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 Posted: Wed Nov 02, 2005 8:25 am
Many think there can only be one, because in most countries, the ones coming to my mind, only allow 2 people to be in one marriage, which would mean you marry someone heterosexual, or someone homosexual, according to them.
To those of us who are not limiting by religion or 'standards', we see that there are any number of possibilities. We do not limit by one gender between two, or even from three. We can see the beauty of all genders and be attracted just the same to all sides equally.
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Posted: Wed Nov 09, 2005 5:37 pm
Gincho ok ..im BI and im just gonna say it plain and simple ok ...u cant like both of them equally...u either like one more or thats it no if and or buts about it..and u cant say no i like them both the same cuz its bull Um, no. Because of people like you, I have tried and tried for almost a decade to figure out whether I like men or women better. I. Like. Them. Equally. And who the ******** are you to tell me it's impossible? The world is not limited by your imagination. If people can be attracted to both genders, they can be attracted to both genders equally.
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Posted: Thu Nov 10, 2005 4:58 am
I'm going to have to agree with La Veuve on that one. At one point or another, people who are bi do like them both equally, but because of past hurts, abuse, neglect and other things, everyone will eventually lean more towards one than the other. I have my dislike of both sexes at times and don't want to be bothered, but this last year I did not like either one more, because that would be ridiculous. That'd be like saying "Oh I love my firstborn son better than my third born daughter and my other children". Not everyone is the same, just because most lean towards males or females more, doesn't mean everybody else does. You can't judge for everyone just by what you've seen more of. Think of it as if you have two colors you love, like mine, red and blue, I look better in blue dresses and blue clothes, but that doesn't mean I like it more and I really don't care what I look better in but still. Compare things more often, don't just go sprouting off stuff because you think you know it all.
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Posted: Sun Jan 15, 2006 12:36 pm
It makes me mad that people think you can't like both men and women.
I don't understand why someone would think that.
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Posted: Sun Jan 22, 2006 1:50 am
I've been reading for awhile and it seems to me that we all have similiar beliefs. Some may differ but not in a tremendous way. I am bi and do believe that it is a true orientation. As for the other dispute of liking them equally I can't really say. My feelings sexually lean towards males but apon reading a previous post I think it would be due to all the pain and crap I put up with girls(no offense ladies, I know all girls aren't like that). At a certain point, yes I did like them equally. But my simple minded analysis is this. Basically if you can have sex with both genders or have urges whether acted apon or not then bisexuality is a true orientation/preference/lifestyle. Now I'm sure someone is going to dispute that you may have the ability to have sex with someone of the same gender but not enjoy it. I understand that view but my opinion is that if you TRULY aren't attracted to that particular gender then it would be impossible...emotionally and mentally for you to participate in the sexual encounter even if you could do it physically.
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Posted: Sat Feb 04, 2006 1:47 pm
( I'll post in this one because I didn't find the other one. )
My mum thinks bisexuals are just confused; " Bisexuals are just gays who haven't come out about it yet." I guess in some ways she is right, look at Elton John and George Michael. Both bisexuals in the 70's and 80's ( I believe ) but as the years went on more and more men came into their lives until they came out saying they are gay.
For me, my sexuality has been all over the map, straight, bisexual, lesbian, neutral to unsure now. So, I guess it depends on the people who know, the experiences you've grown up with and what you truely believe is to be right.
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Posted: Fri Feb 10, 2006 5:29 am
I understand the point everyone is saying, but I don't really think of sexuality as just those categories. For me, I think that it's a lot more complicated than that. From my own experience and listening to others, it flows and changes. (And I'm not trying to say that you're all wrong). My thought that it is leaning one way or another, but most people do lie somewhere in the middle, perhaps even directly. And it isn't really about who you want to have sex with. That's only one part of sexuality.
Of course, this is all just my experience, so it may look totally different under someone else's perspective. That's where I think all of the argument comes in. So, I will say that being bi is a true orientation, but I'm not really sure we should be labelling ourselves. All I know is that I like girls, and if one must label me I would say lesbian only because I lean heavier on women. But if things were my way, I wouldn't have any labels at all.
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Posted: Tue Feb 14, 2006 7:32 pm
I'd have to agree that bisexuality is more oriented towards one gender in most cases. Bisexuals, while finding both genders sexually attractive, you will normally find you prefer one gender to another. Personally, I find the majority of males to actually not be atractive, and I strongly prefer girls. However, there are some guys that come around that I want to do very bad dirty things with. So, yes, I'm mostly lez, but I wouldn't hesitate if Mike asked me out. smile
Oh yes, I also forgot to mention that Mike is the hottest guy in existence. Even the straightest, most homophobic man could see that.
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Posted: Wed Feb 15, 2006 5:43 pm
It is possible to be bisexual, but everyone has their number 1 preference. I'll relate it to ice cream. Someone can like vanilla and chocolate, it's perfectly acceptable, but there's always one that you like better than the other. So I believe that people can like both genders, but in most cases one does tend to have more of a liking for one than the other.
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Posted: Fri Feb 17, 2006 3:31 pm
I can't say that I'm truely bisexual, but I'd have to say that it depends on the situation some people are in. I believe that a person born around more then one of the same gender might begin to prefer them more then the other, if they become Bisexual.
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Posted: Fri Mar 03, 2006 9:21 am
Bisexuality is a way of life. When you have a liking for both, you do tend to like one more than the other, but that's just human nature. Everyone has a favorite i. e. Best friend, ice cream and TV show. Additionally one can't just pick one over the other because that's just human nature. Just imagine having two best friends and one had to die to let the other live. No one can pick just one.
Even when I go to restaurants, I ask if I can have both vanilla and chocolate ice cream together cause that's the way I am. I like chocolate more, as do like guys more. That's just me, even thought right now I have a girlfriend.
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Posted: Mon Mar 06, 2006 4:38 pm
Well it is definitly a sexuality but sometimes it can be defined as both. Right now I am uber confused, I'm an 18 year old female and bisexual. I have a current bf and a strong attraction to females as well. I think men are very attractive and pretty to look at, but girls when I'm around them I get giddy.
I know that if my bf left me now I wouldn't want to be with a guy. So I'm not sure if I'm bi or a lesbian who's attached. I mean it's not like I have no sexual feelings for men, but it - for me - is a much more pleasurable feeling to be with women (as I recently experienced.)
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Posted: Wed Mar 08, 2006 9:18 pm
i am bi and i go through times were ill just care about girls and forget about guys. but other times ill forget about girls and just think about guys. not always that drastic but i dont like them equally at the same time. so some times you could round me off as str8 and others gay as a 3 doller bill.
(now i am dating like the hottist girl in like the state so i havent thought about guys lately but like 9 weeks ago i was in my bacement making out with my friend and loving it {zack, a guy} so i dont know if you all go through diff times like me but thats how i am.)
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Posted: Mon Mar 13, 2006 1:41 pm
I really don't have much of an opinion about this, because I don't usually argue about sexuality around anyone I know. I go to an all-guy school, so its usually just a group(a small one though. thank god!) of preppy spoiled brats making fun of gay ppl. since all of the posts I bothered to read said they were bisexual or other, I consider myself bi-curious. why do I say that? long story,and I don't want to say right now b/c of my short attention span(lol).
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Posted: Tue May 09, 2006 12:11 pm
The very nature of bisexuality is liking both genders, correct? Thus, one can like both women and men, but women a bit more, and still be bisexual, at least in my opinion. Closed-minded people are the ones who say that you have to be "one way or the other." There are very few things in life with two polar opposites as the only possibilities, and most of them relate to food.
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