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 Posted: Mon Sep 01, 2008 2:46 pm
it depends, but i think that if someone is truly your friend, they'll take you for who you are. i haven't officially come out, but i do some stuff that makes it obvious that i'm not straight. i told a freind of mine that i was bi, and i thought that would be the only person i'd tell. well, one day, i was talkign to my friend abt this show, The L Word [which is basically about a group of lesbians, oy] and this friend of mine was like "God, Carla, are you a lesbian?" or something like that. well, it was like the millionth time she'd asked me, and with a bunch of other ppl there, i was like "halfway" and i kept talking to my friend. like, half of the ppl's eyes bulged out of their heads, and i was ambushed with questions. i still managed to not tell some ppl, but the chick that i was talking to abt that show fixed that. we were having lunch during summer school, and she was going over the ppl that had come out [oddly, almost half of my friends seem to be not straight] and she's like "first was ____, second was ___, and third was Carla..." well, my heart stopped and i was like "wtf?!" and almost everyone choked on their lunch, and she's like "Well, wasn't it you?" and i'm like "well, i guess now!!!" and i was upset, and everyone just stared at me and was like "what?!" and some ppl were grossed out or something, and this one guy was upset cos i didn't tell him. ...so yea, long story, but that's not even my whole circle of friends yet, and i haven't even touched coming out to my family... so i guess it depends. but i think things go more smoothly if you say it and let them ask questions. if you're outed, or if you seem embarassed, it can make things worse. i screwed things up by backing down when i tried coming out to my mum, but i was afraid that i'd get kicked out of the house. anyway, follow your instict i guess, and be careful... =]
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Posted: Fri Sep 05, 2008 4:34 am
My only family member that know is my cousan cynthia, I can;t tell famil because my mom says bis are freaks that wanna be different and wanna be piced on. She could live if I were Gay or straight, but not if I were bi. Then she added once again that bis are freaks and she could live if I were gay or straight but not bi.
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