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 Posted: Tue Mar 25, 2008 4:31 pm
MangaJoe WELL IT JUST GOT WEIRDER!! Well I'd been talking to my friend Alisa... she'd been helping me build up my confidence to tell Emily, and well... after all this, Alisa breaks down and tells me she loves me. eek WOW!!! That is how it works sometimes. wow, this alisa is a good friend and cares about you alot if she is willing to help you tell emily how you feel when all the long she had feelings for you. What a tangle web of emotion. so, what are your feelings for Alisa? and how did you respond to her? (This is like a movie or tv show except real life. ) you are a fortunate guy to have some great women in your life, if only it wasn't so complicated.
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Posted: Tue Mar 25, 2008 8:16 pm
I was in a situation like that... except I was trying to help the guy I had a huge crush on get with my best friend who is literally perfect, lol.
Like, she was asked by Disney to apply to be a Disney princess, and she's turning it down this year to work an internship for a church, lol.
But yeah, that kind of thing... ahh... to be young again.
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Posted: Wed Mar 26, 2008 10:54 pm
funkyvixen416 MangaJoe WELL IT JUST GOT WEIRDER!! Well I'd been talking to my friend Alisa... she'd been helping me build up my confidence to tell Emily, and well... after all this, Alisa breaks down and tells me she loves me. eek WOW!!! That is how it works sometimes. wow, this alisa is a good friend and cares about you alot if she is willing to help you tell emily how you feel when all the long she had feelings for you. What a tangle web of emotion. so, what are your feelings for Alisa? and how did you respond to her? (This is like a movie or tv show except real life. ) you are a fortunate guy to have some great women in your life, if only it wasn't so complicated. It's hard to say, I had a crush on Alisa for a while.... but that was a while ago. Me and Alisa have been friends for nearly 2 years, we've never met in person though... but at the same time we've shared a lot of secrets that we'd hardly share with anyone else. I dunno, it's a really estranged relationship between me and Alisa... I mean part of me says I could love her still, but being so far from each other makes things hard for me... I have a bad history with long distance relationships too. I didn't know what to say... I was shocked... Alisa is a very loud, confident, controlling.... I dunno, she's a, this is going to be taken the wrong way, but she's an erratic b***h. She never shows any weakness, always loud perverse and angry at the world. She's a really good person though despite her rough edges, she's a sweet girl that's pushed me to actually having confidence. I dunno, I also feel a little awkward that I used to like her alot... but she's 3 years older than me, I'm still a kid and she's a woman working on a culinary degree. I mean at the same time that she's more mature than me she's also just as anti social and alone... never drinks, parties, or smokes or anything like that... she's only been in one relationship and it never went anywhere. She's hard for me to understand though, she's always insulting, but at the same time it's because she's so afraid of appearing vulnerable. She's just hard to understand... but she's always been a good friend. confused Iunno, just starting to confuse myself... I mean I feel strongly for Emily because she's the first girl I've ever fallen for that seems to really accept me for the nut case I am. I dunno how I should feel right now about Alisa though, she's the psychotic b***h that actually made me grow a pair. eek Life is weird...
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Posted: Thu Mar 27, 2008 10:36 am
It's a great feeling to hear someone say she likes you, isn't it? But I would recommend against going out with her unless you like her back--and it sounds like you don't. Even if you used to, you don't anymore.
