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 Posted: Sun Jan 08, 2006 4:16 pm
Dark Eagle Babe Sakaki-chan11 Awww...that was disgustingly sweet! heart Ten points. I'm not "falling in love" for a long time and it makes me sick how some people my age (teenage) throw around the word love as if it measns "really like". Disgusting. This is just an opinion, so don't stone me, but I don't think that this young MOST people don't know what love is. There are those lucky few who find someone they love in highschool, but most people are just trying out what they like and don't like in a partner.
*will not stone you because I totally agree with you*
Some people here, my age, say that they ''truly love'' someone, when they've just met them. And they want to go steady right away as well. They're so ''in love'' with each other for about 6 days, then they break up. I mean, what's up with that? I honestly can't stand that.
but you cannot jugde everyone else on just that type of a relationship. i had almost half a year with him, dont you think that some one could learn to love another in that time?
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Posted: Sun Jan 08, 2006 5:54 pm
Dark Eagle Babe Sakaki-chan11 Awww...that was disgustingly sweet! heart Ten points. I'm not "falling in love" for a long time and it makes me sick how some people my age (teenage) throw around the word love as if it measns "really like". Disgusting. This is just an opinion, so don't stone me, but I don't think that this young MOST people don't know what love is. There are those lucky few who find someone they love in highschool, but most people are just trying out what they like and don't like in a partner.
*will not stone you because I totally agree with you*
Some people here, my age, say that they ''truly love'' someone, when they've just met them. And they want to go steady right away as well. They're so ''in love'' with each other for about 6 days, then they break up. I mean, what's up with that? I honestly can't stand that.
Love? I love a lot of people! I love my mother and father. I love my sisters. I love my friends. I think that everyone loves someone. It could be your parents. Or, if you hate your parents (which is quite common in this guild wink ), perhaps you love your sibling. Or you pet hamster. Or even a character from a book. You get my point. As of now, I have not had a "true love," but thats to be expected at my age. But there's a difference between love like that and the love you have for your friends and family.
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Posted: Sun Jan 08, 2006 7:48 pm
hehehe, you certainly have one side of the definition razz
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Posted: Sun Jan 08, 2006 10:47 pm
Yeah. I think there is 2 types of love. One which is where you can trust someone, share problems and secrets and even have a relationship.
The other type is the bond you have (if you like them) with your parents or other family members. Even friends too.
My opinion on love is that it comes and goes. I can't really say anything else since i'm only 15.
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Posted: Mon Jan 09, 2006 8:04 am
i think the biggest problem is that love and lust get confused and people think there in love when really it,s just the intense sexually part of it are the internseness of finding someone interesting and hot but also there is the compainionship of a true friend that can bring about love but kinda a diffrent type unless you are sexualy attracted to them but in my experiance you may start out as friends and end up lovers so it is just one wicked a** game i know untill recently i was with someone but there was to many issues so ..f#$% it life goes on but i never forget the ones i care about they are forever a part of me and i will always think of them from time to time and always care too
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Posted: Mon Jan 09, 2006 4:20 pm
hellspride i think the biggest problem is that love and lust get confused and people think there in love when really it,s just the intense sexually part of it are the internseness of finding someone interesting and hot but also there is the compainionship of a true friend that can bring about love but kinda a diffrent type unless you are sexualy attracted to them but in my experiance you may start out as friends and end up lovers so it is just one wicked a** game i know untill recently i was with someone but there was to many issues so ..f#$% it life goes on but i never forget the ones i care about they are forever a part of me and i will always think of them from time to time and always care too but dont you think that it might have been true love that you were experianceing, but after you got hurt, you convince your self that it wasnt love that was driving you, it was lust. when your mind thinks of it that way, it eases the pain because that means that you didnt give your love away so carelessly.
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Posted: Mon Jan 09, 2006 4:52 pm
Love is like life...or a pack of cards....when playing the game...you never always get what you want but you should keep trying.....unlike poker when you lose a boyfriend...nothing big you have more time to find a new boyfriend a better one......sry im confusing myself have to stop......
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Posted: Mon Jan 09, 2006 5:53 pm
Bleu_Finnegan Dark Eagle Babe Sakaki-chan11 Awww...that was disgustingly sweet! heart Ten points. I'm not "falling in love" for a long time and it makes me sick how some people my age (teenage) throw around the word love as if it measns "really like". Disgusting. This is just an opinion, so don't stone me, but I don't think that this young MOST people don't know what love is. There are those lucky few who find someone they love in highschool, but most people are just trying out what they like and don't like in a partner.
*will not stone you because I totally agree with you*
Some people here, my age, say that they ''truly love'' someone, when they've just met them. And they want to go steady right away as well. They're so ''in love'' with each other for about 6 days, then they break up. I mean, what's up with that? I honestly can't stand that.
