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PostPosted: Sat Jul 17, 2010 2:48 pm


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I'm the WRONG person to talk to about that. My step-father raped my sister and I when we were kids and I refuse to let that grudge go. Fortunately for him he lives half way across the country because otherwise he'd be in for a long hospital stay if I ever happen to cross paths with him again.

Heh I'm very hard to piss off but when you do...I never let go. Good old Scorpio grudge holding.


You don't have to hold a grudge. I'll go beat the lowlife down... scream I would make more serious threats, but I would rather not be implicated when they find him dead...

Eltanin, you rock. biggrin


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PostPosted: Sat Jul 17, 2010 2:59 pm


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I'm the WRONG person to talk to about that. My step-father raped my sister and I when we were kids and I refuse to let that grudge go. Fortunately for him he lives half way across the country because otherwise he'd be in for a long hospital stay if I ever happen to cross paths with him again.

Heh I'm very hard to piss off but when you do...I never let go. Good old Scorpio grudge holding.


I'm also a Scorpio -_-. Not sure how true the zodiac sign thing is though '_'


They're never exact of course but the ones that aren't afraid to tell the negative aspects of your sign as well tend to be pretty accurate with me.


My fiance is a Scorio {and I'm the stubborn Centaur}. He has the hardest time expressing his feels or complimenting anyone... So I'm just "good looking". I tried explaining why I was hurt, but he just did not get it...


Yeaaah...we can be something else.

One of the big ones for Scorpios is that we're supposed to be horrible about revenge. I think it's the only time we can let grudges go, is when we get vengeance on whomever pissed us off. Problem is that in getting said revenge we'll find your weak spots and cut you down in the cruelest means possible, pull skeletons out of the closet and everything. We're supposed to not just be satisfied with getting the best of you, we want to make sure you never cross us again.

I can't deny it's true for me. There was once when I was at Job Corps that there was this chick that was just being a b***h, would steal every washer in the dorm if I was coming to do laundry, cut lines in front of me, just a ton of little rude bullshit. (She was this chick from the streets in DC that just thought she was tough s**t and could rule the dorm.) I finally got sick and tired of it, confronted her, said if she wanted to fight we could fight but she'd end up in the hospital with at least a few broken bones. Fight never happened, mainly because she knew I was telling the truth. She was nice to me at least after that.

So yeah, I'm completely the wrong person to talk to and I admit it. If a situation ever gets to the point where I just can't stand a person I'll find a way to cut them down and really hurt them so that there won't be a problem again in the future. Cruel, yes, but fortunately it takes a lot to get me to that point and I'll give you the option to take the easy way out before, you know s**t hits the fan.

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PostPosted: Sat Jul 17, 2010 4:39 pm


There are some grudges you should let go and some grudges you should probably hold on to. Some people make mistakes and some people are dicks. That's just how it works.

For example:
I hold a grudge on Glenn Beck for always blaming Atheists and being stupid. I'm not letting go.
However, if my friend ate all my damn hash-browns, I wont hold that much of a grudge if they didn't mean it.

It all just depends on if letting this grudge go is worth it. If not, then why would you want to?
PostPosted: Sat Jul 17, 2010 6:51 pm


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I'm the WRONG person to talk to about that. My step-father raped my sister and I when we were kids and I refuse to let that grudge go. Fortunately for him he lives half way across the country because otherwise he'd be in for a long hospital stay if I ever happen to cross paths with him again.

Heh I'm very hard to piss off but when you do...I never let go. Good old Scorpio grudge holding.


I'm also a Scorpio -_-. Not sure how true the zodiac sign thing is though '_'


They're never exact of course but the ones that aren't afraid to tell the negative aspects of your sign as well tend to be pretty accurate with me.


My fiance is a Scorio {and I'm the stubborn Centaur}. He has the hardest time expressing his feels or complimenting anyone... So I'm just "good looking". I tried explaining why I was hurt, but he just did not get it...


Yeaaah...we can be something else.

One of the big ones for Scorpios is that we're supposed to be horrible about revenge. I think it's the only time we can let grudges go, is when we get vengeance on whomever pissed us off. Problem is that in getting said revenge we'll find your weak spots and cut you down in the cruelest means possible, pull skeletons out of the closet and everything. We're supposed to not just be satisfied with getting the best of you, we want to make sure you never cross us again.

