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I read in a magazine once that before orgasming, some people feel like they need to go to the toilet so they tense or stop thinking their about to wet the bed in a bad way. I was then like, OMG I so have that sometimes. I'm still a bit hesitent when I get that feeling, but If I'm on top i just seam to rogasm without the feeling of needing to go to the toilet.
I got that feeling when I was younger with internal stimulation. I absolutly hated it, lol. For the longest time, we just stopped masturbating in that way. Now, for some reason, I can orgasm (with difficulty and it's not particularly good, so screw that, lol) and I never get that feeling. I guess it comes with age? I have no clue...
But I've never had that feeling with clitoral stimulation.
To Antrepida:
I think it depends. I do agree that most of the pressure is from the guys (just like most of the pressure to be attractive is from girls -- most guys don't even notice if you've just spend three hours on your hair, let alone try to pressure you into doing it), but there is also some pressure from some women. I've known women who will actually dump a man because he can't perform sexually. And, of course, male sex is different from female sex. If a male enjoys it, it usually ends in orgasm. So if the woman isn't orgasming, judging from their own personal experience, she must not be enjoying it. Good logic, just from the wrong perspective.
Unfortunatly, people usually can only empathize within their own realm of experience. There are things that really bother my man that never even occured to me, and that makes it so incredibly difficult to take him seriously. Of course, that's very hurtful to him. It's just that it has never bothered me, thus I can't understand why it would bother him.
Odd creatures we are smile
