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chaoticpuppet
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PostPosted: Tue Jan 18, 2005 8:22 pm


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chaoticpuppet
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So I guess the statement has to be adjusted to: "No action is done completely selflessly- there is a reward, or perceived reward for everything, including the avoidance of pain or suffering."

But, is not the avoidance of something a reward in a way?
That's why I said including the avoidance of pain.
What if pain and suffering are the results that are wanted?
PostPosted: Tue Jan 18, 2005 8:30 pm


chaoticpuppet
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So I guess the statement has to be adjusted to: "No action is done completely selflessly- there is a reward, or perceived reward for everything, including the avoidance of pain or suffering."

But, is not the avoidance of something a reward in a way?
That's why I said including the avoidance of pain.
What if pain and suffering are the results that are wanted?
Then that is the reward. I didn't mean that pain couldn't be the reward. I just meant that some people do painful things because they are less painful than other things.

Lady Purplepants


GameAngel64

PostPosted: Thu Jan 20, 2005 10:57 pm


chaoticpuppet

Now, on your prince and brother point: it is exactly the same. If the prince does not kill his brother, he has an increased chance of going to heaven. Now, if the prince kills his brother he gets to be king. The only difference is when the reward comes.


However, you are assuming that the prince believes in a heaven or afterlife. Some people do the right thing just because it's instinctively right. Yes, they may get some kind of biological "chemical" reward for doing the right thing, a feeling of satisfaction for having done good instead of bad, but that is the way in which an individual can distinguish right and wrong. If the body did not respond to right and wrong in those distinctive manners, it would be kind of hard to distinguish the two. So, yes, while everything a person chooses to do often results in something beneficial (ideally), that doesn't necessarily require selfishness. What about things like altruism?

I can see how Satanism agrees with your revelation. I read on a Satanist website somewhere that, basically, a person does not need threats of hell or divine punishment to keep him from harming his neighbor. Neighbors will treat each other civilly for the mere fact that they desire bonds of friendship. Basically, a person will be kind to another person in hopes of gaining friendship in return. Divine reward does not matter, because it is the friendship itself that is the reward that is sought.

I kind of got off task here, but ultimately what I'm trying to say is, even if every action results in something for the individual, it doesn't imply that the individual is selfish.
PostPosted: Thu Jan 20, 2005 11:03 pm


chaoticpuppet
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chaoticpuppet
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So I guess the statement has to be adjusted to: "No action is done completely selflessly- there is a reward, or perceived reward for everything, including the avoidance of pain or suffering."

But, is not the avoidance of something a reward in a way?
That's why I said including the avoidance of pain.
What if pain and suffering are the results that are wanted?


Then it wouldn't really be pain in a sense because they'd be enjoying it. Perhaps they want physical pain, however, they wouldn't truely be suffering because to suffer is to experience something you wish to avoid or is harmful to your personal well being.

Tigress Dawn

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A Murder of Angels
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PostPosted: Fri Jan 21, 2005 1:48 am


xdarktigress
Then it wouldn't really be pain in a sense because they'd be enjoying it. Perhaps they want physical pain, however, they wouldn't truely be suffering because to suffer is to experience something you wish to avoid or is harmful to your personal well being.


Take me for example! I LOVE pain...

>.>
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Yes, I DO happen to be a masochist...
PostPosted: Fri Jan 21, 2005 9:41 am


A Murder of Angels
xdarktigress
Then it wouldn't really be pain in a sense because they'd be enjoying it. Perhaps they want physical pain, however, they wouldn't truely be suffering because to suffer is to experience something you wish to avoid or is harmful to your personal well being.


Take me for example! I LOVE pain...

>.>
<.<
Yes, I DO happen to be a masochist...

Then come and see me for my ultimate deep tissue massage! It hurts so good.

...
I'm kidding. I don't hurt everyone, but I do have really strong hands and if I'm not careful or paying attention I can give a leeettle too much pressure...
sweatdrop

Lady Purplepants


Domira Koreyne

PostPosted: Fri Jan 21, 2005 10:03 am


A Murder of Angels
xdarktigress
Then it wouldn't really be pain in a sense because they'd be enjoying it. Perhaps they want physical pain, however, they wouldn't truely be suffering because to suffer is to experience something you wish to avoid or is harmful to your personal well being.