I can't deny it's true for me. There was once when I was at Job Corps that there was this chick that was just being a b***h, would steal every washer in the dorm if I was coming to do laundry, cut lines in front of me, just a ton of little rude bullshit. (She was this chick from the streets in DC that just thought she was tough s**t and could rule the dorm.) I finally got sick and tired of it, confronted her, said if she wanted to fight we could fight but she'd end up in the hospital with at least a few broken bones. Fight never happened, mainly because she knew I was telling the truth. She was nice to me at least after that.

So yeah, I'm completely the wrong person to talk to and I admit it. If a situation ever gets to the point where I just can't stand a person I'll find a way to cut them down and really hurt them so that there won't be a problem again in the future. Cruel, yes, but fortunately it takes a lot to get me to that point and I'll give you the option to take the easy way out before, you know s**t hits the fan.


I take horoscopes seriously, they can provide a "heads up". Yes not everything is true, but mine is spot on.

I have never been in a physical fight, but I have had good arguements. Most people are afraid of me so that's normally a plus. I really hate DC people. They are so stuck up. I really do not get along with girls, period. There are very few that I trust and can tolerate.

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PostPosted: Sun Jul 18, 2010 8:11 am


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I'm the WRONG person to talk to about that. My step-father raped my sister and I when we were kids and I refuse to let that grudge go. Fortunately for him he lives half way across the country because otherwise he'd be in for a long hospital stay if I ever happen to cross paths with him again.

Heh I'm very hard to piss off but when you do...I never let go. Good old Scorpio grudge holding.


I'm also a Scorpio -_-. Not sure how true the zodiac sign thing is though '_'


They're never exact of course but the ones that aren't afraid to tell the negative aspects of your sign as well tend to be pretty accurate with me.


My fiance is a Scorio {and I'm the stubborn Centaur}. He has the hardest time expressing his feels or complimenting anyone... So I'm just "good looking". I tried explaining why I was hurt, but he just did not get it...


Yeaaah...we can be something else.

One of the big ones for Scorpios is that we're supposed to be horrible about revenge. I think it's the only time we can let grudges go, is when we get vengeance on whomever pissed us off. Problem is that in getting said revenge we'll find your weak spots and cut you down in the cruelest means possible, pull skeletons out of the closet and everything. We're supposed to not just be satisfied with getting the best of you, we want to make sure you never cross us again.

I can't deny it's true for me. There was once when I was at Job Corps that there was this chick that was just being a b***h, would steal every washer in the dorm if I was coming to do laundry, cut lines in front of me, just a ton of little rude bullshit. (She was this chick from the streets in DC that just thought she was tough s**t and could rule the dorm.) I finally got sick and tired of it, confronted her, said if she wanted to fight we could fight but she'd end up in the hospital with at least a few broken bones. Fight never happened, mainly because she knew I was telling the truth. She was nice to me at least after that.

So yeah, I'm completely the wrong person to talk to and I admit it. If a situation ever gets to the point where I just can't stand a person I'll find a way to cut them down and really hurt them so that there won't be a problem again in the future. Cruel, yes, but fortunately it takes a lot to get me to that point and I'll give you the option to take the easy way out before, you know s**t hits the fan.


I take horoscopes seriously, they can provide a "heads up". Yes not everything is true, but mine is spot on.

I have never been in a physical fight, but I have had good arguements. Most people are afraid of me so that's normally a plus. I really hate DC people. They are so stuck up. I really do not get along with girls, period. There are very few that I trust and can tolerate.


I've always lived close enough to DC that they didn't bother me too much most of the time. (Although have I ever had my fill of Go-Go. I don't know why that only plays there.)

Probably from living in such proximity to DC, I grew up in Woodbridge VA, I have a thing against people from Baltimore.

Generally though I don't get along with girls unless they're as geeky or as masculine as I am. I mean at work they changed the rules recently so girls can't wear sandals to work and that's all they b***h about.
PostPosted: Sun Jul 18, 2010 9:42 am


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Aakosir
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They're never exact of course but the ones that aren't afraid to tell the negative aspects of your sign as well tend to be pretty accurate with me.


