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 Posted: Tue Jan 17, 2006 7:43 am
I suppose I am in most respects...nothing. I have sexual urges but I refuse to listen to them. I feel...weak when I do since my essence refuses for me to become involved in a partnership with another. It gives me the feeling that I am relying on someone and opening vulnerable spots within me. While so many of my friends argue that it is impossible or that it may only be a phase...I tried getting in a relationship one time and bombed...it wasn't their fault or the wrong person...I just feel ultimately comfortable alone when it comes to relationships. How do I know she was the right person in all aspects...well, let's just say we're best friends now that we're not going out and I feel a lot more comfortable around her. How do I know I am not gay or bisexual? I don't. My very being refuses to allow me to experiment or even try any person out...while I may have sexual urges of a straight person, I am Other because I have reduces these urges to having no weight in my decisions or thoughts. I find both sexes to be beautiful and wonderous works of natural art, but I will not be required to hump one of them before I die.
Yea...that is pretty much the most controversial question about me since I don't even know how to define it propperly. I can love, but I cannot become involved in a partnership or have sex...the feeling of relying on another makes me feel weak and the feeling of being too physically close irks me like nails on a chaulk board.
Also, I was wondering about the statistics here...the Coven obviously has more females but also most members of this guild, and I would assume any other Coven, appear to be bisexual and with the same answer as everyone else. They aren't physically attracted but spiritually attracted to their partners. Does this reveal a new aspect or quality among Wiccans (or people interested in learning about Wicca) that makes them more atune to knowing the person for who they are and apreciating both sexes as beautiful? I believe so...I know I brought up a similar question in the threads about magical creatures, but I love to see these statistics and point out interesting details such as this. It really speaks highly about this community and gives a good example for others to follow. At least...I feel this way.
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Posted: Thu Jan 19, 2006 1:39 pm
I've never been in a relationship because I feel that it complicates things but I know that I have a tendancy to fall in love with the person's soul and not who they are baised on shallow things like gender. *laughs* Seriously I have this theory that everyone's Bi and some people are just better at telling themselves their not than others. Honestly brain power is a really powerfull force. I think people just like people, end of story.
In my case whomever I love someday the decision wont be based off of Gender but rather weither I can actually live with whoever it is without a murder case on my hands... >_< No it'll be because We connect at a spiritual level and will probably be more like best friends than lovers most of the time but I'm only 15 so I have no idea. But whoever it is must love Renassance fairs or there's no way we can be together. *laughs*
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Posted: Sat Jan 21, 2006 5:10 pm
well I am in love with a guy, but when we are at college we don't date because of the distance and some other personal reasons. I also like this girl who lives across the hall from me. I am not in love with her nor will anything come up it. I do find her very attractive, but I think a lot of people are good looking. I think what really did it for me to like her is that we are both martial artist and we sparred together and worked out for about 2 hours. She is my rank and my skill level and she had amazing kicks. She is some one i can respect and she agrees with many of my martial arts phiolosphies... I have a tendency to like martial artists. In the past five years I have not dated anyone who was not a martial artist. I did not do this on perpose but I just like the kind of people martial artists are. There is an honor about them, skill, patients, and nobility that I love and look for in a person.
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Posted: Sat Jan 21, 2006 8:18 pm
Generally speaking, I'm a lesbian. But I met this really sweet guy and we're together. Happily. So I guess you could consider me bi. For the most part, men aren't my thing.
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Posted: Mon Jan 23, 2006 8:36 pm
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Posted: Sun Jan 29, 2006 8:15 am
Im bi..
more on the lesbian side tho xp
But I have a boyfriend so...bi whee
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Posted: Mon Jan 30, 2006 10:57 am
I'm straight. Definitely straight. But I don't think love depends on something like gender. Girls just aren't my thing physically, though I could never deny that some are indeed beautiful.
I once said to a friend that someone [ girl ] was really pretty and she responded with "EEWW. Are you a lesbian or something?" I was like.. Huh? What? o_O All I said was someone was good looking. >_> But I'm way off topic now. So I'll shut up. -clicks poll-
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Posted: Sat Feb 04, 2006 5:33 pm
im bi but like girls better personally
postscript: i love you 3nodding dawnhunter heart
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Posted: Mon Feb 06, 2006 8:53 pm
DamienZshadow I suppose I am in most respects...nothing. I have sexual urges but I refuse to listen to them. I feel...weak when I do since my essence refuses for me to become involved in a partnership with another. It gives me the feeling that I am relying on someone and opening vulnerable spots within me. While so many of my friends argue that it is impossible or that it may only be a phase...I tried getting in a relationship one time and bombed...it wasn't their fault or the wrong person...I just feel ultimately comfortable alone when it comes to relationships. How do I know she was the right person in all aspects...well, let's just say we're best friends now that we're not going out and I feel a lot more comfortable around her. How do I know I am not gay or bisexual? I don't. My very being refuses to allow me to experiment or even try any person out...while I may have sexual urges of a straight person, I am Other because I have reduces these urges to having no weight in my decisions or thoughts. I find both sexes to be beautiful and wonderous works of natural art, but I will not be required to hump one of them before I die.
Yea...that is pretty much the most controversial question about me since I don't even know how to define it propperly. I can love, but I cannot become involved in a partnership or have sex...the feeling of relying on another makes me feel weak and the feeling of being too physically close irks me like nails on a chaulk board. Asexual? Asexual is being considered more and more a legitimate sexuality (or lack of). My best friend, I guess you could call her, identifies as asexual. She tried a boyfriend, and she tried a girlfriend, but neither fit or felt right. She finds she doesn't need sexual relationships with others, and only becomes distressed about it at times in her life when she feels like she should be in one because of peer pressure or whatever, but that hasn't been the case in a long time. We love each other to bits and couldn't live without each other.... heart ...But just not sexually.
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Posted: Tue Feb 07, 2006 10:01 am
im bi but im not very proud of it... crying
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Posted: Tue Feb 07, 2006 6:51 pm
build_masta360 im bi but im not very proud of it... crying Why not? That's definately something to be proud of!
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Posted: Fri Feb 10, 2006 1:44 am
You have got to be kidding me, I am the only STRAIGHT GUY here?!
Sigh, now i fell lonely... xd
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Posted: Fri Feb 10, 2006 5:07 am
<_< don't be, dude. I am the only "other"
XD gonk I ALWAYS feel lonely!
sweatdrop Sorry, didn't mean to go on a rant, but at least I never have to worry about compatibility since I just have to NOT date to find the perfect partner. Myself! <_< Man that sounded sick...nevermind what I just said. >.<
F.Y.I. what I mean by other is that I am not really appealing to sex at all, or relationships. Doesn't mean what my last sentence sounded like...that was just...unexpected. xp
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Posted: Sun Feb 19, 2006 8:31 pm
Personally, I'm bisexual. <3
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Posted: Fri Feb 24, 2006 2:52 pm
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