happen to you.. -hugs- I hope you feel better.. Go talk to your mom about it when you feel the time is right. Wait, whose calling you lazy now?
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Posted: Thu Mar 03, 2011 2:53 pm
Lady Kira X I was scared of talking to my mom too when I was still living with her..
We got into a huge fight when I defended my sister from her.. She got really mad at me when I tried to explain to her that there were other ways of talking to her kids besides yelling.. She proved me right when the next day she came into my room with a contract for me to sign & if I didn't I would get kicked out.
I handed it back to her & told her I refuse to sign & that I will be moving out by the end of the year.. & I did.
I'm not sure if I'm in a better or worse situation now considering I get called lazy daily for not doing the littlest of things. Oh and don't even get my started about me "being to lazy to get a job" even though I've tried :/
& you know what makes it all worse? hearing it from someone I love.
So I really do know how you feel.. s**t hurts & you wonder why it would happen to you.. -hugs- I hope you feel better.. Go talk to your mom about it when you feel the time is right. Ahem. I hope I'm still a possible option for an escape
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Posted: Thu Mar 03, 2011 2:55 pm
pirulaso Lady Kira X I was scared of talking to my mom too when I was still living with her..
We got into a huge fight when I defended my sister from her.. She got really mad at me when I tried to explain to her that there were other ways of talking to her kids besides yelling.. She proved me right when the next day she came into my room with a contract for me to sign & if I didn't I would get kicked out.
I handed it back to her & told her I refuse to sign & that I will be moving out by the end of the year.. & I did.
I'm not sure if I'm in a better or worse situation now considering I get called lazy daily for not doing the littlest of things. Oh and don't even get my started about me "being to lazy to get a job" even though I've tried :/
& you know what makes it all worse? hearing it from someone I love.
So I really do know how you feel.. s**t hurts & you wonder why it would happen to you.. -hugs- I hope you feel better.. Go talk to your mom about it when you feel the time is right. Wait, whose calling you lazy now? bf
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Posted: Thu Mar 03, 2011 2:55 pm
tina138 Lady Kira X I was scared of talking to my mom too when I was still living with her..
We got into a huge fight when I defended my sister from her.. She got really mad at me when I tried to explain to her that there were other ways of talking to her kids besides yelling.. She proved me right when the next day she came into my room with a contract for me to sign & if I didn't I would get kicked out.
I handed it back to her & told her I refuse to sign & that I will be moving out by the end of the year.. & I did.
I'm not sure if I'm in a better or worse situation now considering I get called lazy daily for not doing the littlest of things. Oh and don't even get my started about me "being to lazy to get a job" even though I've tried :/
& you know what makes it all worse? hearing it from someone I love.
So I really do know how you feel.. s**t hurts & you wonder why it would happen to you.. -hugs- I hope you feel better.. Go talk to your mom about it when you feel the time is right. Ahem. I hope I'm still a possible option for an escape yes yes >.> but youre so far..
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Posted: Thu Mar 03, 2011 2:58 pm
Lady Kira X pirulaso Lady Kira X I was scared of talking to my mom too when I was still living with her..
We got into a huge fight when I defended my sister from her.. She got really mad at me when I tried to explain to her that there were other ways of talking to her kids besides yelling.. She proved me right when the next day she came into my room with a contract for me to sign & if I didn't I would get kicked out.
I handed it back to her & told her I refuse to sign & that I will be moving out by the end of the year.. & I did.
I'm not sure if I'm in a better or worse situation now considering I get called lazy daily for not doing the littlest of things. Oh and don't even get my started about me "being to lazy to get a job" even though I've tried :/
& you know what makes it all worse? hearing it from someone I love.
So I really do know how you feel.. s**t hurts & you wonder why it would happen to you.. -hugs- I hope you feel better.. Go talk to your mom about it when you feel the time is right. Wait, whose calling you lazy now? bf -sigh- money troubles with do that
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Posted: Thu Mar 03, 2011 2:58 pm
Lady Kira X tina138 Lady Kira X I was scared of talking to my mom too when I was still living with her..
We got into a huge fight when I defended my sister from her.. She got really mad at me when I tried to explain to her that there were other ways of talking to her kids besides yelling.. She proved me right when the next day she came into my room with a contract for me to sign & if I didn't I would get kicked out.
I handed it back to her & told her I refuse to sign & that I will be moving out by the end of the year.. & I did.
I'm not sure if I'm in a better or worse situation now considering I get called lazy daily for not doing the littlest of things. Oh and don't even get my started about me "being to lazy to get a job" even though I've tried :/
& you know what makes it all worse? hearing it from someone I love.