You probably weren't considering going out with her, but I thought I'd just make my opinion known because I'm nosy. :p
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Posted: Thu Mar 27, 2008 12:41 pm
Well it's not like me and Alisa could even go out even if I wanted too... heh, she kinda lives in another state now. sweatdrop
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Posted: Thu Mar 27, 2008 12:46 pm
MangaJoe funkyvixen416 MangaJoe WELL IT JUST GOT WEIRDER!! Well I'd been talking to my friend Alisa... she'd been helping me build up my confidence to tell Emily, and well... after all this, Alisa breaks down and tells me she loves me. eek WOW!!! That is how it works sometimes. wow, this alisa is a good friend and cares about you alot if she is willing to help you tell emily how you feel when all the long she had feelings for you. What a tangle web of emotion. so, what are your feelings for Alisa? and how did you respond to her? (This is like a movie or tv show except real life. ) you are a fortunate guy to have some great women in your life, if only it wasn't so complicated. It's hard to say, I had a crush on Alisa for a while.... but that was a while ago. Me and Alisa have been friends for nearly 2 years, we've never met in person though... but at the same time we've shared a lot of secrets that we'd hardly share with anyone else. I dunno, it's a really estranged relationship between me and Alisa... I mean part of me says I could love her still, but being so far from each other makes things hard for me... I have a bad history with long distance relationships too. I didn't know what to say... I was shocked... Alisa is a very loud, confident, controlling.... I dunno, she's a, this is going to be taken the wrong way, but she's an erratic b***h. She never shows any weakness, always loud perverse and angry at the world. She's a really good person though despite her rough edges, she's a sweet girl that's pushed me to actually having confidence. I dunno, I also feel a little awkward that I used to like her alot... but she's 3 years older than me, I'm still a kid and she's a woman working on a culinary degree. I mean at the same time that she's more mature than me she's also just as anti social and alone... never drinks, parties, or smokes or anything like that... she's only been in one relationship and it never went anywhere. She's hard for me to understand though, she's always insulting, but at the same time it's because she's so afraid of appearing vulnerable. She's just hard to understand... but she's always been a good friend. confused Iunno, just starting to confuse myself... I mean I feel strongly for Emily because she's the first girl I've ever fallen for that seems to really accept me for the nut case I am. I dunno how I should feel right now about Alisa though, she's the psychotic b***h that actually made me grow a pair. eek Life is weird... yes life is weird and it gets weirder. so you have strong feelings for Emily but it is not reciprocated and another girl, Alisa, has feelings for you but those feelings are no longer reciprocated. Its like the last pieces of a puzzle but none seem to fit. Hmm well, it seems as though either A. you could wait for Emily to come around which i doubt. B. Date Alisa but only if you still like her. Though the long distance sounds crappy. How long distance, like Canada far or like 2hrs away? C. Move on and let the next girl walk into your life, the one who won't be long distance or be an "erratic b*tch" and has mutual feelings for you. Keep me updated.
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Posted: Thu Mar 27, 2008 1:15 pm
I always forget what state Alisa is in, but I know she's on the east coast, placing her at an hour difference in time zone compared to me. I live in Arkansas... other words she's not driving distance.
Well I want to wait a while before just moving on, I mean I know it's more than likely a bad idea, but something tells me Emily might come around... I dunno, I don't want to just move on, it's only been a few days since I told her, I know plenty of girls that said just friends when I asked them out and then later got asked out by them. sweatdrop Seriously it's happened 4 times... so, maybe if I'm lucky Emily will come around if I look at my weird luck.
I'm not entirely closed to the idea of seeing if there's anything still there between me and Alisa, she's a truly wonderful girl, a little cranky, but we always have fun when we talk and she doesn't speak way over my head... I'm not the brightest crayon in the knife drawer if you get my drift.
There are actually plenty of options in just moving on, I mean I don't want to sound chauvinist... but there are a few girls that are nice that are fairly interested in me. There's Mirena the Russian girl from work... she's super nice, but extremely physical; friendly back rub makes me uncomfortable!! There's flirting and then there's groping... she wants me. eek I'm just trying to put a kind of funny spin on things, helps me get through it with less trouble... ugh, times like this I wonder why I keep high standards, they just lead to a harsher blow when the good girl says no. Why is it bad girls want me?!
This would be funnier if I weren't the victim of over 6 drunk girl calls this semester. It get's too weird, I mean, sure I like to make friends... sure I'll swap numbers, but please don't call me the day you met me asking me to snuggle with you while your drunk! eek
Sometimes I wish my life were as boring as it sounds... I mean how much trouble can a guy who does not a single substance, is a complete virgin, and refuses to party get into?
Maybe I should write a book.
