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 Posted: Sat Oct 01, 2005 7:09 pm
I would stay in school as well as look into schools made for people in your situation. You will be able to provide for your child much better if you have an education therefor helping you to provide your child with as much as you can. Also keep inmind that if you stick this out it will make you a stronger person and if your kid ever trys to drop out you would have a good argument to keep them in.
You don't always truly understand how important education is untill it's too late so stick with it and if ever it is possible try and go to college and get that teaching job you want. But if that is not possible you need to atleast finish high school despite how it may look you getting an education is whats best for your child right now it gives you the means to care and provide.
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Posted: Mon Oct 03, 2005 1:31 pm
Yeah, being a mother at 16 is tough, hell it's a world in it's self. Though you have to stay strong and keep your mind set-forward. Yeah, there might be challenges and depression, but if you fall to your knees, how will the baby feel when she is 16. You'll need the money to take her to places where her heart desires, you'll need and education to help her and you'll need it so you can get a career. Don't be selfish and find the BEST way out of this problem, not the most convient.
Though your hopes and dreams might of been killed...though there is ALWAYS room for more!
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Posted: Tue Oct 04, 2005 6:30 am
Absolutly Not im a senior and about a month ago i found out i was pregnet.. i had the same worries but i lost mine on labor day.. i dropped out because i couldnt handle the pain of seeing sympathy in everyones eyes.. im going to start at scc for high school students and i have a full time job and i want my baby back.. but guess what i never should have dropped out.. that was my biggest mistake.. you only have a little bit longer girl just hang on you can do it.. i realize your baby is more important but so is the life you can give your baby with a career instead of a job.. just think of the future!!!!!!!! God bless your baby and you.. i hope u make the right decisions.
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Posted: Tue Oct 04, 2005 9:38 am
Not abortion adoption. I know this is not what you want to hear. But It might be a good Idea. You can put down that you want contact with your child and wouldn't it be better for your child to have parents that can devote 100% their time to it. Or she can live with a Temp family.
the Fact is that there is no option that will be painless
It is not an easy choice but it should be considered. You need school. If you finish high school you can at least find a good job to take care of her then.
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Posted: Sun Oct 09, 2005 8:27 pm
Your baby is absolutely beautiful.
If you choose to stay in school, it may be hard to deal with challenges and whatnot, however, the consequences will be more likely good than bad.
I hope you find it in your heart to do what's best for the both of you. heart
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