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PostPosted: Tue Mar 30, 2010 5:41 pm


Bottling up what happens seems to hurt over time. Now, there are "triggers" in my life that make it hurt more. Like seeing sed person who hurt me on a daily basis, hearing someone talk about him for a long time, even hearing about certain types of violence. Yet, it seems easier to talk to people. Then again, in a world like today, you don't know who you can really trust because someone can ruin it all by news getting back to the one that hurt you. Choose wisely is all I can say. Either risk it all or let emotional abuse take over until it becomes physical pain. (aka tell someone you trust or bottle it up)
PostPosted: Sun May 09, 2010 8:05 am


Kiss me im lrish
That's absolutely ridiculous, In a situation example: A young female Is raped while walking to school. It's not her fault she has no reason to fear any of the thing's you've listed.
You on the other hand, I'm not aware of your situation nor do I know the whole story so I can't say the same for you.

That was an ignorant statement you just made.


Have you ever heard of the book 'Speak'? It's about a girl who was raped by a kid from her school while at her friend's party... And she called the police, but when the police had arrived, she got scared. And she snuck out of the house and went back home. Sure, she had no reason to be afraid, no reason to not want to tell on him... But she may have felt guilty.

You can't automatically judge people and say, "Why did you feel like that?" unless you've been through it yourself. I'm yet to tell my family about what happened... it's slightly because I'm afraid of what they will think, but mostly because I don't want them to feel like they have failed me in any way.

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