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 Posted: Sun Feb 15, 2009 7:32 pm
I have a right to be bitter. This is the second time she's done something like this to me. I guess I didn't learn the first time...
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Posted: Sun Feb 15, 2009 8:00 pm
Am I the only one in this guild in a relationship? xD
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Posted: Sun Feb 15, 2009 8:02 pm
Gorrific Am I the only one in this guild in a relationship? xD You are now. Congratulations.
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Posted: Sun Feb 15, 2009 8:56 pm
Dark_Mana Sorry to hear that Gnarl. *hug*
I've only ever had one boyfriend who dumped me without telling me, though told all his friends while I was abroad. When I came back I heard it from one of his friends and phoned him up. He refused to talk about the real reason, just saying that "I need to be alone" or some crap like that. Thanks to that I became bitter, even more depressed, untrusting towards men and hateful towards myself. That was 1 year and 7 months ago. How lame am I? confused
Going out yesterday was a mistake as well, my engaged friend got hit on by multiple men. Eventhough she tried to show off her ring, only when her boyfriend came to ask what the problem was did they go away. Stuff like this makes me feel ugly and unwanted. guys are assholes. sounds like you already learned that lesson, but i'm just reminding you. hollow - guys dont take hints. subtle, obvious, whatever. you need to smack him and go "I. DONT. LIKE. YOU." and then he'll probably STILL chase after you. we're dumbasses like that
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Posted: Sun Feb 15, 2009 11:24 pm
I dont want to hurt his feelings or pride. The whole "not responding to your text messages" and "ignoring you asking me to lunch/dinner 5 times a day" I thought might have been enough. It just gets creepy when he finds me sometimes though....
I get messages like "Nice shades" or something like that. gonk
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Posted: Mon Feb 16, 2009 12:24 am
My Hollow I dont want to hurt his feelings or pride. The whole "not responding to your text messages" and "ignoring you asking me to lunch/dinner 5 times a day" I thought might have been enough. It just gets creepy when he finds me sometimes though.... I get messages like "Nice shades" or something like that. gonk speaking logically, that should be enough. however, that does NOT work. ever. males do not take hints. we do not pick up on subtleties. even if you think the hint is an obvious one, it won't be noticed. we are oblivious, and the best course of action is always to just come right out and say what you feel around us. we're not gonna get it any other way.
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Posted: Mon Feb 16, 2009 12:44 am
LOL, it's not just guys, I tell you. I've been to a party on Saturday where there was this girl who has some crush on one guy for a few years now. He told her openly no, but... well... she keeps on trying... Poor girl...
Although in fact guys have a harder time understanding things, I agree.
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Posted: Mon Feb 16, 2009 2:34 am
MegaTherion777 guys are assholes. sounds like you already learned that lesson, but i'm just reminding you.
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Posted: Mon Feb 16, 2009 3:05 am
Dark_Mana MegaTherion777 guys are assholes. sounds like you already learned that lesson, but i'm just reminding you. while it's possible that the "nice guys" aren't interested in you, there is another explanation. many of these nice guys are actually fairly shy around girls. true story: there's a guy who we shall call joe. joe's a nice guy. he's fairly normal, socially speaking - a little bit introverted, but he has both male and female friends. however, for some reason, joe is low in confidence. thus, while he may be interested in a girl, he lacks the confidence to pursue that interest any further. however, when a girl displays interest in joe, he responds, and quickly finds himself in a relationship that lasts almost two years. you don't necessarily have to approach one of these guys and ask him out, but if there is a nice guy who you happen to be interested in, perhaps you should find some way to show that you're interested.
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Posted: Mon Feb 16, 2009 3:52 am
MegaTherion777 while it's possible that the "nice guys" aren't interested in you, there is another explanation. many of these nice guys are actually fairly shy around girls. true story: there's a guy who we shall call joe. joe's a nice guy. he's fairly normal, socially speaking - a little bit introverted, but he has both male and female friends. however, for some reason, joe is low in confidence. thus, while he may be interested in a girl, he lacks the confidence to pursue that interest any further. however, when a girl displays interest in joe, he responds, and quickly finds himself in a relationship that lasts almost two years. you don't necessarily have to approach one of these guys and ask him out, but if there is a nice guy who you happen to be interested in, perhaps you should find some way to show that you're interested.
I'm not currently interested in anyone, since, well I haven't been anywhere (ie the heavy metal club) to meet anyone I might like. Oh well, whatever.
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Posted: Mon Feb 16, 2009 4:22 am
Dark_Mana MegaTherion777 while it's possible that the "nice guys" aren't interested in you, there is another explanation. many of these nice guys are actually fairly shy around girls. true story: there's a guy who we shall call joe. joe's a nice guy. he's fairly normal, socially speaking - a little bit introverted, but he has both male and female friends. however, for some reason, joe is low in confidence. thus, while he may be interested in a girl, he lacks the confidence to pursue that interest any further. however, when a girl displays interest in joe, he responds, and quickly finds himself in a relationship that lasts almost two years. you don't necessarily have to approach one of these guys and ask him out, but if there is a nice guy who you happen to be interested in, perhaps you should find some way to show that you're interested.
I'm not currently interested in anyone, since, well I haven't been anywhere (ie the heavy metal club) to meet anyone I might like. Oh well, whatever.well if you're not interested in anyone, would it make a difference whether one of your nice guys displayed any interest in you? and joe is a composite of several people - that's why it's a general outline and isnt very specific, because their general cases were the same, though the specifics were all different.
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Posted: Mon Feb 16, 2009 10:56 am
definitely summed up my love life. except the two years. i've still only kissed one person and she pretty much chased me in the beginning.
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Posted: Mon Feb 16, 2009 11:55 am
I don't get it, you guys really would be surprised by the number of females that would respond positivley to your wooing.
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Posted: Mon Feb 16, 2009 12:18 pm
More often than not, they don't interest us because they would respond positively. We find it neccessary to make it difficult by going after the ones that don't want us. Rather self-destructive, we are.
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Posted: Mon Feb 16, 2009 12:44 pm
My Hollow I don't get it, you guys really would be surprised by the number of females that would respond positivley to your wooing. this is true, but on the other hand y'all can be an intimidating lot. to a guy who lacks in confidence (even just a little bit), taking the step to actually let her know you're interested can seem like climbing a mountain. a tall mountain. like, himalayas-tall. and then, if you're fairly good friends before hand, not only do you worry about the possibility of rejection, but you worry about making everything all awkward and ruining the friendship. which is like climbing the himalayas without equipment. but on the other hand, when you finally work up the stones to do it, and she doesnt reject you, but instead reacts positively, it's friggin awesome. mrgreen
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