So I really do know how you feel.. s**t hurts & you wonder why it would happen to you.. -hugs- I hope you feel better.. Go talk to your mom about it when you feel the time is right. Ahem. I hope I'm still a possible option for an escape yes yes >.> but youre so far.. I'm what....two hours away (?) As for a mother issue, when my mother was still alive....make a long story short I could fill a book. But at this point in my life I think it would be better to keep what respect you have for your mother. If she doesn't do this daily then you're lucky.
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Posted: Thu Mar 03, 2011 3:01 pm
Lady Kira X I was scared of talking to my mom too when I was still living with her..
We got into a huge fight when I defended my sister from her.. She got really mad at me when I tried to explain to her that there were other ways of talking to her kids besides yelling.. She proved me right when the next day she came into my room with a contract for me to sign & if I didn't I would get kicked out.
I handed it back to her & told her I refuse to sign & that I will be moving out by the end of the year.. & I did.
I'm not sure if I'm in a better or worse situation now considering I get called lazy daily for not doing the littlest of things. Oh and don't even get my started about me "being to lazy to get a job" even though I've tried :/
& you know what makes it all worse? hearing it from someone I love.
So I really do know how you feel.. s**t hurts & you wonder why it would happen to you.. -hugs- I hope you feel better.. Go talk to your mom about it when you feel the time is right. im trying to feel better and thanks..
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Posted: Thu Mar 03, 2011 3:02 pm
tina138 Lady Kira X tina138 Lady Kira X I was scared of talking to my mom too when I was still living with her..
We got into a huge fight when I defended my sister from her.. She got really mad at me when I tried to explain to her that there were other ways of talking to her kids besides yelling.. She proved me right when the next day she came into my room with a contract for me to sign & if I didn't I would get kicked out.
I handed it back to her & told her I refuse to sign & that I will be moving out by the end of the year.. & I did.
I'm not sure if I'm in a better or worse situation now considering I get called lazy daily for not doing the littlest of things. Oh and don't even get my started about me "being to lazy to get a job" even though I've tried :/
& you know what makes it all worse? hearing it from someone I love.
So I really do know how you feel.. s**t hurts & you wonder why it would happen to you.. -hugs- I hope you feel better.. Go talk to your mom about it when you feel the time is right. Ahem. I hope I'm still a possible option for an escape yes yes >.> but youre so far.. I'm what....two hours away (?) As for a mother issue, when my mother was still alive....make a long story short I could fill a book. But at this point in my life I think it would be better to keep what respect you have for your mother. If she doesn't do this daily then you're lucky. im actuallky losing repsect for her very quickly...
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Posted: Thu Mar 03, 2011 3:02 pm
What does she do that makes you lose respect for her?
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Posted: Thu Mar 03, 2011 3:07 pm
tina138 What does she do that makes you lose respect for her? she doesnt have a job and she always asking me for money she says she going to pay me back and she never does im the one with the job so idk how im the lazy one
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Posted: Thu Mar 03, 2011 3:11 pm
iRuben tina138 What does she do that makes you lose respect for her? she doesnt have a job and she always asking me for money she says she going to pay me back and she never does im the one with the job so idk how im the lazy one Is that all? She doesn't have a substance abuse problem or anything? (please note you don't have to answer this if you feel is embarrassing or too hurtful. I'm just trying to get a feel for how your home life is.)
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Posted: Thu Mar 03, 2011 3:14 pm
Sink your teeth into forever...Okay.. I'm not saying this in a mean way, but... you can just... get over it.
They're words, and yes sometimes they hurt, but they're only words...
Trust me, I've been called a piece of s**t by my dad if I try to say my part of anything. I've been called a b***h. Hell, I've been called a c*nt by my brother.
But I'm over it. Sure, I was mad or pissed or even sad at the minute it happened. But I love my parents, and I'm not gonna let a few words hurt me. My brother, I can't stand him the least bit, but I live.
Anyway, some words can affect emotions at times, but it's not like it's gonna kill you.
Unless this is a daily thing, then don't worry about it and just forget about it.
If it is daily, then I'd suggest some kind of family therapy or counseling. ...Sunlight burns, children surrender.
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Posted: Thu Mar 03, 2011 3:14 pm
tina138 iRuben tina138 What does she do that makes you lose respect for her? she doesnt have a job and she always asking me for money she says she going to pay me back and she never does im the one with the job so idk how im the lazy one Is that all? She doesn't have a substance abuse problem or anything? (please note you don't have to answer this if you feel is embarrassing or too hurtful. I'm just trying to get a feel for how your home life is.) her problem is she cant control her anger and when she does get angry she points the anger straight at me
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