Sol D_W
Sorry when I wrote "what you want it to be" i meant I've heard things about when you are solitary you have to find your own path. Ghaa... I still may be saying it wrong but all I know is that there is no one set path or way to worship like in most monotheistic religions.
While there is some variation between covens and traditions, Traditional Wicca has core practices/beliefs that are essential in order for it to be properly practiced.
As Chaos said, Eclectic/Solitary Neo-Paganism is more of a do your own thing, but even then there are many Traditions that have specific requirements. Also, even when "creating" your own path - it still has to be done with understanding and respect for other cultures and religions. Many cultures/paths are "closed" and do not look kindly on others taking bits and pieces of them - especially when they used out of their original context.