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 Posted: Mon Feb 06, 2006 1:26 pm
IM 13 and that doesnt really help either Because there's 5 or so more years til i leave the house...(unless my dad dies first, he's having serious heart problems)
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Posted: Wed Feb 08, 2006 2:53 pm
im_ru IM 13 and that doesnt really help either Because there's 5 or so more years til i leave the house...(unless my dad dies first, he's having serious heart problems) O.o Did I read too much into this? *is scared*
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Posted: Tue Feb 14, 2006 2:58 pm
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Posted: Tue Feb 14, 2006 4:49 pm
Im 15 and i haven't hold my parents lol, they hate gay/bi ppl. They'll flip if they found out Imgetting married to my gf
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Posted: Tue Feb 14, 2006 5:24 pm
^ same with me.
my parents hate bi/gay people.
my mom and dad are so close minded.
they dont even like people cuz of how they dress.
i think thats just horrible.
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Posted: Wed Feb 15, 2006 1:09 pm
i hate the close-mindednesss of my parents it bugs the crap out of me
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Posted: Wed Feb 15, 2006 5:52 pm
I'm sorry for your parents' close-mindedness. sad I don't know what to tell you since I only had to worry about my cousin and he didn't mind. Actually, I never really "came out" per se. We never talked about it specifically. I just did and said things as if it were completely normal and not an issue. Do you think you could do that? Or would they say something to you about it?
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Posted: Mon Feb 20, 2006 3:26 pm
they'd say something about it. *example* i had a diary and my ma found and read it and in this one part was me saying about this girl i had a crush on and when my ma confrunted me about that (and everything else in there) she was all asking me these wacked out questions and i think she just forgot/refused to believe/or thinks its just a stage....not a stage though let me tell you
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Posted: Mon Feb 20, 2006 4:50 pm
Well I really didn't have to tell my family at all they said that they knew before I knew and I knew when I was in fifth grade. It's not that I was a very flamboyant kid either. They just knew.
You could always just do it quick and painless, either they deal with it or they don't. It's really up to them and it really doesn't matter how you say it either, just as long as its said. And as long as it doesn't happen when you're doing anything.
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Posted: Mon Feb 20, 2006 10:08 pm
Unfortunately, love, at your age, there isn't really much you can do. You can either tell them outright and risk losing them and being ostracized or you can just wait until you can make it on your own. I'll light a candle for you. I don't know what you're going through, but I know that it can't be good for you at all. It was hell living in the closet, and I only did it for 16 years. I hope things get better for you.
PM me if you'd like to chat more. heart
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Posted: Mon Feb 20, 2006 10:56 pm
im_ru they'd say something about it. *example* i had a diary and my ma found and read it and in this one part was me saying about this girl i had a crush on and when my ma confrunted me about that (and everything else in there) she was all asking me these wacked out questions and i think she just forgot/refused to believe/or thinks its just a stage....not a stage though let me tell you That's pretty rotten that she would read your diary. sad
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Posted: Tue Feb 21, 2006 10:20 am
im not to sure how i can help except give you advise and honesty....your gonna lose friends but you will make so many more being you, your parents might despise or hate it but they need time...ive been out for almost three years and i tell you this becuase it all happened to me i almost even got beat up but thats what those true frineds are forif you need help ill help alll i can....
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Posted: Tue Feb 21, 2006 10:35 am
If you want, I can teach you how to get CERTAIN REVENGE!!! scream
.....er, how 'bout it?
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Posted: Thu Mar 02, 2006 6:16 pm
alright my coming out story gose liek this i told thm straight up and they didnt balieve me and then i told my bishop (mormon one -_-') and then they finaly balieve me so idk just tell them
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Posted: Fri Mar 03, 2006 10:34 am
I've told my mother, and she said it was just a faze, but the thing is that she said if it turns out not to be it's not a big deal, and that i'm still not aloud to make out, when she's around,
i think for telling your parents, or anyone is you just need to do it, when i first relised , i told my best freind, she didnt care, and becuase she didnt i felt more comfortable with myself and told other people. it's hard to bring the topic up but things need to be said right. and the people that truly care about you wont care, and as they say, "the people that care, arnt worth it" or w.e it is
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