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PostPosted: Fri Mar 12, 2010 8:10 pm


Thankies for posting this! smile
Helped me alot!
PostPosted: Fri Mar 12, 2010 8:28 pm


In my opinion, and I'm not trying to be mean..But the cases I've heard of people foiling their attempted rapists plan, and getting away before they can drag them off , is pure dumb luck.

And I'm speaking from experience, the only way I got away the first time, was because I was flailing and jammed him in the nose, fracturing it when he grabbed his nose, i ran like hell..Unfortunately, not so much luck the second time around.

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PostPosted: Sat Mar 13, 2010 6:32 am


Welcome Bucky
I love how people keep trying to come up with ways to avoid rape...
And they make things like,
"Kick them in the balls"
or
"Kill them."

Sorry to say, though those methods are effective...
They probably won't work.
Statistics show:

Approximately 2/3 of rapes were committed by someone known to the victim.
93% of juvenile sexual assault victims know their attacker.
73% of sexual assaults were perpetrated by a non-stranger.
38% of rapists are a friend or acquantance.
28% are an intimate.
7% are a relative.

And come now, we aren't ninjas. You can't just jump up and murder the person... :/
Since when did rapes become so predictable?!
You can't just come up with silly ways to avoid rape...

There honestly, are no ways to avoid the common rape,
Especially considering most rapes happen within the family.


But here are some real websites that do show you how to defend yourself and prevent rape:

Women's Self Defense Institute
No Nonsense Self Defense Rape Prevention


There are a few hotlines out there to call if you have been raped.

Rape, Abuse, and Incest National Network
1-800-656-HOPE
Online Hotline
Search for a Local Crisis Center

Sexual Abuse Hotline
1-888-PREVENT

National Suicide Hotline:
1-800-SUICIDE (784-2433)

National Adolescent Suicide Hotline:
800-621-4000

People Against Rape
1-800-877-7252

National Center for Victims of Crime
1-800-394-2255

Rappahannock Council Against Sexual Assault
1-540-371-1666


Note: I have honestly never called a hotline, so I can't tell you how it feels or what it's like. But, I have heard from a very reliable online resource and she tells me that they're very trustworthy.

oh, lol.
PostPosted: Sat Mar 13, 2010 8:05 am


Nechinia

And I'm speaking from experience, the only way I got away the first time, was because I was flailing and jammed him in the nose, fracturing it when he grabbed his nose, i ran like hell..Unfortunately, not so much luck the second time around.


Those kinds of things usually do not happen often.
And I'm guessing that your attacker was someone you knew, because the golden rule is to never ever pick a fight with your attacker, especially if you don't know them... You don't know how your attacker might react, and most of all, you don't know how strong your attacker is... Or how crazy they might be.

My attacker was a near-complete stranger to me, so I almost completely complied to everything he wanted me to do... My main focus was escaping my attacker... not fighting with him.

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PostPosted: Sat Mar 13, 2010 4:30 pm


Thanks for posting this
Really good tips
PostPosted: Sat Mar 13, 2010 8:21 pm


idk wat to say ummm *thinking face* :Y ummm sorry idk wat to say.......

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PostPosted: Thu Mar 18, 2010 4:48 pm


alot of the time people say those things for humor most believe hey im one of the lucky ones so ill crack a joke.
how ever not having time is a cop out you always have time to do something even if its just to freeze with fear unless your incompassitated (not sure if i spelled that word right but im too tired to care.) now with someone you know that you trust (been there.. ) its not i dont know i didnt revolt like most victims i didnt cry and hide yes i kept it a secret but i struck the boy (i say boy because he is not worthy of the name man) while he was doing it and though i didnt have the strength to fend him off i still stopped some of his efforts. the point is you always have time to do something its just not always clear.
PostPosted: Fri Mar 19, 2010 4:27 am


Welcome Bucky
Nechinia

And I'm speaking from experience, the only way I got away the first time, was because I was flailing and jammed him in the nose, fracturing it when he grabbed his nose, i ran like hell..Unfortunately, not so much luck the second time around.


Those kinds of things usually do not happen often.
And I'm guessing that your attacker was someone you knew, because the golden rule is to never ever pick a fight with your attacker, especially if you don't know them... You don't know how your attacker might react, and most of all, you don't know how strong your attacker is... Or how crazy they might be.

My attacker was a near-complete stranger to me, so I almost completely complied to everything he wanted me to do... My main focus was escaping my attacker... not fighting with him.


I wish I could say he wasn't, but that exactly how it was.....But to be completely honest, that was an accident, not intentional..I wasn't sure of what he would do then, but when I felt him let go of me...I just got out of there, quickly, screaming like the devil was on me.

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PostPosted: Wed Mar 24, 2010 11:44 am


rape can happen out of nowhere
PostPosted: Fri Apr 02, 2010 7:19 pm


Good to know i'm takeing notes smile

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PostPosted: Sat Apr 03, 2010 8:04 pm


Isn't there already another thread with these numbers in it?
Well, either way, your information is good. C:
PostPosted: Thu Apr 15, 2010 5:13 pm


wow,da first person with understanding words.i see ppl do crazy stuff to avoid it like killing them selfs or like dis girl whose brother raped her an da daddy killed him an the girl blammed it on herself

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PostPosted: Thu Apr 15, 2010 7:15 pm


Wow 7% relatives that's sick and thanks for the tips ^^
PostPosted: Sun Apr 18, 2010 9:24 pm


nice info. at least you're making sense. thank you.

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PostPosted: Sat May 08, 2010 9:41 am


Wow . . . . . you know a lot !
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