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 Posted: Mon Aug 23, 2010 2:59 pm
I just found out about a week or so ago that my husband considers himself to be a furry. I'm trying to be open minded, but I'm not really sure how to handle this other then to tell him I love him and support his hobbies. eek
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Posted: Mon Aug 23, 2010 3:02 pm
Sad to see the old one go, and sadder to miss the first page. ;A;
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Posted: Mon Aug 23, 2010 3:10 pm
Lady -Wizzard- Karris I just found out about a week or so ago that my husband considers himself to be a furry. I'm trying to be open minded, but I'm not really sure how to handle this other then to tell him I love him and support his hobbies. eek
...how devoted is he? >3>;;
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Posted: Mon Aug 23, 2010 3:27 pm
I love my boyfriend, he's such a genuinely wonderful person, when he manages to get out of bed XD
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Posted: Mon Aug 23, 2010 3:35 pm
Well, this shouldn't influence your reactions or opinions, but...
...how devoted is he? >3>;;
It's just an online thing for him and been for quite awhile apparently. He really feels part of his personality is very cat like. This doesn't really bother me, but it does force me to re-examine my feelings about furries. My experiences with them have been less then positive in the past, there are a lot of EXTREMELY devoted furries in the pagan world and they are very in your face "accept me or you are an intolerant nazi" type of people.
And it also bothers me a bit that I'm married to him and was oblivious to this. I'm not mad that he never really told me or made a big deal of it, he knows about my past with furries, but that I feel like a bad wife I missed seeing this part of him or that he felt the need to suppress it from me. I feel as if I failed him somehow.
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Posted: Mon Aug 23, 2010 3:42 pm
God damn it, I don't know why but lately I've just been way too easy to piss off. It's been happening for like a month now, and I'm sure some of it is showing on here. Even the slightest little thing can make me frustrated or flustered or get me in that kick a newborn puppy mood. Well, at least now my BFF's back from Ohio so I can annoy her to no end. xd
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Posted: Mon Aug 23, 2010 3:43 pm
I really don't think my right leg going numb or having sharp pain while walking is normal. Admittedly, I am lame/crippled for life, but I don't recall this happening as frequently as it does now. O_O
That being said, I'll have to wait until I get back to the States before I can have it checked because I don't have the money I need to pay out of pocket while I'm here in Austria. :/
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Posted: Mon Aug 23, 2010 3:43 pm
Lady -Wizzard- Karris And it also bothers me a bit that I'm married to him and was oblivious to this. I'm not mad that he never really told me or made a big deal of it, he knows about my past with furries, but that I feel like a bad wife I missed seeing this part of him or that he felt the need to suppress it from me. I feel as if I failed him somehow.
On the other hand, I now feel guilty for being unsure how long my parents have been married. XDXDXD Crap... I know my borther is 35, so that must mean.... /ramblerambleramble
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Posted: Mon Aug 23, 2010 3:57 pm
Lady -Wizzard- Karris It's just an online thing for him and been for quite awhile apparently. He really feels part of his personality is very cat like. This doesn't really bother me, but it does force me to re-examine my feelings about furries. My experiences with them have been less then positive in the past, there are a lot of EXTREMELY devoted furries in the pagan world and they are very in your face "accept me or you are an intolerant nazi" type of people.
And it also bothers me a bit that I'm married to him and was oblivious to this. I'm not mad that he never really told me or made a big deal of it, he knows about my past with furries, but that I feel like a bad wife I missed seeing this part of him or that he felt the need to suppress it from me. I feel as if I failed him somehow.
I wouldn't worry about it if I were you. o3o But if you truly think that his hiding it from you somehow makes you a bad wife, then you should talk to him about it. You two love each other for who you each are (at least I HOPE so XD), so this shouldn't negatively influence the way you feel about each other and yourselves. D:
(And yeah, a very significant percentage of the furry population falls under the "accept me or you are an intolerant Nazi" category.)
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Posted: Mon Aug 23, 2010 4:36 pm
Tasn Zheng I really don't think my right leg going numb or having sharp pain while walking is normal. Admittedly, I am lame/crippled for life, but I don't recall this happening as frequently as it does now. O_O
That being said, I'll have to wait until I get back to the States before I can have it checked because I don't have the money I need to pay out of pocket while I'm here in Austria. :/ Oh dear.... sad I hope you can get it checked out soon because now I'm going to be worried about you until you do. heart
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Posted: Mon Aug 23, 2010 4:40 pm
I'm starting to feel really paranoid right now, and I don't like it. x-x
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Posted: Mon Aug 23, 2010 4:41 pm
I actually feel awkward about this new one. Still, some of my secrets don't need to be told now, or doesn't need to be told at al
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Posted: Mon Aug 23, 2010 4:43 pm
Kuroyanagika I'm starting to feel really paranoid right now, and I don't like it. x-x
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Posted: Mon Aug 23, 2010 4:50 pm
Foam-Dome Kuroyanagika I'm starting to feel really paranoid right now, and I don't like it. x-x  ; Why? What's there to be paranoid about?
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Posted: Mon Aug 23, 2010 4:57 pm
Kuroyanagika Foam-Dome Kuroyanagika I'm starting to feel really paranoid right now, and I don't like it. x-x
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