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 Posted: Sat Feb 20, 2010 12:00 pm
Shanna66 Zero Fail I'm thinking about posting a glossary of terms... please do. every time i read one of your posts i think i learn a new word lol LOL that is so true.
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Posted: Sun Feb 21, 2010 5:11 am
petar d-mortifer mercyx92 Zero Fail I'm thinking about posting a glossary of terms... You totally should. I'm feeling a little confused and a little ignorant. What is cis-gender? I don't think I've ever heard that term? Is it something I probably know the meaning to? cis-gender is a word to categorize people who fit in the binary gender (men & women). Thank you smile
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Posted: Mon Feb 22, 2010 5:19 pm
I'm attracted to human beings in general. For me it doesn't matter what type of genitals or preferences you have, if we're having fun spending time together that's what matters to me. And if the sex (however it plays out) is good, then it's even better. Does that count as being pansexual?
Admittedly there are some things I don't understand about transgendered people of various classifications, but I'm very open minded and tend to be quite frank when asking questions to satisfy my own curiosity. Communication is the key to any relationship, sexual or not.
By the way, I'm 22 year old woman who has thus far identified as a bisexual kinkster because I like men and women and all sorts of sex in general.
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Posted: Mon Feb 22, 2010 5:21 pm
Rynology: I don't feel as if who a person has sex with completely defines one's sexual orientation.
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Posted: Mon Feb 22, 2010 5:58 pm
Zero Fail Rynology: I don't feel as if who a person has sex with completely defines one's sexual orientation. I definitely agree with you. I may not have articulated my point of view as well as I could have, but I'm not nearly as good as you are about making things completely clear and easy to understand. Major props to you, Zero Fail; I've read a few things around the guild that you've written and it's been very illuminating.
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Posted: Mon Feb 22, 2010 6:24 pm
Yep, yep...
It's about an emotional, mental, physical, sexual, and spiritual attraction to one, two, or all genders.
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Posted: Mon Feb 22, 2010 6:36 pm
See? You're just too damn good at that.
And I'd love to say I know for sure what I am, but I haven't had the opportunities to explore a relationship with anything other than controlling men. I know I've got an interest, but unfortunately my life has not gone that direction as of yet.
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Posted: Mon Feb 22, 2010 6:43 pm
I consider myself a heteroflexible dude that's too vanilla for the kink site I'm on.
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Posted: Tue Feb 23, 2010 11:38 pm
*sigh* i shouldn't have come back. I can tell I'm about to get into another argument.
Okay, screw the post i made earlier. I like what I like, and i identify as bisexual because it's easier. So what if it's "technically" inaccurate or makes me a hypocrite? Really, who cares?
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Posted: Tue Feb 23, 2010 11:40 pm
lifes4fun *sigh* i shouldn't have come back. I can tell I'm about to get into another argument. Okay, screw the post i made earlier. I like what I like, and i identify as bisexual because it's easier. So what if it's "technically" inaccurate or makes me a hypocrite? Really, who cares? Transgender people care. 3nodding
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Posted: Tue Feb 23, 2010 11:47 pm
Zero Fail lifes4fun *sigh* i shouldn't have come back. I can tell I'm about to get into another argument. Okay, screw the post i made earlier. I like what I like, and i identify as bisexual because it's easier. So what if it's "technically" inaccurate or makes me a hypocrite? Really, who cares? Transgender people care. 3nodding AUGH FOR THE LAST TIME i do NOT HATE transgender people! And why on earth would they care if I identify as bisexual? just because "technically speaking" this apparently means something? The english language is fickle enough. If a transgender person is insulted because of how I label my sexuality, then they need to get their head out of the clouds, because just because i say i'm bi THAT DOESN'T MEAN I HATE OR DISCRIMINATE AGAINST ANYONE! Yeesh!
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Posted: Tue Feb 23, 2010 11:51 pm
lifes4fun Zero Fail lifes4fun *sigh* i shouldn't have come back. I can tell I'm about to get into another argument. Okay, screw the post i made earlier. I like what I like, and i identify as bisexual because it's easier. So what if it's "technically" inaccurate or makes me a hypocrite? Really, who cares? Transgender people care. 3nodding AUGH FOR THE LAST TIME i do NOT HATE transgender people! And why on earth would they care if I identify as bisexual? just because "technically speaking" this apparently means something? The english language is fickle enough. If a transgender person is insulted because of how I label my sexuality, then they need to get their head out of the clouds, because just because i say i'm bi THAT DOESN'T MEAN I HATE OR DISCRIMINATE AGAINST ANYONE! Yeesh! I'm not saying that you hate transgender people. If you eventually date somebody who identifies as transgender they may not feel comfortable with you identifying as bisexual for the reasons I've already stated. That's the point I'm trying to get across. If you are bisexual, and think "I would never date somebody that isn't a man or a woman" then that's fine.
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Posted: Wed Feb 24, 2010 12:01 am
Zero Fail lifes4fun Zero Fail lifes4fun *sigh* i shouldn't have come back. I can tell I'm about to get into another argument. Okay, screw the post i made earlier. I like what I like, and i identify as bisexual because it's easier. So what if it's "technically" inaccurate or makes me a hypocrite? Really, who cares? Transgender people care. 3nodding AUGH FOR THE LAST TIME i do NOT HATE transgender people! And why on earth would they care if I identify as bisexual? just because "technically speaking" this apparently means something? The english language is fickle enough. If a transgender person is insulted because of how I label my sexuality, then they need to get their head out of the clouds, because just because i say i'm bi THAT DOESN'T MEAN I HATE OR DISCRIMINATE AGAINST ANYONE! Yeesh! I'm not saying that you hate transgender people. If you eventually date somebody who identifies as transgender they may not feel comfortable with you identifying as bisexual for the reasons I've already stated. That's the point I'm trying to get across. If you are bisexual, and think "I would never date somebody that isn't a man or a woman" then that's fine. OH MY GOD! THAT'S IT, I'M GOING TO GO DO SOMETHING THAT I'M SURE I WILL REGRET. Watch the forum because a big rant is coming up. I HAVE HAD IT!
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Posted: Wed Feb 24, 2010 2:41 am
Oh well...
This was meant to be a topic in an attempt to open up people's minds about language regarding their own identities. Can't win 'em all...
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Posted: Wed Feb 24, 2010 7:23 am
you try.
im still going to be calling myself bi unless i fall for someone who is a trans person of some sort, then ill call myself pan
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