Take me for example! I LOVE pain...

>.>
<.<
Yes, I DO happen to be a masochist...

mmmm. pain is good. tho there are also bad types of pain, like soul/heart pain.
back on topic here, is you love someone but leave them alone because they dont love you, and you watch them hook up with somone else and get married and be happy, would the reward of seeing someone you loved be happy override the pain of letting them go??
PostPosted: Fri Jan 21, 2005 12:26 pm


Domira Koreyne
back on topic here, is you love someone but leave them alone because they dont love you, and you watch them hook up with somone else and get married and be happy, would the reward of seeing someone you loved be happy override the pain of letting them go??


That's a paradoxical question. Personally, I woudn't let someone go before I made sure they knew how I felt and that I know how they feel in return. THEN if they don't love me, I'd let them go and hope I'd be able to get over it.

A Murder of Angels
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chaoticpuppet
Crew

PostPosted: Fri Jan 21, 2005 1:02 pm


Domira Koreyne
A Murder of Angels
xdarktigress
Then it wouldn't really be pain in a sense because they'd be enjoying it. Perhaps they want physical pain, however, they wouldn't truely be suffering because to suffer is to experience something you wish to avoid or is harmful to your personal well being.


Take me for example! I LOVE pain...

>.>
<.<
Yes, I DO happen to be a masochist...

mmmm. pain is good. tho there are also bad types of pain, like soul/heart pain.
back on topic here, is you love someone but leave them alone because they dont love you, and you watch them hook up with somone else and get married and be happy, would the reward of seeing someone you loved be happy override the pain of letting them go??

The reward may be the avoidance of greater pain.
PostPosted: Fri Jan 21, 2005 8:36 pm


chaoticpuppet
Domira Koreyne

back on topic here, if you love someone but leave them alone because they dont love you, and you watch them hook up with somone else and get married and be happy, would the reward of seeing someone you loved be happy override the pain of letting them go??

The reward may be the avoidance of greater pain.

This is a loaded question, and I believe it would have to be answered on a case by case basis, really. There are too many variables, such as one partner's fear of loving an unstable person, and breaking up to end up with someone more stable but whom they couldn't love the same way. Or a person convincing themself that they are still in love with the same person, and always will be and never be able to get over them, and angst angst angst, when the truth is that they don't want to admit to themself that they put so much time and energy into a relationship that was doomed from the start. It's easier to be angsty than it is to admit you were wrong in the first place.

So, I can't give a universal answer to this question.

Lady Purplepants


Libidinal Catharsis

PostPosted: Sun Jan 23, 2005 1:26 am


chaoticpuppet, you really need to do some research on Objectivism and Ayn Rand. She held a believe very similar to yours which she called "rational self interest." I don't believe in the actual philosophy for many reasons, mainly two:

1) It has become too much of a cult since Rand's death, when Peikoff took it over, and
2) Rand knew and even admitted to knowing very little about psychology, therefore her philosophy has holes in it where she tries to replace emotion with logic. But logic is hollow where emotion is not. Because of this, logic cannot replace emotion as she believes.

Her literature is quite good, however, not because of her philosophy or her writing style, but because of her unique characters and story lines (which were both controversial for her time period). I reccommend Anthem, as it was the best written and the least blown out of proportion with Objectivism. Here is a link to the book. It's really rather short.

http://personal.nbnet.nb.ca/mcnally/anthem/index.html

Here is a link to the official Ayn Rand Institute:

http://www.aynrand.org/site/PageServer

And here is a link to an interesting page with thoughts opposing the philosophy:

http://www.jeffcomp.com/faq/index.html

I urge you to check it out.

A Murder of Angels
xdarktigress
Then it wouldn't really be pain in a sense because they'd be enjoying it. Perhaps they want physical pain, however, they wouldn't truely be suffering because to suffer is to experience something you wish to avoid or is harmful to your personal well being.


Take me for example! I LOVE pain...

>.>
<.<
Yes, I DO happen to be a masochist...


Wow...

That's actually kinda...

I dunno...

Sexy! Lol. sweatdrop
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