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 Posted: Fri Jan 29, 2010 6:43 pm
I also forgot to add, that later on when I was 6 or 7 I started stuffing my shirts full of blankets and tried to make little roleplays or stories of how I was growing fatter and fatter.
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Posted: Wed Sep 22, 2010 10:05 pm
I've always been the fat guy, and as long as i can remember i've found it interesting, but i was always a bit embarrassed by it so i tried to hide it cause it wasn't normal.
Around 12 I stumbled across dimensions and suddenly it wasn't so weird cause there were thousands of people who shared my tastes. From there i realized i preferred SSBBWs though BBWs were still quite attractive too. haven't ever thought about going back.
Around 16 i kinda got to the point that i didn't care what others thought, if asked i'd admit to being a gainer and liking really fat girls, but i've never made a big deal out of it.
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Posted: Mon May 09, 2011 8:06 pm
I was fairly young, I just always seemed to notice the big girls in my class over the skinny ones. As I grew older and through my teen years I was ashamed of it but it ruined a friendship because I blurted out my feelings and she took everything up to that point the wrong way where as if I had just been honest from day one and asked her out it would have been fine.
I guess that's why I am so open with it now. It prevented me from dating in high school because I was ashamed of who i was inside. For any younger members here I offer my story as a beacon of hope. Much like the current Dan Savage movement on youtube states, it get's better. Still don't go over board, ambiguity is best. Most of all don't be rude about it. Don't be as much of a jack a** as you fear they will be about you. It doesn't help and burns a lot of bridges.
Most people if you aren't shoving it in their face, really could care less. Not to mention, your acts peak louder than words. In my case I never said much but once all my friends and co-workers met my girlfriend they got the idea pretty quick, one or two said something off hand later to which I just explained very calmly that I found the comment disrespectful and that my personal preferences are my own.
Wow sorry how that turned into a gushing rant XD
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