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 Posted: Tue Jul 07, 2009 7:04 am
I'm really not sure what kind of advice to give you, because i'm kinda that way. Though i've had more than my fair share of reasons so far. But my girlfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year now and I still feel like that sometimes. There really isn't much you can do about it, I think. I'm sure that his being paranoid and worried 24/7 is aggravating, but just keep lovin' him.
Something that I absolutely encourage in relationships, no matter how new or old, is to just give little, random gifts. For holidays and birthdays is nice, too, but if you give him a random gift, big or small, on some day that has no really significance, it shows that you're willing to go out of your way to show him that you appreciate and care for him.
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Posted: Thu Jul 09, 2009 10:00 am
My boyfriend is a bit clingy and a little too affectionate for me.
He also is very jealous. Sice most of my friends are guys it doesn't really help. But I still want to be with him. Just not right now. I want to focus on school and sports.
Should I tell him the things I want him to try to change or should I learn to love his flaws?
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Posted: Thu Jul 09, 2009 7:34 pm
I'm not a mod here, so either take my advice or leave it where it is, but if you're not happy with who he is as a person, flaws and all, and you don't think you can deal with them, do you really love this person or care as deeply as you thought for them?
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Posted: Fri Jul 10, 2009 1:29 pm
There are some things that people need to change about themselves if they really care about someone. Jealousy is one of them. I tend to be an EXTREMELY jealous person, even over the tiniest things, such as a hug between my gf and one of her friends. But I don't speak up about it because, really, I know it isn't a big deal. The only time I say anything about it and i'm actually serious is when it's really bothering me or i'm uncomfortable with what she's doing.
There are SOME flaws that you just have to learn to love, though. Such as his being a little too affectionate. Maybe he was just raised in an affectionate family. But if he's trying to get in your pants or something like that and you keep telling him no, then i'd say it's time you two had a heart-to-heart conversation and you made clear your boundaries. Simply tell him that if he can't respect you the way you feel you should be respected, then it's not going to work out between the two of you.
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Posted: Thu Jul 30, 2009 9:23 am
Yes yes.
Love flaws.
Its what makes a person who they are.
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Posted: Thu Jul 30, 2009 7:44 pm
Ehh...love. Do not like. >.>...x.X
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Posted: Fri Aug 28, 2009 6:00 pm
my bf is very mute...he hardly talks because he is nervous...i geuss
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Posted: Wed Sep 09, 2009 9:19 pm
 Meeting you was fate, becoming your friend was a choice...Currently, I have a bit of a problem. See, I used to live in Arizona, but I moved out of there about 2 years ago and to the New England area. Lately though, I've been talking to an ex boyfriend from my early high school years... And well, I like him and he likes me too. He calls me his baby girl, and we always talk about how much we want to see each other.
But there's the fact that there's thousands of miles between us, and neither of us can just drop our lives and move to where the other is. I have a job and my family out here, and he has a job and his friends and family out there.
I'm not even sure if I should torture myself with liking someone that I can't see... ...but falling in love with you I had no control over.
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