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 Posted: Sun Feb 26, 2006 12:57 pm
by what i have seen thus far. i feel that your biggest problem is that u r too shy. you be out going and stop caring what others think of u. and why should u care what others think, what will they do?
i was like yourself when i was younger, but when i gave up careing what others thought of me, i became great in there eyes. why? cuz ppl like it when you have a strong spirit. lol
heart hope this helps heart
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Posted: Mon Feb 27, 2006 5:29 pm
whee Oh sweetheart, sweetheart, what's this about being unpopular or popular? A horseman can become a queen's lover, the finest and richest of men can fall in love with a simple maid, if she only had a good heart. My advice would be not to worry about it because it will be if it was meant to be. He will notice you if you are being yourself and not putting up an act in front of him.
Or you could talk to him on myspace.. Something like.. "Excuse me, but what homework do we have for English? I forgot to write it down" or something of that kind.
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Posted: Tue Feb 28, 2006 1:05 pm
Eh, MySpace. I'm on a crusade against it.
Thanks, hende and Ruby. I care what people think of me because I don't want them to get it in their minds that I'm stupid if I say the wrong thing and then spread rumors about me. And as for being myself, I'm not sure. At the rate I'm going now I don't think he'd ever notice me and I really, really want him to be the one.
Sumurika, sorry, I didn't see your post. Yeah, I'm trying to build a friendship with him first, and I'm pondering on just how to do that. He's not like the last guy I befriended at all and I don't know if the strategy would work there.
Thanks, everyone.
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Posted: Tue Feb 28, 2006 1:12 pm
ThaddeusTheThird Eh, MySpace. I'm on a crusade against it. Thanks, hende and Ruby. I care what people think of me because I don't want them to get it in their minds that I'm stupid if I say the wrong thing and then spread rumors about me. And as for being myself, I'm not sure. At the rate I'm going now I don't think he'd ever notice me and I really, really want him to be the one. Sumurika, sorry, I didn't see your post. Yeah, I'm trying to build a friendship with him first, and I'm pondering on just how to do that. He's not like the last guy I befriended at all and I don't know if the strategy would work there. Thanks, everyone. I think that crusading against MySpace will be about as effective as crusading against the American government at this point. It's difficult to worry about what people think about you on top of everything else, and since no one is going to come out and tell you what you think, just push it to the back burner. You really should continue to be yourself, because if you become someone else just to get his attention, you'd have to be that other person for him to keep interest in you. I'm sure he has noticed you by now. If you're starting with a friendship, start with small talk. Say hello to him when you see him. Compliments.
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Posted: Mon Mar 06, 2006 11:20 pm
hunny...what grade are you in first.
gym..im guessing..freshy?
idk we all took gym as a freshmen..so ima guess that.
if hes a freshmen and popular. be prepaired for a jerk off. harsh to say but true...if you already have a bad rep...kinda . i mean your a nice person i can see that already.(so was I, i was outspoken though..but i had few friends..few people liked me..hell i didnt even really like the friends i had either lol)
but highschool....from what i remember will tear you apart limb from limb.
(thats why i refused togo back lol..i homeschool now.)
anyways, id say go for it...try talking to him. but...you might seriously get your a** kicked. if hes a popular...its very likely he can be a very nice guy away from his friends. least thats what i generally know of highschool guys.
date older. their way better lol wayyyyyy better in my opinion. its rare to find a gem in highschool. atleast from what I know. it is possible though and this guy might be one, and i hope he is.
but the good advice ...cause i might get told off by saying half of what i did..is to just be yourself take a risk..go for it. you only got one life..so might as well maket he best of it.
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Posted: Mon Mar 06, 2006 11:22 pm
hende by what i have seen thus far. i feel that your biggest problem is that u r too shy. you be out going and stop caring what others think of u. and why should u care what others think, what will they do? i was like yourself when i was younger, but when i gave up careing what others thought of me, i became great in there eyes. why? cuz ppl like it when you have a strong spirit. lol heart hope this helps heart I totally agree with you hende. im like that to now, but im a senior, as a senior..it dont matter what u do any more lol anyways, as i remember highschooll(i homeschool..you couldnt drag me back to the preppy private school i went to originally lol.. )...it DOES matter to a extent. cause kids are cruel mo-fos. she does need to get a bit of attitude and say HEY! im me..so bite me and get over it. lol it helped me allot..i got some what popular when i got that course...i dont talk to any one really sept one person from my old highschool , all my friends are from public.
