I think you should try revisiting Facebook; it's how one of my friends found her father and half-sibling(s).
Don't look for your father; there's a good chance that an older male won't have a profile (although I'm not saying it's impossible). Take another look at who could possibly be your half siblings, and narrow the list down based on age and location. While it may take a long time, try contacting each person individually to see if they are who you are looking for.
It might be embarrassing or upsetting to do it that way, but it's easier to be wrong in a computer-based message than meeting face-to-face with each person.
You'll never know what happened unless you try.
Don't look for your father; there's a good chance that an older male won't have a profile (although I'm not saying it's impossible). Take another look at who could possibly be your half siblings, and narrow the list down based on age and location. While it may take a long time, try contacting each person individually to see if they are who you are looking for.
It might be embarrassing or upsetting to do it that way, but it's easier to be wrong in a computer-based message than meeting face-to-face with each person.
You'll never know what happened unless you try.
Family can really suck. I'm currently not on speaking terms with my brother. He's been getting arrested off and on since he was twelve-- fourteen years of horrible situations because of him. [One of which led me to being held at gun point by an entire SWAT team in riot gear, searched, and handcuffed. I was in sixth grade.]
My father's no sunshine either. He has a lot of beliefs and "morals" that I disagree with, and sometimes it's difficult to be in the same room with him. He recently (as in three days ago) moved back to the city where I live after being over half a country away for five years. It'll be hard but worthwhile to reconnect with him... I think.
Don't forget that you have other family members and friends and even (I hope) people on here that can give you moral support as you search for your father.
My father's no sunshine either. He has a lot of beliefs and "morals" that I disagree with, and sometimes it's difficult to be in the same room with him. He recently (as in three days ago) moved back to the city where I live after being over half a country away for five years. It'll be hard but worthwhile to reconnect with him... I think.
Don't forget that you have other family members and friends and even (I hope) people on here that can give you moral support as you search for your father.
