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Posted: Tue Mar 10, 2009 4:33 pm
And I was joking! pirate Sorry if some people took that part of my post seriously.
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Posted: Tue Mar 10, 2009 4:35 pm
Behatz, I facepalm you. talk2hand
You should know by now that the internet is tough for sarcasm, especially for 'Aspies' like me.
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Posted: Tue Mar 10, 2009 4:39 pm
Lumanny Behatz, I facepalm you. talk2hand You should know by now that the internet is tough for sarcasm, especially for 'Aspies' like me. I apologise profusely, Lumanny. I'm just having a joke about the fact more religious people have a stereotype of saying NO to everything. pirate
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Posted: Tue Mar 10, 2009 4:45 pm
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Posted: Tue Mar 10, 2009 8:10 pm
Oh the internet and sarcasm. I was just talking about this like 5 minutes ago! I told my friend her car wouldn't run because her gas gauge was broken and she got all worried. Lol.
It kind of irks me that the person who started this thread views the Orthodox as intolerant. Some of them are sure, but I'm sure there are intolerant people in all branches of Judaism (and every religion/lack their of). I have many a story about an exboyfriend's mother to prove it! 3nodding
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Posted: Tue Mar 10, 2009 9:02 pm
I didn't say Orthodox is intolerant, or anything else about Orthodox. Next time, read my words before replying. I might pay you a little respect instead of calling you a ******** retard.
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Posted: Tue Mar 10, 2009 9:36 pm
There is no need to act that way. I sorry I mistook your statement about reform Judaism being more tolerant as an insinuation that the other branches are not as tolerant. Sending nasty PMs will not solve your quarrels with me. If you have a problem with me or anyone else, report it to Divash, Neuf or DarkPhoenix.
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Posted: Wed Mar 11, 2009 1:01 am
I think the fact that Orthodox rabbis don't recognise Reform and Conservative conversions as valid (often coupled with not recognising Reform/Conservative rabbis as real rabbis), even if done with all the traditional stuff, is rather intolerant.
Modern Orthodox Jews are by and large fine people though. I just wish they'd be more accepting of other streams of Judaism.
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Eloquent Conversationalist
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Posted: Wed Mar 11, 2009 5:33 am
Captain Jakes, you need to speak in a civil tone. It's fine to express an opinion that someone else may not like, but do it without swearing or name-calling. Thank you.
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Posted: Wed Mar 11, 2009 11:57 am
DanskiWolf I think the fact that Orthodox rabbis don't recognise Reform and Conservative conversions as valid (often coupled with not recognising Reform/Conservative rabbis as real rabbis), even if done with all the traditional stuff, is rather intolerant. Modern Orthodox Jews are by and large fine people though. I just wish they'd be more accepting of other streams of Judaism. There is really never a situation where it matters how you converted. If someone who is Orthodox doesn't approve, let them not approve. As someone who found Judaism on your own you** are considered beloved and dear whether an Orthodox Jew believes it or not. That being said: Orthodox Jews believe the whole Torah was written by G-d meaning that the 613 mitzvot were also written by G-d. The Reform movement believes in the exact opposite, that G-d did not write the Torah so therefore the 613 mitzvot are not as binding. It is safe to say then that a Reform convert doesn't commit to their new Jewish identity as an Orthodox convert would. Should they be viewed differently? Well liberal Jews do want to be distinguished from Orthodox Jews, so maybe it makes sense that a liberal conversion be distinguished from an Orthodox one. As far as rabbis go, I never learned much about that process... **not necessarily you personally, Danski
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Posted: Wed Mar 11, 2009 3:16 pm
But the lack of Orthodox recognition does create a problem in Israel. Reform/Con converts will not be registered as Jews thus they can't marry "halachic" Jews or be buried in Jewish cemeteries.
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Posted: Wed Mar 11, 2009 3:42 pm
Liberal Jews (or at least myself and the ones I know) do not want to REFORM Judaism, we simply believe that the Torah can be interpreted differently. I still keep as many mitzvahs as possible. However, it is my belief that the Torah, which, by and large, is the work of G-d, has been added to or changed in certain parts, which explains many contradictions.
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Posted: Wed Mar 11, 2009 4:09 pm
DanskiWolf But the lack of Orthodox recognition does create a problem in Israel. Reform/Con converts will not be registered as Jews thus they can't marry "halachic" Jews or be buried in Jewish cemeteries. I do not agree with the way Israel handles converts at all. They decided to make it a matter of state and in my opinion that was wrong. I'll spare you my quarrels with the Israeli government though. Anyway, I was under the impression that if you are a convert (no matter what kind or in what country) you can marry any Jew as long as he/she is not a Cohen. However more and more converts are having a harder time being excepted socially, especially in Israel. It is true that if you wish to convert in Israel you have to convert to an "Orthodox" school to be recognized as a Jew by the state (or to make aliyah and be recognized as a Jew). This isn't necessarily fair, but then again when you try to mix religion with government someone is always treated unfairly. The only thing I can say is that if you can't handle that there will always be someone who doesn't understand you and your choices to choose Judaism, then do not convert. I don't want to discourage people from converting, really I don't, I'm just trying to be realistic.
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Posted: Thu Mar 12, 2009 7:27 am
Hey, not all Orthodox conversions are recognized, either. In fact, the Syrian Jewish community asked for, and were granted, the right to consider ALL CONVERSIONS invalid, and all descendants of all converts married to Jews as bastards. The rest of us purse our lips tightly and say "That's their right," and we leave them alone because a great many Jews are descended from converts -- including Rabbi Akiva, who converted at the age of forty and since became one of the greatest rabbanim of all time.
EVERY community of Jews has some other group that they don't consider Jews. Reform don't accept Messianic "Jews" as Jews (ahem, because they're not), and some also don't consider the stricter of the Orthodox to be acting in a Jewish way by not recognizing non-Orthodox conversions.
The Sephardi, Mizrachi, Teimani, Ethiopian, and Indian Jewish communities never split into factions of Reform/Conservative/Orthodox, so rather than looking at what movement a person came from, they look for two things: (1) Did the person's rabbi demand of them the observance of all mitzvot? All Orthodox and some Conservative rabbis do demand this. (2) Did the person agree to it? (3) Did the person fully intend to do it? (3) Did the person then go about living in a Judaically authentic way, after promising and intending to do so? -- Accordingly, the Sephardi (and the rest) rabbis will accept some conversions, and reject others, no matter what community the person converted in. All they want to know is whether the rabbi demanded mitzvot-keeping and whether the convert then went about keeping the mitzvot.
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Posted: Thu Mar 12, 2009 1:44 pm
Divash Hey, not all Orthodox conversions are recognized, either. In fact, the Syrian Jewish community asked for, and were granted, the right to consider ALL CONVERSIONS invalid, and all descendants of all converts as bastards. The rest of us purse our lips tightly and say "That's their right," and we leave them alone because a great many Jews are descended from converts -- including Rabbi Akiva, who converted at the age of forty and since became one of the greatest rabbanim of all time. As in THE Rabbi Akivah? I didn't know that. smile
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