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 Posted: Fri Aug 07, 2009 9:50 pm
Xiporah It's so thrilling and terrifying to let someone hold your heart. This.
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Posted: Fri Aug 07, 2009 11:07 pm
Reading this thread is like reading a manga made for teenage girls teenagers.
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Posted: Sat Aug 08, 2009 8:01 am
I'm scared he'll find it too hard to be apart from me.
I'm scared he's going to get drunk and be seduced by some girl.
He's already been hit on by girls, and he even has admitted he wanted to cheat on me once. but he never did anything. I don't know if I should believe him.
I'm scared that I love him more, and that he really doesn't want to live with me someday, and when he tells me he does it's all lying so that he doesn't hurt my feelings.
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Posted: Sat Aug 08, 2009 8:01 pm
Neccasaurus Rex I'm scared he'll find it too hard to be apart from me. I'm scared he's going to get drunk and be seduced by some girl. He's already been hit on by girls, and he even has admitted he wanted to cheat on me once. but he never did anything. I don't know if I should believe him. I'm scared that I love him more, and that he really doesn't want to live with me someday, and when he tells me he does it's all lying so that he doesn't hurt my feelings. What the hell. Why wouldn't you get mad at him for that? Wanting to cheat on you...that's effed up. If my boyfriend did that I would be all BYEBYE.
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Posted: Sat Aug 08, 2009 8:27 pm
i have tons but they go away over time, at least for me.
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Posted: Sat Aug 08, 2009 10:19 pm
I don't have a love right now. When I was in love last, I always feared she would just simply break up with me for someone else. It plagued me. Then, it finally happened. It hit me really hard because I still loved her. Honestly, I still do. However, I know better now.
If I had someone that I did love now, I'd still be afraid they'd leave me unless they made it very apparent that they love me back.
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Posted: Sat Aug 08, 2009 10:48 pm
I'm not in a relationship, but I know that I'd be paranoid they'd become annoyed/bored with me.
I liked this kid for the longest time and one day I was like, "YOU KNOW WHAT. IF I ANNOY YOU, JUST TELL ME."
He was like, "LOL. Nahh, you're cool."
But then we stopped talking. ;__;
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Posted: Sun Aug 09, 2009 6:18 am
I'm always afraid that they will break up with me and say something like "Oh, I never loved you in the first place." It happened once, and I'm afraid it's going to happen again. I know not everyone is like that, but it's holding me back from dating.
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Posted: Sat Aug 15, 2009 2:19 pm
Addykat All the ******** time. I'm afraid I'm ******** annoying as s**t and Nick's just at his desk going |:< or something. BUT HE'S NOT. But I still worry. Or my clinginess is gonna drive him away. Or my neuroticism is going to do the same. Or that I'm not as awesome of a lady as he thought and he's just bein' nice... :ccc This is depressing me. Ugh. I really need to work on this; I know none of it's true. I hate that I still think about it all. All this.
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Posted: Mon Aug 17, 2009 8:03 am
Streetlight Fights Neccasaurus Rex I'm scared he'll find it too hard to be apart from me. I'm scared he's going to get drunk and be seduced by some girl. He's already been hit on by girls, and he even has admitted he wanted to cheat on me once. but he never did anything. I don't know if I should believe him. I'm scared that I love him more, and that he really doesn't want to live with me someday, and when he tells me he does it's all lying so that he doesn't hurt my feelings. What the hell. Why wouldn't you get mad at him for that? Wanting to cheat on you...that's effed up. If my boyfriend did that I would be all BYEBYE. Desire is only made evil by action.
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Posted: Sat Aug 22, 2009 11:00 am
I have the messiah of all ridiculous relationship fears almost constantly.
I'm terrified that I'm going to get pregant even though I've never had sex. I am engaged, but we've neve done it. But the fear persists no matter what logic I tell myself.
Even when I'm on my period. It's still there. IDK.
I'm a damn loon.
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Posted: Sat Aug 22, 2009 1:56 pm
I have one, and it sounds stupid but I hate even saying it 'cuz I'm afraid it'll happen.
I'm in a long distance relationship and I'm always afraid for her life. Not like she does anything dangerous but I'm not around to watch over her and make sure she's alright.
If something happened, I'd never recover.
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Posted: Sat Aug 22, 2009 3:34 pm
Even in a long distance relationship, I always have the philosophy that it could totally be worse. I'm completely optimistic and not freaked at all -- for ******** once. But that doesn't stop me from having the occasional irrational fear.
I'm afraid she's going to leave me for someone better looking and closer. But that's pretty much it. I just hope that doesn't happy.
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Posted: Fri Aug 28, 2009 12:44 pm
I have the occasional fear from time to time, but I tell myself that if I keep thinking about it, the negativity of the thoughts will consume me and eventually come true. So I try to push them away and not let my emotions take over, or I tell my boyfran and he reassures me ("SHUT UP YOU'RE ON CRACK CALM DOWN. *hug*").
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Posted: Fri Aug 28, 2009 8:29 pm
I don't. I laid my game down quite flat and she's not going anywhere.
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