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 Posted: Thu Sep 04, 2008 3:20 am
Lolita Princess Amanda Crystal Orchid Lolita Princess Amanda and please don't mention costumes because it's on halloween, this is a very important day to me and I want it taken very seriously
When I first introduced lolita to my mother, her initial impression was that I intended to wear costumes every day of my life, and who could blame her, really? For those unknown to the style, seeing lolita on the street in the US is something far from our comfort zone of low-cut blouses, baggy pants, and anything else that covers our thighs without a bell shape. Sometimes, I just need to step back as a lolita and really look at what I'm getting into -- it is not something that everyone can accept and move on, but something that I choose to pursue.
What I'm saying is that by having your wedding, an extremely wonderful day of your life, be lolita themed and celebrating it on Halloween might give you geusts (or anybody, in truth) the wrong impression of your true intentions.well all my family and friends know I'm into japanese street fashion, or well japanese everything for that matter and my mother loves lolita clothes, cause they are elegant and femine. I was thinking of telling everyone it's victorian but I'm affraid that still isn't going to help at all. I might just sit all the guests down and explain it to them in person. But I honestly don't know anyone who thinks Lolita looks like a costume here O.o... thats kind of odd to hear honestly.
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Posted: Thu Sep 04, 2008 7:13 pm
Lolita Princess Amanda Shyao_Sorceress congratulations! wow, you have about a little over a month before your wedding! busy girl! My fiance and I are getting married next July 4th. We're very excited. It will not be Lolita-themed, however, my going away suit will be lolita outifts! xd I am so looking forward to it. congrats and you should see our stag and doe stuff, it's a japanese festival theme lol Thank you. smile oh will it? Then i must see it! You must post pictures once your wedding is done.
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Posted: Fri Sep 05, 2008 11:17 am
Shyao_Sorceress Lolita Princess Amanda Shyao_Sorceress congratulations! wow, you have about a little over a month before your wedding! busy girl! My fiance and I are getting married next July 4th. We're very excited. It will not be Lolita-themed, however, my going away suit will be lolita outifts! xd I am so looking forward to it. congrats and you should see our stag and doe stuff, it's a japanese festival theme lol Thank you. smile oh will it? Then i must see it! You must post pictures once your wedding is done. lol got it, LOTS of pics heart
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Posted: Fri Sep 05, 2008 4:46 pm
Sounds like it will be absolutly beautiful!
Best of luck in your married life! smile
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Posted: Sat Sep 06, 2008 11:18 am
Lolita Princess Amanda Shyao_Sorceress Lolita Princess Amanda Shyao_Sorceress congratulations! wow, you have about a little over a month before your wedding! busy girl! My fiance and I are getting married next July 4th. We're very excited. It will not be Lolita-themed, however, my going away suit will be lolita outifts! xd I am so looking forward to it. congrats and you should see our stag and doe stuff, it's a japanese festival theme lol Thank you. smile oh will it? Then i must see it! You must post pictures once your wedding is done. lol got it, LOTS of pics heart wonderful. I look forward to it
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Posted: Sat Sep 06, 2008 8:02 pm
AerisYunaTifaRikku Sounds like it will be absolutly beautiful!
Best of luck in your married life! smile thank you very much heart
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Posted: Thu Sep 11, 2008 6:00 pm
Lolita Princess Amanda AerisYunaTifaRikku Sounds like it will be absolutly beautiful!
Best of luck in your married life! smile thank you very much heart
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Posted: Sat Sep 13, 2008 5:58 am
well since its halloween, have a elegant gothic lolita wedding!
and the colors could be black and orange. 3nodding
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Arkhangel Hamatiel Zuriel
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Posted: Mon Sep 15, 2008 5:22 pm
Arkhangel Hamatiel Zuriel well since its halloween, have a elegant gothic lolita wedding! and the colors could be black and orange. 3nodding  surprised I like the idea...
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Posted: Tue Sep 16, 2008 2:47 pm
Hyped up TeaCup Congratulations! : D If I were you, I wouldn't bother going around to everyone to explain lolita to them. Some may not fully understand, they might even feel uncomfortable. Just tell them it's victorian themed and they'll get the picture ^^; I'd really like to see your dress. Sounds adorable.
i agree! congrats on the wedding and i bet your dress is beautiful! 4laugh
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Posted: Wed Sep 17, 2008 12:23 pm
So when you're having a Lolita wedding, what exactly does that entail? Is the Bridal Party wearing Lolita fashions, or just you? You and the groom? Are you wanting your guests to dress in Lolita fashion, because that is not a very feasible idea really.
If it's just going to be what you're wearing or the Bridal Party, then you can create a small pamphlet to hand out to your guests the day of the ceremony. You can explain a little about Lolita fashion and why you chose to incorporate it, and then have another small section explaining the origin and symbolism of the hand-fastening, and any other unique things you might be doing.
I have two friends who got married in May, and they did this to explain their own hand-fastening. Their booklets also included a poem one had written for the other, and a blessing that we all recited during the ceremony. It helps people who don't know the ins and outs of what you're doing feel included, and makes a wonderful keepsake of the day. (Plus, guests love them because it gives them something to read and chit-chat about while they're waiting for the ceremony to start! mrgreen )
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Posted: Sat Sep 27, 2008 9:47 pm
Instead of stating its on "Halloween Night" or such, why not say All Hallow's Eve? This is suppose to be an important day, so perhaps you could do a little research on the subject unless you honestly just want to do it on Halloween because you like the Americanized holiday form. o.O;
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Posted: Mon Sep 29, 2008 8:30 am
Lolita Princess Amanda So I get married on halloween this year heart and we wanted to have a lolita wedding but it's hard to explain that to our guests any ideas/suggetions for the wedding and please don't mention costumes because it's on halloween, this is a very important day to me and I want it taken very seriously O____O ;;; on...Halloween. well.. The guys could wear boylolita and the girls could wear gothiclolita. Except the brides maids could wear sweet lolita.
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