| Should I tell her I love her? |
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 Posted: Sun Jan 29, 2006 8:36 pm
6~hopeless.way.of.life~9 Ok, so.... theres this chick named steph, and I have been friends with her for a very long time... and then... some where in bettween all those long talks, stupid fights, and silly jokes we made.. I fell in love with her.... But, she is all like... gay/bie hater... soooo.... I have a problem.... I Need Advice! well you should tell her about your secret... since you can't keep that for a long time..... and besides if she's a true friend she will understand your situation... and who knows because of your act your frienship will bloom into a higher level.... wink tell her the truth.......
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Posted: Sun Jan 29, 2006 8:38 pm
6~hopeless.way.of.life~9 Thanks for the help, I need the advice.... I'm going to wait till more people vote. Yeah, and I have this other friend that I told, and I thought I could trust her... Now because I've waited so long to tell her i love her, this other friend is saying she will tell her for me, even If I don't want her to... what do you think I should do with this other friend? confused try to tell that other friend of yours to respect your decision.... don't let her ruin everything.......
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Posted: Sun Jan 29, 2006 9:18 pm
Personally, I would tell, 'cause if she's a true friend, she'd understand. However if she does understand, there's a chance that she'll act rather awkward around you..
On the other hand, she might reject you completely . . .
Eck, a lose-lose situation. . . I hate getting into those . . . xP
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Posted: Wed Feb 01, 2006 3:58 pm
^^ wow sticky situation. But I must agree that you should just tell her you like girls. Then see where youre friendship goes from there. 3nodding
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Posted: Wed Feb 01, 2006 7:22 pm
wow.. i think it depends on both of your personality, the strength of your friendship& which you value more..
i guess you should decide what kind of relationship you want more with her
if you do decide to tell her i think you should tell her how you feel about your friendship etc etc .. and try to protect it as much as you can
its hard to decide whether or not you want to risk your friendship confused
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Posted: Mon Feb 06, 2006 10:54 am
I told her... and she broke my heart.... She said "Freak." and just walked away.... how could a person be so heartless....
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Posted: Mon Feb 06, 2006 1:57 pm
See? This is the reason why you shouldn't fall in love. *nods* I'm a cynical old geezer xd ((Note: Am 20)) but y'know.. I've never had good experiences with this "love" you speak of.
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Posted: Mon Feb 06, 2006 5:53 pm
6~hopeless.way.of.life~9 I told her... and she broke my heart.... She said "Freak." and just walked away.... how could a person be so heartless.... I'm sorry. sad Sounds like she wasn't a very good friend after all. Or maybe she just needs some time to come to terms with it.
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Posted: Mon Feb 06, 2006 6:18 pm
*hugs*
I'm sorry, that's rough.
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Posted: Mon Feb 06, 2006 8:17 pm
6~hopeless.way.of.life~9 I told her... and she broke my heart.... She said "Freak." and just walked away.... how could a person be so heartless.... *meep* that's harsh. All I have to say is, just try to forget about her. She was obviously not a very good friend to begin with. Even if she didn't feel the same way about you, she shouldn't have been so quick to turn her back on you and call you names. That's really immature. All this boils down to is rejection by a person who probably doesn't deserve you anyway. It might be hard, but try not to take it too seriously or too personally. In time, you'll make better friends and you'll fall in love with better people -- and when that happens, this girl will be nothing more than a bad memory to you.
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Posted: Thu Feb 09, 2006 2:31 pm
Today, she came up to me and told me she was sorry, but she couldn't be my friend anymore.... I was like yeah, don't you think I kinda noticed... and she was like Sorry, I'm realy sorry... I think she actually might be sorry... but i'm not, She dosn't deserve my time...
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Posted: Thu Feb 09, 2006 7:31 pm
6~hopeless.way.of.life~9 I think she actually might be sorry... but i'm not, She dosn't deserve my time... Good for you. I agree.
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Posted: Thu Feb 09, 2006 7:51 pm
You hafto get over her. or maybe she is trying to cover up her sexuality by supposely been a gay ppl hater. i used to act like i hated gay ppl just so no-1 would know untill yeah(thats not the point tho) the point is that yeah u should just get over her .but thats just my opinion...
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Posted: Sun Feb 26, 2006 2:53 pm
I'd first try to make it obvious all I'm for Gay rights and that I'd hope she's respect what I believe. If she respected myfeliefs then I'd tell her. If she didn't I wouldn't.
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Posted: Wed Mar 01, 2006 8:09 pm
I know exactly what thats like. But I dont what to fall in love with that person because im like 2000 miles away and I dont know when I will see that person again.
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