My fiance is a Scorio {and I'm the stubborn Centaur}. He has the hardest time expressing his feels or complimenting anyone... So I'm just "good looking". I tried explaining why I was hurt, but he just did not get it...


Yeaaah...we can be something else.

One of the big ones for Scorpios is that we're supposed to be horrible about revenge. I think it's the only time we can let grudges go, is when we get vengeance on whomever pissed us off. Problem is that in getting said revenge we'll find your weak spots and cut you down in the cruelest means possible, pull skeletons out of the closet and everything. We're supposed to not just be satisfied with getting the best of you, we want to make sure you never cross us again.

I can't deny it's true for me. There was once when I was at Job Corps that there was this chick that was just being a b***h, would steal every washer in the dorm if I was coming to do laundry, cut lines in front of me, just a ton of little rude bullshit. (She was this chick from the streets in DC that just thought she was tough s**t and could rule the dorm.) I finally got sick and tired of it, confronted her, said if she wanted to fight we could fight but she'd end up in the hospital with at least a few broken bones. Fight never happened, mainly because she knew I was telling the truth. She was nice to me at least after that.

So yeah, I'm completely the wrong person to talk to and I admit it. If a situation ever gets to the point where I just can't stand a person I'll find a way to cut them down and really hurt them so that there won't be a problem again in the future. Cruel, yes, but fortunately it takes a lot to get me to that point and I'll give you the option to take the easy way out before, you know s**t hits the fan.


I take horoscopes seriously, they can provide a "heads up". Yes not everything is true, but mine is spot on.

I have never been in a physical fight, but I have had good arguements. Most people are afraid of me so that's normally a plus. I really hate DC people. They are so stuck up. I really do not get along with girls, period. There are very few that I trust and can tolerate.


I've always lived close enough to DC that they didn't bother me too much most of the time. (Although have I ever had my fill of Go-Go. I don't know why that only plays there.)

Probably from living in such proximity to DC, I grew up in Woodbridge VA, I have a thing against people from Baltimore.

Generally though I don't get along with girls unless they're as geeky or as masculine as I am. I mean at work they changed the rules recently so girls can't wear sandals to work and that's all they b***h about.


I definitly am with you on the Baltimore people... They are so rude and just... poisoning out town. I live about 45 mins north of Baltimore and our college hosts the training camp and it's starting soon DX We get all these rude, trashy people from Baltimore. I can't wait to move.

And I'm pretty much the same with girls. I can't stand the "OMG! I broke a nail!" I just want to punch them in the face. I would consider my self punk, even though I don't dresss punky 24/7, I'm trying to promote a business so I am more conscious about my image, but when I want to I break out my studded clothes, Chucks or boots. I usually get along with the loners, since I am one.

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PostPosted: Sun Jul 18, 2010 10:43 am


Yeah, girls are stupid (generally speaking).

For the most part, the girls that I have met and get along with are on here. I have one RL female friend, and I even got her to get on here earlier this week.

I don't give a crap about what color of blond girls use to highlight their hair; I don't care that the shade of your lipstick has gotten slightly darker since they change the line; I don't want to hear about so-'n'-so breaking up with so-'n'-so for such-'n'-such; and if you plan on dragging me to a store, or your closet so I can watch you try on clothes and hear you degrade your own looks- just shoot me now, PLEASE.

I like to keep up with current events; I would rather have my nose stuck in a National Geographic before any other magazine; I like myself mostly, and I normally won't go on about what I don't like; I have a personal library of ancient history, science, mathematics, and other nerdy stuff; I love video games, action flicks, and anime; I'll straight up tell you when you are making mad, and I'll let you know what you can do to fix it...

Anyway, I guess that is why some of the girls in our dinky town decided that I must be a lesbian. I didn't find out until the rumor was wide spread. LOL My rep was stigmatized until I got married, and then, because I withdrew from town, it took a couple years before everyone found out. XP
PostPosted: Sun Jul 18, 2010 11:00 am


!!!!!! I just deleted everything I wrote!!!!!!!!!

Well here we go again....

I love make up. I love shoes. I am a huge tomboy. I plat Tekken 6 and Final Fantasy and Assassins Creed and all those fun games. I am always dirty in some way. I just found some random bruises from who knows what. I am constantly breaking my nail and cutting myself, but whenever I go out I need to have some sort of make up. I have no clue what to do with my hair, I'm not that girly.