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Posted: Wed Mar 08, 2006 1:07 pm
angelwings6382 hunny...what grade are you in first. gym..im guessing..freshy? idk we all took gym as a freshmen..so ima guess that. if hes a freshmen and popular. be prepaired for a jerk off. harsh to say but true...if you already have a bad rep...kinda . i mean your a nice person i can see that already.(so was I, i was outspoken though..but i had few friends..few people liked me..hell i didnt even really like the friends i had either lol) but highschool....from what i remember will tear you apart limb from limb. (thats why i refused togo back lol..i homeschool now.) anyways, id say go for it...try talking to him. but...you might seriously get your a** kicked. if hes a popular...its very likely he can be a very nice guy away from his friends. least thats what i generally know of highschool guys. date older. their way better lol wayyyyyy better in my opinion. its rare to find a gem in highschool. atleast from what I know. it is possible though and this guy might be one, and i hope he is. but the good advice ...cause i might get told off by saying half of what i did..is to just be yourself take a risk..go for it. you only got one life..so might as well maket he best of it. I'm 16. neutral
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Posted: Wed Mar 08, 2006 1:08 pm
Believe it or not, but I can't just 'get over' being shy. It's difficult.
Thanks the the advice, guys.
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Posted: Wed Mar 08, 2006 2:50 pm
ThaddeusTheThird Believe it or not, but I can't just 'get over' being shy. It's difficult. Thanks the the advice, guys. What kind of shy is it, exactly? Is it a social anxiety thing?
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Posted: Thu Mar 09, 2006 1:21 pm
Thomas Neo Anderson ThaddeusTheThird Believe it or not, but I can't just 'get over' being shy. It's difficult. Thanks the the advice, guys. What kind of shy is it, exactly? Is it a social anxiety thing? I actually really like being around my friends, I talk a lot around them. I guess It's just the kind when you don't like talking in class because you're worried about saying something wrong or about what people will think of you...and I'm not really good at talking to people I don't know well.
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Posted: Fri Mar 17, 2006 3:32 pm
i def understand where ure coming from. but my advice is not to set your heart on one person. just let it happen with someone you really enjoy being around and hanging out with, don't just randomly go up and tell him u like him. just try being good buddies first then maybe c if he'll fall 4 u
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Posted: Sat Mar 18, 2006 6:08 am
I'm definately trying to take the friends first approach...but I tried to talk to him on his MySpace (I gave up) and he ignored me. Completely. sad I dunno, I think he just doesn't know who I am.
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Posted: Sat Mar 18, 2006 2:39 pm
ThaddeusTheThird I'm definately trying to take the friends first approach...but I tried to talk to him on his MySpace (I gave up) and he ignored me. Completely. sad I dunno, I think he just doesn't know who I am.
Check your outbox/sent box and see if he actually read it.
if not, well, send another message, sometimes i lose messages on my inbox because i get too many messages.
if he did read it, forget him. He's an a*****e.
People like that are so ******** conceited, i used to like people like that, but now i'm glad i got over stuff like that.
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Posted: Sun Mar 19, 2006 7:57 am
Ellyn ThaddeusTheThird I'm definately trying to take the friends first approach...but I tried to talk to him on his MySpace (I gave up) and he ignored me. Completely. sad I dunno, I think he just doesn't know who I am.
Check your outbox/sent box and see if he actually read it.
if not, well, send another message, sometimes i lose messages on my inbox because i get too many messages.
if he did read it, forget him. He's an a*****e.
People like that are so ******** conceited, i used to like people like that, but now i'm glad i got over stuff like that.
=/I'm pretty sure he read it since it's status in my sent box was "read" and not "sent." It's odd because he's a nice guy and I can't think of why he couldn't have atleast said /something./ Thanks for the advice.
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