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Redmage1989

PostPosted: Wed Sep 16, 2009 7:29 am


lol yes im nerd but I have to use this quote cus its good Storm once said to Jubilee when she asked why to people hate us so much (us being mutants) and storm simply looked at her and said child people fear what they do not understand
PostPosted: Wed Sep 16, 2009 7:47 am


so true change frightens people.. people are so used to the norm that anything outside it is dangerous so they try to destroy it... everyone has fears... hate crimes (in my opinion ) are due to fear... the exact fear could vary but hate stems from other emotions... short versions true we fear what we don't understand and we hate it because it frightens us...  

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Porzellan Nebel

PostPosted: Wed Sep 16, 2009 12:42 pm


gayroxas45
lol yes im nerd but I have to use this quote cus its good Storm once said to Jubilee when she asked why to people hate us so much (us being mutants) and storm simply looked at her and said child people fear what they do not understand


That's extactly the reason, they fear change and things they don't know.
PostPosted: Sat Sep 26, 2009 5:21 am


You answered your own question. CAUSE THEY'RE DIFFERENT!

I suppose it's misunderstanding. Being around someone totally different from you can be fun, but at the same time for someone totally not used to it, it can seem pretty weird. You don't know your footing basically. With a "normal" person it's easy because you know what you expect. With different people it feels like there's a whole new set of rules.

It's not necessarily meanness, just not understanding why people are how they are, and not knowing how to treat them.

But not everyone's mean. I love my year group at school because everyone gets along with everyone. We're all really different people, we have our different groups, but we are all civil and there are never any dramas or anything. It's cool. I'm lucky.

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PervyKirby

PostPosted: Sat Sep 26, 2009 5:35 pm


Why not just ask them? I'm sure that more than half won't be able to give a legitimate response, they'll say something along the lines of it being unnatural or they'll throw in religion. stare
PostPosted: Tue Oct 06, 2009 8:43 pm


Stargazing Girl
Samantha478
Simply because you don't conform.If you act like,or like things that the general population doesn't,you get label as a weirdo and people (for some screwed up reason) think thats a good reason to bash you and keep you separated.


she makes a great point, but i can take it a step further. my dad is a psychologist and has explained to me (on top of what samantha said) that people fear what they dont understand, so they view us as a threat.


Humans have a long history with this. If you look at Japanese culture/ history (I am not using this to diss Japanese people, Im going in to Japanese history) they almost completely cut them selves off from the rest of the world till the 19th century. They did this to keep their culture 'pure', they did not want out side influences. Now this is an extreme case, generally, people dont like differences because they 1) dont understand and therefore fear them and 2) they dont know how to deal, its like you popped their perfect little bubble.
When humans are hurt or scared they lash out, they dont like to feel threatened even if it is only a perceived threat not a real one.

eek gah! sorry for the history lesson! sweatdrop

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