The rumors being spread about me were that I cheated on my fiance and my daughter is not his... I'll let you guys decide on that one.

Her and daddy
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Her and me
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PostPosted: Sun Jul 18, 2010 11:19 am


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I love make up. I love shoes. I am a huge tomboy. I plat Tekken 6 and Final Fantasy and Assassins Creed and all those fun games. I am always dirty in some way. I just found some random bruises from who knows what. I am constantly breaking my nail and cutting myself, but whenever I go out I need to have some sort of make up. I have no clue what to do with my hair, I'm not that girly.


I would incorporate this into a description of me, except the going out and make-up thing, and shoes thing. Make-up wise, I have to be in the mood to put it on, or know that there is a likelihood of me getting my picture taken.

I love my shoes, but I don't collect shoes. I wear mine until there isn't anything left of them. (Well, I will go gaga over a pair of edgy boots on occasion) sweatdrop
PostPosted: Sun Jul 18, 2010 11:23 am


Girls seem to love a good scandal, alas.

I never understood it. Most chicks will go on and on about how they despise drama, can't stand people who cause it yadda yadda then turn around and start it. It baffles the mind. I swear the biggest anti-drama spokesmen cause the most.

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PostPosted: Sun Jul 18, 2010 11:29 am


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Girls seem to love a good scandal, alas.

I never understood it. Most chicks will go on and on about how they despise drama, can't stand people who cause it yadda yadda then turn around and start it. It baffles the mind. I swear the biggest anti-drama spokesmen cause the most.


I despise drama, but that is all my life is... I try not to start it, but my sister and brothers and mom are just so... irritating. They tell me everyones business. Irks me so bad, especially when I hear about my sisters sexual escapades that she told my mom and now mom is telling me....
PostPosted: Sun Jul 18, 2010 11:32 am


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Aakosir
I love make up. I love shoes. I am a huge tomboy. I plat Tekken 6 and Final Fantasy and Assassins Creed and all those fun games. I am always dirty in some way. I just found some random bruises from who knows what. I am constantly breaking my nail and cutting myself, but whenever I go out I need to have some sort of make up. I have no clue what to do with my hair, I'm not that girly.


I would incorporate this into a description of me, except the going out and make-up thing, and shoes thing. Make-up wise, I have to be in the mood to put it on, or know that there is a likelihood of me getting my picture taken.

I love my shoes, but I don't collect shoes. I wear mine until there isn't anything left of them. (Well, I will go gaga over a pair of edgy boots on occasion) sweatdrop


Oh I love boots. I just found this pair in The Pyrimid Collection. They are supposed to be part of a pirate costume and I am practically drooling over them XD A lot of my shoes last me years. My purple Chucks I just got last year and they are already getting grungy. I'll just throw them in the washer and keep on wearing them. And my poor gladiator sandals XD They are 3 years old and the one pair finally ripped.

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PostPosted: Sun Jul 18, 2010 3:07 pm


Yeah I normally have more boots than anything, but I've worn them all out. I only have a pair of stiletto knee-highs that I loaned a friend and when I got them back, one of the rubber heel tips had came off, so now the the nail head is exposed. gonk

I only have a pair of tennis shoes, a pair of sandals, and a pair of dress shoes now.

I really miss my silver combat boots. I called them my moon shoes. I wore them completely out though.
PostPosted: Sun Jul 18, 2010 8:20 pm


I got a pair of red Doc Martins last year for Xmas =^_^= I love them, but the zipper broke. I have thick soccer thighs.

And good job me for turning this discussion in to a fashion thread XD

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PostPosted: Fri Sep 17, 2010 11:36 am


I'm a little bit of both. I hate heals there cute but not functional. I find taking forever to dress up and go somewhere annoying. I like tennis shoes more. Sometimes I don't mind just sitting around and playing Brawl or a fighting game or racing one or just one with only one objective to win or get rid of the other.


Guys seem easier for me to hang out with because there is no drama. Women (and I know I do) get emotionally attached easily to people or events. But stupid stuff like makeup and the fact that something is designer or or in style or not I could care less.
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