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Chieftain Twilight Captain
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 Posted: Sun Nov 15, 2009 12:10 pm
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Posted: Sun Nov 15, 2009 1:16 pm
I've never tried doing the notes thing, but I had an assignment in high school once to randomly compliment a person a day. It didn't make me feel very fabulous to have them glare at me like, "...what's wrong with you? Get the hell away from me."
I don't compliment strangers for the hell of it anymore, just the people that I know and am close to. I only compliment strangers when I truly truly mean what I'm saying. There was this woman with a bright pink streak in her hair that came into where I worked one day, and without thinking, I gasped and exclaimed, "Goodness, I absolutely love your hair!" I think she was a little freaked out by it, lol.
Commenting on what everyone here has said on Uke's relationship: No matter how many people tell her, what they tell her, or however they tell her...she's going to have to wake up herself and realize that she's not in a healthy relationship. It took me four years to find out that the relationship I was in wasn't healthy, and I've been told by so many people so many times.
Uke: I have to bluntly say: Wake up and smell the coffee. Or in this case, look under your shoe to figure out that you've stepped in s**t. When you have realized that you're not in the best of situations, try your best to find the strength in you to walk away from it, and never look back. It only gets harder every time you wonder, "what if I stuck it out for a little longer?" The only answer to that is: Nothing would have ever changed if you let yourself get hurt just a little longer. It'll be hard to walk away, but it'll only make you stronger in the end, I guarantee you that.
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Posted: Sun Nov 15, 2009 3:34 pm
The Dew Queen I've never tried doing the notes thing, but I had an assignment in high school once to randomly compliment a person a day. It didn't make me feel very fabulous to have them glare at me like, "...what's wrong with you? Get the hell away from me."
I don't compliment strangers for the hell of it anymore, just the people that I know and am close to. I only compliment strangers when I truly truly mean what I'm saying. There was this woman with a bright pink streak in her hair that came into where I worked one day, and without thinking, I gasped and exclaimed, "Goodness, I absolutely love your hair!" I think she was a little freaked out by it, lol.
Commenting on what everyone here has said on Uke's relationship: No matter how many people tell her, what they tell her, or however they tell her...she's going to have to wake up herself and realize that she's not in a healthy relationship. It took me four years to find out that the relationship I was in wasn't healthy, and I've been told by so many people so many times.
Uke: I have to bluntly say: Wake up and smell the coffee. Or in this case, look under your shoe to figure out that you've stepped in s**t. When you have realized that you're not in the best of situations, try your best to find the strength in you to walk away from it, and never look back. It only gets harder every time you wonder, "what if I stuck it out for a little longer?" The only answer to that is: Nothing would have ever changed if you let yourself get hurt just a little longer. It'll be hard to walk away, but it'll only make you stronger in the end, I guarantee you that. While I agree with you that a little more pain is not right, I don't believe in trying to knock sense into anyone with blunt words or not. My oppinions are just that, my oppinions. Also, Uke is a guy, usually a sweetheart. Anyway, pink strand in the hair hmm? Awesome, she probably wasnt freaked out, jsut surprised to be accepted. I love the quote in your signature by the by, there is a line from a book titled "Psyche in a dress" which I highly recommend to people. This line is something about love and soul, which i think you may find interesting. And Zachy, yes it was funny. We all laughed for a bit, and they shared a sandwhich with me. gotta love the military police at times.
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Posted: Sun Nov 15, 2009 3:46 pm
i find that the military police arn't nearly as bad as cops.
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Chieftain Twilight Captain
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Posted: Sun Nov 15, 2009 4:27 pm
kingcorrupted The Dew Queen I've never tried doing the notes thing, but I had an assignment in high school once to randomly compliment a person a day. It didn't make me feel very fabulous to have them glare at me like, "...what's wrong with you? Get the hell away from me."
I don't compliment strangers for the hell of it anymore, just the people that I know and am close to. I only compliment strangers when I truly truly mean what I'm saying. There was this woman with a bright pink streak in her hair that came into where I worked one day, and without thinking, I gasped and exclaimed, "Goodness, I absolutely love your hair!" I think she was a little freaked out by it, lol.
Commenting on what everyone here has said on Uke's relationship: No matter how many people tell her, what they tell her, or however they tell her...she's going to have to wake up herself and realize that she's not in a healthy relationship. It took me four years to find out that the relationship I was in wasn't healthy, and I've been told by so many people so many times.