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Posted: Thu Mar 27, 2008 9:31 pm
MangaJoe I always forget what state Alisa is in, but I know she's on the east coast, placing her at an hour difference in time zone compared to me. I live in Arkansas... other words she's not driving distance. Well I want to wait a while before just moving on, I mean I know it's more than likely a bad idea, but something tells me Emily might come around... I dunno, I don't want to just move on, it's only been a few days since I told her, I know plenty of girls that said just friends when I asked them out and then later got asked out by them. sweatdrop Seriously it's happened 4 times... so, maybe if I'm lucky Emily will come around if I look at my weird luck. I'm not entirely closed to the idea of seeing if there's anything still there between me and Alisa, she's a truly wonderful girl, a little cranky, but we always have fun when we talk and she doesn't speak way over my head... I'm not the brightest crayon in the knife drawer if you get my drift. There are actually plenty of options in just moving on, I mean I don't want to sound chauvinist... but there are a few girls that are nice that are fairly interested in me. There's Mirena the Russian girl from work... she's super nice, but extremely physical; friendly back rub makes me uncomfortable!! There's flirting and then there's groping... she wants me. eek I'm just trying to put a kind of funny spin on things, helps me get through it with less trouble... ugh, times like this I wonder why I keep high standards, they just lead to a harsher blow when the good girl says no. Why is it bad girls want me?! This would be funnier if I weren't the victim of over 6 drunk girl calls this semester. It get's too weird, I mean, sure I like to make friends... sure I'll swap numbers, but please don't call me the day you met me asking me to snuggle with you while your drunk! eek Sometimes I wish my life were as boring as it sounds... I mean how much trouble can a guy who does not a single substance, is a complete virgin, and refuses to party get into? Maybe I should write a book. Well that is probably the attraction. Cute, Untouched, unspoiled, and ohh soo corruptible. Every dirty girl's fantasy. " Let's Molest the sweet boy and make him squirm, hehe. whee " So let's focus on emily for the moment. Hmm yeah, i think you need a few more days. It is possible she might come around or possibly not, but i still think you should keep your eyes open. So with that then i guess you can only have her come to you. i just dont want you to wait around for something that might not happen, since you seem like such a great guy and it sounds like there a ton of girls wanting to take her place.
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Posted: Thu Mar 27, 2008 11:28 pm
Just one month, I want to go an entire month without any girls really deeply coming into my life... I know that's a long time. I really feel something strong for Emily though, I know it's crazy, I know it's stupid... but love... love is reason to abuse yourself in some strange way. sad I don't really know what to say...
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Posted: Thu Mar 27, 2008 11:36 pm
MangaJoe Just one month, I want to go an entire month without any girls really deeply coming into my life... I know that's a long time. I really feel something strong for Emily though, I know it's crazy, I know it's stupid... but love... love is reason to abuse yourself in some strange way. sad I don't really know what to say... Love is stupid and crazy, Its understandable. But i think you have the right thoughts about a waiting a month, its not a long time. three months, that could be relatively a long time. Keep me updated
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Posted: Fri Mar 28, 2008 12:53 am
Don't worry, I'm posting regularly... I'm not the most concise person in the world. Anyway, I dunno, just 3 more weeks after this Sunday; I mean... I dunno, maybe a month in a half, I don't want to just wait around forever. There's open opportunity to meet someone who does care... but at the same time there's not a huge open opportunity to meet someone like Elm.
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Posted: Mon Mar 31, 2008 10:31 pm
Well after a very strange summer break I finally got back to UALR. I dropped by the library to say hi to Emily and we just ended up having a pretty fun conversation about the game MechQuest... she got me addicted to it. xp I was already in a good mood thanks to passing my history test, I really suck out loud at history so it was a huge triumphant for me, so I went over there and the first thing out of my mouth was, "We have reason to celebrate!" She just gave me a strange look, then we laughed and talked about things we did over the break. She went fishing in the rain and I ended up joining a garage band. eek
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Posted: Mon Mar 31, 2008 10:54 pm
MangaJoe Well after a very strange summer break I finally got back to UALR. I dropped by the library to say hi to Emily and we just ended up having a pretty fun conversation about the game MechQuest... she got me addicted to it. xp I was already in a good mood thanks to passing my history test, I really suck out loud at history so it was a huge triumphant for me, so I went over there and the first thing out of my mouth was, "We have reason to celebrate!" She just gave me a strange look, then we laughed and talked about things we did over the break. She went fishing in the rain and I ended up joining a garage band. eek that sounds fairly random. A garage band. good luck with that. drums, guitar, vocal, etc...?
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Posted: Mon Mar 31, 2008 11:47 pm
Vocals... not many of my friends know I can sing, I don't like to talk about it because it makes me feel vain.
Why do I feel crazy for thinking I still have a chance at getting her to like me?! eek
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Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 8:14 pm
MangaJoe Vocals... not many of my friends know I can sing, I don't like to talk about it because it makes me feel vain. Why do I feel crazy for thinking I still have a chance at getting her to like me?! eek Vocals, nice. good luck with that. Why, you ask? Because it is fairly crazy. i guess there is a super slim chance like finding a million dollars randomly while walking down the street chance. Well at least it doesn't look like your friendship was was hurt, so that is a good thing. Sometimes friendships get super awkward after that. keep me updated, (on both the band and the girl situation)
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