Love? I love a lot of people! I love my mother and father. I love my sisters. I love my friends. I think that everyone loves someone. It could be your parents. Or, if you hate your parents (which is quite common in this guild wink ), perhaps you love your sibling. Or you pet hamster. Or even a character from a book. You get my point. As of now, I have not had a "true love," but thats to be expected at my age. But there's a difference between love like that and the love you have for your friends and family. I agree with Bleu, but love for a character is usually more like lust. (Especially in manga. wink ) I have to admit, sadly enough, that I have lost sleep wondering if certain characters from books would like my if they were alive. redface (Okay, I've started rambling now.)
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Posted: Mon Jan 09, 2006 6:30 pm
ideaguy09 Love is like life...or a pack of cards....when playing the game...you never always get what you want but you should keep trying.....unlike poker when you lose a boyfriend...nothing big you have more time to find a new boyfriend a better one......sry im confusing myself have to stop...... hey i think that i actually understood that... but it would have been easier to say that there is always more fish in the sea... but yeah, it is the same thing... i think... razz
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Posted: Tue Jan 10, 2006 1:10 am
Bleu_Finnegan Dark Eagle Babe Sakaki-chan11 Awww...that was disgustingly sweet! heart Ten points. I'm not "falling in love" for a long time and it makes me sick how some people my age (teenage) throw around the word love as if it measns "really like". Disgusting. This is just an opinion, so don't stone me, but I don't think that this young MOST people don't know what love is. There are those lucky few who find someone they love in highschool, but most people are just trying out what they like and don't like in a partner.
*will not stone you because I totally agree with you*
Some people here, my age, say that they ''truly love'' someone, when they've just met them. And they want to go steady right away as well. They're so ''in love'' with each other for about 6 days, then they break up. I mean, what's up with that? I honestly can't stand that.
Love? I love a lot of people! I love my mother and father. I love my sisters. I love my friends. I think that everyone loves someone. It could be your parents. Or, if you hate your parents (which is quite common in this guild wink ), perhaps you love your sibling. Or you pet hamster. Or even a character from a book. You get my point. As of now, I have not had a "true love," but thats to be expected at my age. But there's a difference between love like that and the love you have for your friends and family.
Yeah I know.. I was talking about the love you should have for a significant other...
I love my father, my sister and my friends a lot, but it's a different kind of love.
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Posted: Tue Jan 10, 2006 1:17 am
Love is difficult, it is not explained anywhere really of what you feel or what not. Most of us all want to understand it, so we experiment.
I think, especially in the beginning, one confuses ''love'' with ''lust''. I do not believe in love at first sight, because then you don't even know that person and as it says, you're just intensly attracted to the looks of a person.
I believe I have felt true love with my ex, but he did not feel it that way. It was very hard to let it go for me, because I felt totally at home with him, I felt save, secure and most importantly myself. I could do anything around him without feeling embarrassed or what not. I haven't ever felt that before...
I loved him so much, I cared for him with all my heart, I would not let anything happen to him. Which was difficult, because he has a mental disorder. But I did not care for that, I cared about him and focussed on helping him.
I did so much for him, and then one day, he just dropped me because he thought he was gay.
I felt used, but now I know he's just confused.
My point was that that is what I believe to be love. (for a partner, of course)
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Posted: Tue Jan 10, 2006 7:16 am
i dont believe that there is such a thing as love at first sight either, but thats not how it happened with me. after the first few months i had iffy feelings toward him, but those grew as i hung out with him more and more. i finally convinced myself that i loved him, then he turns around and shows that he never had such feelings for me, even though he was the one to ask me out.
maybe he is confused to, but for some reason, i doubt that. thank you for replying, and sharing your expierances. i hope to talk to you later.
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Posted: Wed Jan 11, 2006 6:41 pm
isnt it kind of funny that i am supposed to dislike love at the moment, but all i seem to do is argue for it? ...
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Posted: Thu Jan 12, 2006 3:14 pm
Almost 2years ago, I thought I was in love. But I was a fool hartey, naive, 14 year old. He hurt me so bad......
In october, I fell for my first girl (that I could go out with sweatdrop ) And it hurt when she broke it off because I know I could have loved her. (but now I love her like a sister instead)
And now, I'm falling for my best guy friend. how do I know? Because he'll stay on the phone with me until I'm feeling better. he lets me rant when I need too. He's there to make me laugh. And he's the only guy I trust with my own self. And I also know that its more then likeing him because he calms me down with just the sound of his voice, I see his backpack in the morning: I feel safe. It's just somehow different with him then any one else I've ever liked.
There's two kinds: family love, and true love. Both are VERY important, and very real.
That's my take on love.
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