Uke: I have to bluntly say: Wake up and smell the coffee. Or in this case, look under your shoe to figure out that you've stepped in s**t. When you have realized that you're not in the best of situations, try your best to find the strength in you to walk away from it, and never look back. It only gets harder every time you wonder, "what if I stuck it out for a little longer?" The only answer to that is: Nothing would have ever changed if you let yourself get hurt just a little longer. It'll be hard to walk away, but it'll only make you stronger in the end, I guarantee you that. While I agree with you that a little more pain is not right, I don't believe in trying to knock sense into anyone with blunt words or not. My oppinions are just that, my oppinions. Also, Uke is a guy, usually a sweetheart. Anyway, pink strand in the hair hmm? Awesome, she probably wasnt freaked out, jsut surprised to be accepted. I love the quote in your signature by the by, there is a line from a book titled "Psyche in a dress" which I highly recommend to people. This line is something about love and soul, which i think you may find interesting. And Zachy, yes it was funny. We all laughed for a bit, and they shared a sandwhich with me. gotta love the military police at times.
I got the quote from a site of sappy love quotes I was looking at once to put into a photo manip of mine for me and my boyfriend. Can you give me the author of the book, please? I'm too lazy to look it up, lol, and I've been dying for a good book to read.
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Posted: Sun Nov 15, 2009 5:11 pm
francesca lia block is the author. it is an extremely tiny book, but completely worth the hour or so I put into reading it. Found it at a library when I was in highschool, and after getting to my station here I bought it.
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Posted: Sun Nov 15, 2009 5:30 pm
I'll have to get myself to a library sometime then. I googled the book, and the cover looks cool. The book description is a little confusing to me though. Guess I won't truly know until I read it.
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Posted: Sun Nov 15, 2009 5:34 pm
Brush up on your greek mythology if you don't know any of it, she uses greek gods and goddesses to name the characters. From her father to her child, to her one true love. It is amazing in its simplistic complexity. All the same, I hope you enjoy it as much as I do.
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Posted: Sun Nov 15, 2009 7:25 pm
I used to be obsessed with Greek mythology, but its been a while--I'm rusty, lol.
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Posted: Sun Nov 15, 2009 11:55 pm
"Wow it happend again..but ok,,it's harder with the imp body..I think I not offended or hurt at all it ok. I am used to being called a girl on gaia, truly I am. But I am not a dobi people...I know that he is mean, it's just that he does not mean it, he is bipoler and so am I but i never hurt people and I don't really get mad as much. I do love him, but I also hate him....But he would never truly mean to hurt me bad....I think".
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Posted: Mon Nov 16, 2009 3:36 am
uke gone bad "Wow it happend again..but ok,,it's harder with the imp body..I think I not offended or hurt at all it ok. I am used to being called a girl on gaia, truly I am. But I am not a dobi people...I know that he is mean, it's just that he does not mean it, he is bipoler and so am I but i never hurt people and I don't really get mad as much. I do love him, but I also hate him....But he would never truly mean to hurt me bad....I think". Whats a dobi? Furthermore, No need to explain yourself Uke. If ya ever find out different than you believe you have the entire guild to talk to about the issues you may face. And hey, you may be mistaken for a female on here, but least your avi is adorable ^_^
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Posted: Mon Nov 16, 2009 10:59 am
which book by the Way Josh, Francesca Lia Block is one of my FAVE authors! biggrin
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Chieftain Twilight Captain
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Posted: Mon Nov 16, 2009 8:40 pm
I'm being such a hypocrite, and I've been trying to restrain myself from saying anything, but I can't help it anymore.
Uke, whether he intends to be mean to you or not, he is still being mean. And you shouldn't have to put up with that, whether it be your fault or not. Bipolar disorder is not an excuse to be mean to someone he supposedly cares about. He has no right to take anything out on you. He should be getting the help that he needs before going into a relationship. It's not your job to fix him, and he should burn in Hell for all of eternity if that thought ever crosses his mind. You are not responsible for him. He is responsible for himself, his words, and his actions. You're not his mother, and you're not his therapist.
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Posted: Mon Nov 16, 2009 9:43 pm
"But well...I don't have anything good to say fight now...i am mad at him..ask me later".
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Posted: Mon Nov 16, 2009 11:13 pm
uke gone bad "But well...I don't have anything good to say fight now...i am mad at him..ask me later". Why? *pounces* And are you okay? Message me sometime Uke, it has been too long since I saw a meesage from you in my inbox At Dew, while I agree, try not to be condescending please. It isn't good for morale. Though, burning in hell is quite a mundane punishment, maybe you and I could brainstorm a much more befitting punishment for people? Like to be stuck at a level that has been divided by zero? ^_^ At Zachy, it is titled "Psyche in a Dress" I know you would love it my friend. *pounces*
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